Building a strong foundation of attachment with children is crucial for their future success and ability to connect with others. Dr. Gary Chapman and his guests discuss the importance of attachment theory, fearless exploration, unwavering resilience, and wise decision-making in helping children develop relational intelligence. [... more]

Happiness is a byproduct of a well-lived life, not a destination. To achieve happiness, one must choose to be a giver, not a taker, and cultivate gratitude and contentment by focusing on what they have, rather than comparing themselves to others. [... more]

The pursuit of happiness can lead to dissatisfaction and disillusionment, as it often focuses on personal pleasure and satisfaction rather than character development and serving others. A true happy life is one that is lived with purpose, serving others, and trusting in God's will, rather than seeking happiness as the ultimate goal. [... more]

Sexual freedom is more than just physical, it's about honoring God with our bodies. Our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, and we must recognize the cost of discipleship in our relationships, including our sexuality. By following Jesus and embracing our spiritual nature, we can experience deep levels of intimacy and oneness with our creator, and live a full and fulfilled life, whether single or married. [... more]

The church's influence on marriage and sexuality has been lost due to its focus on what it's against rather than what it's for. The apostle Paul's teachings in 1 Corinthians 6 emphasize the importance of marrying spirituality and sexuality, and that self-control, not self-indulgence, is a mark of freedom. The church should be a safe place to wrestle with questions about sexuality and intimacy, and followers of Jesus should bring their lives into obedience with the truth about marriage and sexuality. [... more]

Embracing your identity as a dearly loved child of God is the foundation for living a life of love, which is not based on feelings but on a choice to give and serve others unconditionally. [... more]

The concept of love is vastly different from the idealized view of romantic love, as it's a choice that involves giving another person what they need most when they deserve it least at great personal cost. This type of love, known as agape, is patient, kind, and gentle, and is the foundation of true relationships. [... more]

The Bible teaches that our heart is the center of our being, influencing our thoughts, emotions, and actions. To live a healthy life, we must guard our heart from negative influences and fill it with positive streams of life, such as God's word, relationships, and worship. By doing so, we can experience true relational intelligence and build lasting relationships. [... more]

The conventional wisdom of 'follow your heart' in relationships is a lie, leading to heartache and pain. A biblical perspective on relational intelligence offers a counter-cultural approach to navigating relationships, emphasizing the importance of wisdom and discernment over emotions and feelings. [... more]

Embracing relational intelligence means navigating relationships in a way that's countercultural and counterintuitive, yet deeply rooted in biblical principles. By understanding the importance of giving thought to our steps and recognizing the destination of our actions, we can cultivate intimate, life-giving, character-shaping relationships that reflect the rugged commitment of Jesus Christ. [... more]

We all desire intimate, life-giving, character-shaping relationships with rugged commitment, but how do we get them? Relational intelligence is the skill of navigating relationships well, and it's not just about acquiring knowledge, but applying the right knowledge to develop a skill. This series explores how to experience meaningful relationships and overcome common challenges in our culture. [... more]