Every marriage is moving toward oneness, which is God's goal, or drifting toward isolation. Unrealistic expectations, the 50-50 performance marriage, and selfishness are three threats to oneness that can cause couples to drift apart. By understanding these threats and making adjustments, couples can grow toward oneness and have a more fulfilling marriage. [... more]

Stephen Davey shares the story of Abraham, a man who trusted God's promise despite unmet expectations and chronic disappointment, and how his faith in God's character gave him the strength to persevere and find hope in the midst of adversity. [... more]

Anger is a secondary emotion, often masking deeper issues such as hurt, frustration, or insecurity. Understanding the root cause of anger requires courage to look below the surface, identifying unmet needs, unrealistic expectations, and personal attacks on self-worth. By recognizing these underlying factors, individuals can develop tools to manage anger and respond to situations in a more constructive manner. [... more]

When we feel angry, it's often a secondary emotion masking deeper issues like hurt, frustration, or insecurity. Recognizing this can help us address the root cause and respond more constructively. By using 'I feel' messages, we can express our emotions and needs without attacking others, leading to healthier relationships and personal growth. [... more]

Ben Bennett shares his personal story of struggling with addiction, trauma, and mental health, and how he found healing through a journey of discipleship and understanding the seven longings. He emphasizes the importance of relationships, forgiveness, and seeking help in overcoming struggles and finding freedom. [... more]

God desires to bless His people, providing for their needs and fulfilling their desires. However, many Christians miss out on God's best due to their own disobedience and lack of trust in Him. The Bible teaches that God's blessings are available to those who listen to Him, obey His voice, and walk in His ways. [... more]

Understanding temperaments, specifically the yellow temperament, can help individuals make informed financial decisions that align with their values and personality. By recognizing the strengths and weaknesses of the yellow temperament, individuals can develop strategies for effective financial management, such as using flexible planning tools and framing financial wins in terms of freedom and short-term wins. This approach can help individuals like Rob West, a certified kingdom advisor, navigate financial conversations with ease and make decisions that honor God with their finances. [... more]

Understanding how our God-given wiring shapes the way we communicate, relate to others, and make financial decisions is crucial for effective money management. The red temperament, characterized by a drive to control and a desire for efficiency, can be both a strength and a weakness in financial planning. By recognizing and addressing the emotional needs of reds, such as loyalty and control, individuals can develop healthier communication skills and make more informed financial decisions. [... more]

A conversation about the importance of softness in marriage, where wives approach their husbands with humility and a willingness to learn, rather than accusation or control. The discussion highlights the need for spiritual growth, effective communication, and mutual encouragement in relationships, and how vulnerability can lead to deeper intimacy and understanding. [... more]

A couple shares their journey of transformation in their marriage, from a pattern of criticism and negativity to a culture of affirmation and positive thinking. They discuss how their expectations and thought patterns affected their relationship and how they learned to speak life to each other, leading to a deeper connection and spiritual growth. [... more]

Waiting with faith and hope is a crucial aspect of navigating life's unexpected twists and turns. Certified Kingdom Advisors offer biblical financial advice, but even with the right guidance, uncertainty can be overwhelming. Sharon Epps shares her insights on how to wait with faith and walk forward with hope, drawing from scripture and personal experience. She emphasizes the importance of surrender, acknowledging God's work, changing one's perspective, and worshiping during seasons of waiting. [... more]

God's command to live in harmony with one another is non-negotiable, and unity is essential for the body of Christ. Conflict is normal and unavoidable, but it can be resolved through repentance, forgiveness, and following God's commands. By refusing to tolerate disunity, embracing conflict, and being the initiator in conflict resolution, individuals can restore harmony in relationships and live in harmony with one another. [... more]

Jesus prayed for unity among believers, and scripture commands it. The early church practiced unity, and it led to growth and transformation. However, conflict is inevitable, and it can arise from growth, theological differences, philosophical differences, and personality differences. Understanding these causes of conflict can help believers resolve it and live in harmony with one another. [... more]

The biography of Judas Iscariot reveals a complex individual who struggled with temptation, deceit, and a hardened heart. His story serves as a warning to those who appear to walk with Christ but conceal secret sin, and highlights the importance of repentance and faith in the face of God's sovereignty. [... more]

A personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ is the foundational need in every person's life, and three additional emotional needs - a sense of belonging, worthiness, and competence - are universal and essential for a fulfilling life. However, people often try to meet these needs in unhealthy ways, building emotional structures such as denial, avoidance, projection, lying, acquiescence, and conformity, which can lead to emotional crippling and prevent genuine relationships. By recognizing and tearing down these structures, individuals can experience real joy, real life, and real relationships through God's love and healing power. [... more]

When we deny our emotional pain and unmet needs, we build structures that prevent us from experiencing God's presence and intimacy. Charles Stanley shares his personal journey of dealing with denial and finding healing through a deeper relationship with God. [... more]

Discovering the origin of our unmet needs is crucial for spiritual growth and healing. We create needs by disobedience, rebellion, and misinterpreting our circumstances. Others can also create needs in our lives, such as childhood trauma or emotional damage. God creates needs to accomplish His purpose and plan, and He can heal any damaged emotion if we're willing to deal with it. Understanding the truth about ourselves and God is essential for freedom and healing. [... more]

God has placed in every single person a desire and a sense of belongingness, worthiness, and competence. These needs are met in Jesus Christ, who provides a sense of belonging, worthiness, and competence through an intimate relationship with Him. [... more]

Discovering our real needs is crucial to understanding God's promises and experiencing His love. We often focus on external needs, but true fulfillment comes from addressing internal, spiritual, and emotional needs, such as a sense of belonging and being loved. By examining our hearts and desires, we can find freedom and liberation, knowing that our Heavenly Father is always willing to meet our needs and help us become the persons He ordains us to be. [... more]

Women who experience a greater sex drive than their husbands often feel isolated and ashamed, but they're not alone. Research shows that 1 in 3 women will experience this issue in their marriage, and it's not just about the husband's lack of desire. It's about the complexities of human sexuality, the impact of societal expectations, and the need for open and honest communication in marriage. [... more]