Conflict is a normal part of marriage, but it can be destructive unless addressed wisely, lovingly, and with rules to govern the process. A biblical perspective on conflict emphasizes the importance of dealing with differences in perspective, selfish desires, and personality differences. To resolve conflict peaceably, couples can use the D-I-F acronym: define the problem, initiate a time to talk, and focus on the perceived problem, not the person. By using these skills, couples can learn to communicate effectively, forgive each other, and let the peace of Christ rule in their hearts.
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