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And the Critics Say ...

Hope for the Caregiver / Peter Rosenberger
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October 30, 2021 3:30 am

And the Critics Say ...

Hope for the Caregiver / Peter Rosenberger

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October 30, 2021 3:30 am

In an emotional phone call, a friend shared the recent criticism while struggling to care for her husband. Already reeling from significant heartache resulting from her husband’s condition, the scolding rocked her. 

“You should’ve done _______.

All too many spectators of caregivers often feel empowered to offer “advice” to those shouldering the challenges of caregiving. Sometimes non-caregivers bypass advice and go straight to criticizing. I suppose it saves time.

As a rule, the best opinions to heed usually come from those possessing training and education relating to the impairment of your loved one. Thirty-five years as a caregiver has taught me an additional rule:  the best counsel regarding your journey as a caregiver often comes from those with credible experience. 

There remains no shortage of opinions from those not doing the work. Those criticisms, if allowed, can wound the soul of a caregiver struggling to do her best.

When tempted to allow critics to assess your value as a caregiver by job performance, be fair and look at your attendance record. You keep showing up to care. Critics only show up to judge.

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This is Peter Rosenberger and this is your Caregiver Minute. In an emotional phone call, a friend shared recent criticism she received while struggling to care for her husband. Already reeling from significant heartache resulting from her husband's condition, the scolding rocked her. You should have done this.

You should have done that. All too many spectators of caregivers often feel empowered to offer advice to those shouldering the challenges of caregiving. Sometimes non-caregivers bypass advice that goes straight to criticizing. I suppose it saves time.

As a rule, the best opinions to heed usually come from those possessing training and education relating to the impairment of your loved one. And I love this quote from Theodore Roosevelt. Because there is no effort without error and shortcoming. But who does actually strive to do the deeds?

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