The biblical response to those who wrong us is to give the gift of forgiveness, just as God has forgiven us. Forgiveness is not about getting something in return, but about releasing the other person from the debt of their wrongdoing. It's a choice to let go of anger, bitterness, and hostility, and to treat others with kindness, tenderness, and compassion, even as God has treated us with love and forgiveness.
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