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Not Making it Worse Counts as a Win

Hope for the Caregiver / Peter Rosenberger
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September 15, 2023 9:44 am

Not Making it Worse Counts as a Win

Hope for the Caregiver / Peter Rosenberger

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September 15, 2023 9:44 am

From "A MINUTE FOR CAREGIVERS - When Every Day Feels Like Monday."

As caregivers, we regularly feel intense pressure to fix or achieve. Yet, despite our best efforts, many of the circumstances we face seem unyielding. Our self-judgment over things beyond our control often leads to an incorrect verdict of failure. 
Taking a step away from the caregiving realm, consider the “Slap heard around the world” at the 2022 Academy Awards. When Will Smith assaulted Chris Rock on stage in front of a global audience, Chris Rock responded with extraordinary restraint. Maintaining his composure, Chris Rock continued with the show and walked away with nearly universal approval because he didn’t worsen an awful situation. Not only did he handle himself well on stage, but in the ensuing media frenzy, he remained quiet about the event. Rock chose to address the incident on his timing—when temperatures cooled.
As caregivers, we regularly face situations that often tempt or provoke us into intense emotional reactions. Taking a page from Chris Rock, we can incorporate a simple strategy during uncontrollable experiences: Not making it worse counts as a win!
When we restrain our emotions and master our response to any given circumstances, we live a bit calmer and can add more victories to the “win column.” 

Liberty exists in proportion to wholesome restraint. —Daniel Webster

 

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This is Peter Rosenberg and this is a minute for caregivers. As caregivers, we regularly feel intense pressure to fix or achieve. Yet despite our best efforts, many of the circumstances we face seem unyielding.

Our self-judgment over things beyond our control often leads to an incorrect verdict of failure. Taking a step away from the caregiver realm, consider the slap heard round the world at the 2022 Academy Awards. When Will Smith assaulted Chris Rock on stage in front of a global audience, Chris Rock responded with extraordinary restraint. Maintaining his composure, Chris Rock continued with the show and walked away with nearly universal approval because he didn't worsen an awful situation. Not only did he handle himself well on stage, but in the ensuing media frenzy, he remained quiet about the event.

Rock chose to address the incident on his timing when temperatures cooled. As caregivers, we regularly face situations that often tempt or provoke us into intense emotional reactions. Taking a page from Chris Rock, we can incorporate a simple strategy when we deal with uncontrollable experiences, which is not making it worse counts as a win. When we restrain our emotions and master our response to any given circumstances, we live a bit calmer and can add more victories to the win column. Daniel Webster once said, liberty exists in proportion to wholesome restraint. This is Peter Rosenberger and this is an excerpt from my book, A Minute for Caregivers When Every Day Feels Like Monday, available wherever books are sold. There's more at HopeForTheCaregiver.com
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