As you live your life by principles, you're going to be questioned because people aren't accustomed to living by principle. Living efficiently is doing things quickly. and conveniently, but living effective means doing things right. And sometimes to do things right, you're going to stand out. When you're sold out for God, you'll stand out to everyone.
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Well, Mordecai lived his life by principle, and as a result, he stood out in the crowd. He refused to waver on his convictions, and what followed is a beautiful story of faith and favor that should give you the courage to face life's trials with full confidence in God. As you follow along today, remember, people may sometimes plot against you, but God is the author of your story, so He is the only plot that matters. Online, you'll find us at pastorpaul.net. Listen there on demand at pastorpaul.net.
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Now, here's today's Destined for Victory message: when conceit meets conviction. The king was that kind of insecure person. He had to keep proving. What he wished were true. Throwing these elaborate parties and banquets and trying to be somebody special.
Now how did Haman Get to slide in on the king's insecurity. You know how. You get in with insecure people, you flatter them.
Now, we're not told specifically what happens, but just in human psychology, you can easily see what happened. Haman had to have been a man who was able to today, folk would just say, suck up. Who could just flatter him and just make the king feel so special and so? Oh, you are the best, you are the brightest. There's never been a king in all of Babylon.
Forget Persia way back when it was Babylon. None of them were like you. Nebuchadnezzar couldn't light a candle to you. You are the man. I can easily believe that it was that kind of excessive flattery.
That impressed the king. to the point where he would give such a small man. Such a small-minded man, a great position. You can see by seeing Haman's actions throughout this book, you can see he was a petty man. You ever met a petty person just a little in terms of character and and development?
They're just small minded and petty and foolish and stupid. And full of themselves for no reason, wrapped up in themselves, and don't know they're a very small package. If you're gonna be wrapped up in yourself, at least have something. to be wrapped up in. Here's a man full of himself for no reason at all.
But I can easily believe he has just flattered the king and positioned himself with this insecure leader.
So look at the dynamics: you got a king who wants to show off. He is basically insecure. Then he's got a man around him who is constantly building him up. And so he can use his show-off instinct to promote this guy. Because if I promote him, then that still comes back to my credit.
So I'm gonna lift him up. And that's just another way of showing off. It's like people who, when they get a hold of money, they go do stupid things to show off with it. You ever met anybody like that? Instead of saying, Lord, thank you for this money.
Now let me do the right thing. Let me put some of this aside. Let me pay some necessary things off. Let me guess myself straight. No, they want to go out.
I'm paying for everybody. If they're at a bar, drinks for everybody. Y'all don't drink, but I'm just saying. You ever met somebody like that? Just drink for everybody.
And their wife or their kids or whoever knows their real deal and what they really need to be doing with that money and stands there. Have you lost your mind? Talking about drinks for everybody. And this bill was gone late, and this one, and they're about to cut off PG and E? Just stupid, just petty, just small-minded.
Kind of person you're looking at when you're looking at Heyman. Suddenly He is promoted for no good reason. You know, it's no good reason because the king had to command folks to give him honor. When you are honorable. Nobody has to be commanded to honor you.
Kings and I are by all right now. When y'all see him coming, you bowled a bow. You don't have to say that to an honorable person. If Haman were a man of distinction in that kingdom, People would have automatically said, Oh, look at that. The king's now giving him a higher position, and they would have given him deference.
That it had to be commanded? Oh, that tells me a lot about this brother. He is no count.
So yeah, The king commands that folk give him honour.
So that sets this. chapter up. And what happens is Everybody he walks by and everybody's bowing and scraping and going low. And Mordecai just stand right there. And you know, it's funny about people, when they bowing and scraping, they always looking.
To see who's not bowing and scraping. Have you noticed that about people? People won't just bow and do what they're gonna do, they're looking at you while they're doing it. He ain't bowing. What's up with Mordecai?
And so they start asking him. You know the king commanded us to give honor And really it's not just honor, it's homage. which is conspicuous Honor. And the king commanded them to conspicuously honor. him And they see that Mordecai just standing there, and they start questioning him.
Let me pause long enough to say, as you live your life by principles, You're going to be questioned. Because people aren't accustomed to living by principle. They're accustomed to living by convenience. Or just command. They just put their lives on autopilot.
Just do what folks do. Go where people go. Say what people say. Dress like people dress. Act like people act.
Buy what people buy. You get the point? When you live your life by principle and say, well, no, I do what is right. I don't just seek to live efficiently. I seek to live effectively in the will of God.
Living efficiently is doing things quickly. and conveniently, but living effective means doing things right. And sometimes to do things right, you're going to stand out. And Mordecai isn't trying to draw attention to himself. He just knows in his heart: I cannot give honor to this dishonorable man.
Because what they're asking for is homage, they're asking for adoration. The king commanded that people would practically worship the man that they would give adoration. And they would just Just act like he is just the greatest. And Mordecai is thinking, no, the Lord's command tells me. See, he's an Old Testament Jew, he's living according to the commandment given through Moses.
And he's saying. No, the Bible tells me. That I should worship only the Lord my God. And him only should I serve. He's saying the Lord is telling me I can give honor to people.
The commandments did not forbid honor. When you see the Jews, they were accustomed to giving honor to honorable people. But here you have adoration being commanded. to someone who is dishonorable. Both things were unsettling.
Now, you can honor somebody who is dishonorable if they're in a certain kind of office. To a certain level, I believe, let me just walk you through this: since we are believers, followers of Christ, seeking to live our lives right, you ought to give honor to a president no matter which party they're in or whether you voted for them or not. It's the right thing to do. I honor the office even if I'm not crazy about the person. I honor the office.
Have you ever watched like the West Wing and those kinds of shows? When the president walks by, the staffers get up. They just, I mean, they're sitting there working, but if the President's walking through my room, they stop and get up. And when he passes, then they go back to work. That's just giving a kind of deference that makes sense in our system.
It's not worship. It's not adoration. But it's a respect thing.
Now it takes discipline to do it when you don't like the dude. Let's just get this straight. And see, the Bible will help you not only live for Christ, but it'll help you navigate this world better. You gotta learn that because you're gonna have bosses sometimes you don't like. Guess what?
They still the boss. Notice that nobody asked you how you felt. about them being the boss. If you want that job, I suggest You give appropriate honor and respect. You can't show off and show out just 'cause you don't like them.
You can disagree with their lifestyle. You can say, I couldn't live that. That's not God's will for my life. I disagree with your lifestyle. I disagree with the way you live, with the decisions you make.
But if you're my boss, I give you appropriate honor. That's just right.
So go to work tomorrow and do better than you've been doing. Yeah. I just bless somebody's job. They don't know it, but I just bless their job. You're going to come in there with a better disposition.
And they're going to wonder what happened to you because you sat under the word and said, all right, Lord, I'll do it your way. Cause listen, because the Lord sees that. And the Lord who sees in secret will reward you openly. Don't go away, the rest of today's Destined for Victory message featuring Pastor Paul Shepherd is coming right up. In John 14, 6, Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life.
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Now, for more on the conflict between Mordecai and Haman, let's get you back to the rest of today's Destined for Victory message: when conceit meets conviction.
So here's what's happening. Mordecai says, I can't give this guy adoration.
So he refuses.
So, what do they do? The folk who are bowing and scraping but want everybody else To be like them. When they can't talk Mordecai into being like them. Then they go to Haman And say, Oh Haman. Guess what?
There's a man out at the gate. He wouldn't bow to you for nothing in the world. And get this, this is the kicker heyman. Get this, he's a Jew. You see what's happened?
They're not content to just live unprincipled lives themselves.
Now they want to Expose. people living by principle.
So Haman's enraged. And what does he do? At first, he thinks, okay. Maybe I should go get this guy in trouble by telling the king. He said, he knows how to work the king's ego.
Telling the king, he's disobeying you. He is not, it wouldn't be a big deal to me, but the people see him disobeying you. The same kind of reasoning. Remember that they gave that got Vast tie put out. See, you can't let folk just ignore your command.
So it worked with Vastai, and he knew it could have worked with Mordecai. But look at the evil in Haman's heart. Haman thinks, no, I don't want to just get Mordecai killed. Let me get all of 'em killed. Do you know when you do research into Hayman's background?
you discover that he's an Amalekite. You say, well, what's the significance of that? Back in Exodus chapter 17. You remember when the Amalekites came out against the children of Israel when they were in the wilderness? You remember that time, that period when Moses had to stand on the mountain, and as long as his arms were raised, God's people were having victory.
And after a while, Aaron and her had to get up under his arms because he was tired. And they said, Don't worry, we got to get them arms up.
So one got on one arm and one got on the other. And that's how God's people had the victory. Who were they fighting? They were fighting the Amalekites. And God says toward the end of Exodus chapter 17 that I will war against the Amalekites from generation to generation.
God Himself declared war on them. Because they despise the things of Jehovah. and the people of Jehovah. And this guy is one of those folks. Centuries later, he is one of those that God is warring against.
And he's thinking. I want to wipe out the whole nation. I've come to give you a sobering word. There are some people in your life who, especially as they see you living for God and living principled lives, especially when they see you getting things right, getting your life in order, resolving your issues, dealing with the challenges you face, and getting your life lined up with God's will, they will despise you. And I've come to let somebody know they will even try to take you out.
If not physically, some will try to do it physically, but if not physically, they'll try to assassinate your good name. They'll try to assassinate your reputation among other people. They will try to ruin anything they can about your life. They will try to cut the legs out from under you. They will try anything they can to bring you down because they resent that you live for God and you stand for God.
But here is the word of hope I want you to leave here with. Even though you will find people with a very evil agenda as it pertains to you, you don't serve them and they don't have the last word in your life. I've come to let somebody know: yes, you have very real enemies, they hate your guts. I know you don't like that. I know you said, I don't believe I came out here for him to tell me how much folk hate me.
Yes, we're in Esther 3. That's the lesson. They hate you. Stop being in denial. They hate you.
You don't even know how bad they hate you. You know a little bit. Truth is they hate you more than that. But here's the good news. Oh well.
Oh well. Haman is mad. He wants all the Jews dead.
So what happens? He goes to the king and gets a decree. Gets the king to sign off on an irreversible decision, what is customarily irreversible for them. To have all of the Jews killed. And a single moment of genocide.
A single day of genocide, a single period of genocide in all of the province in his kingdom, he wants them all destroyed. Haman wants it, and the king, who is too weak to think for himself, And to realize, you know, I promoted a no-count man, and now he's trying to do wicked things. No, the king just said, okay. Listen, people can have a very wrong agenda where it pertains to you. Here's what you got to know.
My role is to live for God. Make right decisions. Keep my heart pure.
Now, listen, don't be stupid. That doesn't mean that you just make yourself completely available. When folks show you they don't like you, believe them. Believe them. Don't be this kind of plastic Christian where you think you got to be up in everybody's face and be available to everybody.
And what have you known when they prove themselves unworthy of your trust, when they prove they don't have your best interest at heart, when they prove that you can't turn your back on them, then back out looking at them the whole time. No sign of following the Lord that you just, I'm gonna just, I'm gonna let God have my back. Sure, you let God have your back, but you ought to have your own back too. I'm trusting God to do what I can't do, but I don't have to trust Him. If I can't trust you, I'm going to watch you all the way out.
I'm not inviting you over. You say, but what about the scripture that says, if your enemy hunger feed him, send the food. Oh, I'm trying to help somebody. I'm trying to help somebody. I've had to learn to do that.
Send it. I would, under normal circumstances, I would feed you at my table. But now that I know you're an enemy, now that I know you're distrustful, now that I know you lack character, now that I know you have a personal agenda that's evil, I'm not going to bring you into my house and sit you down at my table. I can feed you from afar. Call up Pizza Hut.
Would you give them a... Send it over to 37. What's up?
So listen. Haman is out to destroy a whole nation of people. Over his bruised ego.
Sometimes it's just that simple. When humans are elevating.
Sometimes it's not complicated. Their feelings are hurt. They have a little personal agenda that you won't cooperate. And they will destroy a whole nation over stupid stuff.
So what you have to do is realize Fortunately, Although they can bring real trouble. into my arena They don't get to write my story.
So they can usher in the trouble. If God lets them usher in the trouble, the trouble will come. I'm preaching this because some of us are in trouble right now. And you're trying to figure out who to assign it to. You don't have to assign it to God.
They're wicked people. We live in a wicked world. We live in an ungodly world. We live in a place where things are not always right. They are not often right.
We live among people who will make horribly unjust decisions. We are subject to a legal system that can be horribly unfair. All of us know there are a whole bunch of innocent folk in jail and a whole bunch of guilty folk walking around. God didn't do that. Unjust people did that.
Whole lot of people know on your job there are people who have about one-third your intelligence. But there are two or three pay grades over you. You know that's not right. But it's the way of the world. You know what you have to say, Lord?
They're not right. But you are in control. And ultimately, whatever you have to do. to bring about your purpose. In my life and in this world.
I'm trusting you. And folks, if we'll just trust God.
Next week, I'll get into what happened. See, I'm leaving it, this is just like a soap opera, leave it hanging right there. What happened? He didn't put out a decree, and they're supposed to kill all the Jews in one day. What happened?
Tune in tomorrow.
Now you got to come back to church. That's right. But know that God is in control. We live in an unjust world. People are shady and shaky.
And wicked. Not all of them are un-Christian. Just 'cause somebody say they saved. don't mean that they are not unjust.
So, whether you got saved relatives or unsaved ones, whether you got saved folk on your job or unsaved ones, whatever the situation, you judge them by their character. Not by their label. But you know No matter what. God is in control. And he's going to accomplish his purpose.
In my life. You know, even when you're facing the worst trials and crises of your life, the victory has already been won for you through the person and work of Jesus Christ. You will see the walls of Jericho come crashing down because in Christ you are destined for victory. If you haven't already downloaded our free mobile app, now's a great time to do it. Search Destined for Victory in the app store and listen to these messages wherever you go.
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