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November 13, 2021 12:30 pm
Welcome to Masculine Journey fellow adventurers! This week's topic is number 3 of a 3 part talk that is given at the boot camp. The talk covers the core desires in the middle of the heart of man. The clips are from "Shrek," and "Groundhog Day." The journey continues, so grab your gear and be blessed, right here on the Masculine Journey Radio Show.
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Welcome to the masculine journey. I know you're missing Sam immediately because you like where's that Sam is an and always off in the Bahamas.
You know how often is he been at the beach when exposed to darn much, he probably all shriveled up on definitely release from the beach. He would occasionally call us is not calling us from I don't know I don't understand an end. And again it's his topic three takes the topic and then delete before boot camp and he bails it fails but anyway where really excited that you're joining us today.
We've got a topic that's near and dear to our hearts because we been talking for the last two weeks about the core desires of a man's heart so two weeks ago we started out with which one anti-here for that. When you said you noticed a battle to fight. There you go. And so the ideas it actually every little boy when he was first on the scene you you probably would not take him long before he noticed it is wrestling with his dad. He's trying to make a gun out of his graham cracker is gone. Some like that if you had a boy pitched in because it's it's in their and the idea is that you have that heart because God has in heart. We are made in his image, and so we were born into this this battle and so we were given this wonderful warrior how we did that and then the following week we talked about some else you'll see in the boys right is was what the inherent list and then so when you think about a little boy and adventurer what you think about Harold went back in the you know when the Dead Sea was just sick. But I was little room and through neighborhood woods, etc. stick that we might induce sword beat down the bushes was there. I am one of the neat things back on and the words it was like man who knew what animal might come out of the lions and tigers and bears on Meyer where the bees go, we can get lost in all these things challenging the young man's heart.
So we did that so interestingly the third core desire which I don't know if you remember this one better. I think it's it's critical that we awaken these in our heart to see. Wow these were in us from the beginning is risky or this desire for this really really young lady so you had to give an example of this. If we go back through the centuries right Harold.
Harold said you would think here is actually just turned 80. Right 28th and so but you can still remember right the very first young lady that very young lady that smitten the heart of Harold. Oh yeah, I was madly in love with Patricia Bucklew and Sullivan Alabama bucket live here that BYU reserve sweetheart.
Don't get upset with Ashley and her in over 70 but you told us it you went to the movies with the system as she lived in the house was across the street from the theater and we can go to the movies for medical was a talky, silly ideas like can you think back for you. You know is you listening today.
Maybe it's your on the other side of this in your you know I think back to a young man that your Smit review this idea of crushing like before you had and when you're innocent completely innocent.
You know what that felt like. In the course every young lady wants to be rescued and so we have a clip here from actually my favorite rescue in the beauty clip because it speaks so clearly to what the young ladies expectations are and to got to give.
You know us an idea of man of what what it supposed to be like so here we go. It is from track, and I'm sure you know the set opposite know she's just rescue her from the Dragon in the tower and here you and I used to know how to operate the system, and radio all that hope you know one naming rights.
No I have only 10 minus know know you wouldn't just wasn't in the job description, not how it is seen with strict well you see I'm not your type. Okay you are you now know easy unit expecting Prince charming actually supposed to be an ogre so much with noble steed brings us to not make in my jumping and so you know this was were married. It wasn't long before the helmet came off a mirrorlike, but you're not supposed to be an ogre experience that in the occasion of the refund but think back then.
In your case right.
The very first time that manager you distort your crush and whether whether that feel I can remember what I was thinking about the premise behind Lewis Rick the the desires of being a night in shining armor you no matter who the girl was goes as we discussed early seem to change, especially in Jim's case healing touch with them on that later. But the premise behind what were talking about is that desire to be someone's knight in shining armor that you to rescue beauty to rot away in victory and neck thing LOL as always, there is trying to avoid the question.
So let's get back to it. What was her name was her name, her name was Michelle. Okay. And what did that feel like in your heart like you remembered to burn some think it did. I told you it was some drugs tween here and raise their lipids. The other you did just just want to impress the beauty right right like and and so now I'm not sure where this passage in the Bible, but it's absolutely one of my spectacular one favorite I like to think about it often. It's in the song of Solomon chapter 2 verse nine and the way it reads is my love is like a young as our young stag seat. He is standing behind our wall gazing through the windows, peering through the lattice. In other words, Jesus is talking like we have the heart that we have that I don't know if you ever have young girl that you just had to get on the street because you're hoping she would come out the front door.
Are you would so that you could just get a look at her and it was just something that just absolutely build a fire in your heart you really didn't know what to do with that and you were totally innocent, but it was just really busy great feeling and and why do we have that because Jesus has any hazard for his bride. And so every man has this and so if everybody sitting here would everyone agree to table that. What is gotten us into more trouble this this particular desire. So what a lot of men do they bury it right and they don't really find anything but that, because that one that one can really hurt and it can really get you into some bad places and in who was it that several of the court, as ours was not to mess up.
It was Andy. We mean, I think I think that's the thing is, you do have the core desire and when you do mess up. You know you won't go there again, but desire is in there. I think part of it to do is we talked about this and you'll see. Maybe seeing some of our other clips. It you know a lot of times that we we we take our question to the beauty and we don't really take it to God and we get things at a balance of main and so when you save for those turning and I don't know what that means you write your question to the really it's where do I get my validation where to where his life really coming from. To be honest with you. Yes, God's there a lot of lot of our lives and ends. Quite frankly, I think sometimes we make those relationships with the female and idle in our lives. I think I probably had not not really intentionally but not you know you don't know really what you're doing, sometimes with that. But when it any time you put we know this anytime you put anything before God. So is if you're having to make a decision about whether I do what she says or what God says. You probably have an idol or if you get more satisfaction from their time with her than he and him and I think this is critical we are, rescue newbie beauty, but we have all been hurt by not handling the female heart properly and getting things out of wax seal was have to go start there.
In this conversation of getting priorities straight into your point.
Jesus has he does look at us and desires for that for us will to reject him for that woman is you know Randy what was her name all you are you telling us what was her name is okay. Her name is.
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It was just crushed that I had was somebody that I spent a lot of time with so and I'm I'm sure that you're all wondering.
I cropping what about you. Well here we go. There was this young lady really work if you want.
I was in sixth grade (the second time. So what you say to get back with your sort of anyway. The second time I drew over the summer to 6 foot five current height I mad I just got this crazy grocery where I was, but denies about 150 pounds and so walking string bean if it best if you get to section 60 with very small feet I tripped over and constantly totally uncoordinated just not a pretty picture.
So anyway, but there was this girl she sat in front of me in math class all my goodness that was it, man.
The heart was on fire and all I could think about was weird and I have this dance of the junior high school and was a sock hop so you know you're in the jam of the sock scene is good at it. So there's still over there and I'm working on think you know I've been outside with several flowers. She loves me she loves me not serve the Kurds walk up to the girl even when she's there and I forget what song was playing while I was walking towards her, but I know what the song was once I arrived was hey Jude. Now that's a beautiful song by the Beatles and giving the error which not putting together. Sue was maybe 3'9" tall and I was 65 okay hey Jude is a slow song because that means that I was bent over and I was sore like a weeping willow trying to hold onto the scroll and the song went on for seven endless minutes is federally the chiropractor.
A lot of people say Rob comes over when you want it all straight development stage you anyway so some of this, the stuff goes wrong and so we got another clip.
Jim Juergen set up for us from another great movie.
The movie was that Robbie Groundhog Day. Well, this is a fellow that is trying to pursue a woman and he has the bandage finding out more. More about her because he is reliving the same day and it in this particular encounter. His motives were wrong and he is after her, but it's a funny saying that something that a lot of us can relate to that, silly pursuit interested in you know what you like what you think about menuing rail failing to timely.
I'm just trying to talk like how they talk and you will are you seeing anyone into personal thank you, when you want what I really want is clean what you look was your perfect first. That's me intelligent intelligence is remnant range may also find that he doesn't have to look I have a great body and sometimes I go months without looking kind gentle this is to use the word coping and plays an instrument. I am really close on really, really close and really really is. She sees right through his hose, which is another thing He is trying.
Ultimately, in his pursuit.
A becomes less selfish and is a better motive pursuit love with her so getting in around me on the hook for a minute you know you know what was her name, Ronnie CS were I don't remember having one that young try to remember that's where been ever since we started asking us know before the show like who could it have been like to get back before like the fourth grade. I like, blank.
I can't come up with one of my unit one is there like glamorous okay so what was her name, Kathy Kathy and the it was Prussian time.
You know absolutely else I can think about it so I could pursue analysis way it goes when you're no don't know what you're doing and you scatter that is that honest crushing your heart know that is just it's it's real. This is what it is they can sometimes go as fast as they come in, but it certainly you know some that you that you urged come into what probably are six boot camp cooks could be related to lease six, if not separate and so as you had these I I'm sure you're like most of us, and I have no idea what to do with that right. In other words, I yeah I've got this desire, but man, every every direction I ever went with it.
I ended up in deep trouble and you know I may been married for 22 years. Whatever. When I came my first boot camp. I don't know some like that but I will still like man I have no real sense of what God has for direction of what to do with this particular area of my life and that awaken some of that stuff are you running yeah because I was sad be more like Phil Connors there Groundhog Day. Well, like hey I would love that I have no consequences for my actions. I could just learn and ask every day and learn and finally get it out her for the wrong reasons that me to accuse you put me in a real-life situation is running hi give me heck out of here. Get me away. I don't do not want to engage in this because it's too realist to too much on the line and going through boot camp after boot camp and being with other men that know how to pursue the heart of a woman and understand what your role as a man is to love as Christ loved the church completely changes your whole outlook on life, not just even with the beauty but in rescuing. In living for others, and raising her right to have you seen yes, she said issues were held by KI see her heartbreaking so you can jump in and talk to her where it really works out well because we just had a talk last night, even where she's she took a job out of college and she just is not been what she was promised to stop being good and she took the leap of faith. I really said okay I'm not gonna pursue the job any longer. A little wave and then on to the next job and she's landed another job. We talked about a lot of things during this transition doing this and it's just been notified.
Ralph my heart. I hope it's been half as good for hers and you had a discussion with your daughter.
Not long ago because she was like I don't want to be written of the feminine thing and mean is this a lot of for like it's just like when I was just went their appetite after how are you doing that and so much more coming to me after our seeking go to mass and journey.org register for the book and coming up next week. We would love to see out there. We hoped all awaken. You know what it is that Christ went to do for the church like so range for the boot camp training for after hours. This is the Truth Network