Forgiveness is a decision that cancels a debt and breaks up intimacy with God, but it's not about excusing or ignoring reality. There are two types of forgiveness: legal forgiveness, which is settled forever when you accept Christ, and relational forgiveness, which is conditional and deals with fellowship with God. Unilateral forgiveness is given without an apology, while transactional forgiveness involves repentance and confession.
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