From Valley to Victory, Part 16

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866-626-4356 or ltw.org. Up next, a challenge to allow the Holy Spirit to empower you to reach the culture in which you live and the people that you love. Listen with me as Dr. Michael Youssef begins today's Leading the Way Audio. In the last message, I was personally struck by the Apostle Paul's explanation of true worship and how true worship is not only 24-7 offering of oneself to the Lord, it is a total commitment. In fact, Henry Drummond, the man of prayer, said the following, he said, the entrance fee to God's kingdom is nothing, but the annual dues are everything. The phrase, the cost of discipleship has not been preached from most puppets these days. Cost of discipleship, count me out, I'm out of here.

And yet Romans chapter 12 verses 9-21, Paul is far from telling the believers in Rome to accommodate to this loveliness of the culture in Rome. Far from it, he is giving us a list of 25 demands. 25 demands. These demands, and listen to me very carefully, can never, never, never, never accomplish with our own strength. Only the Holy Spirit who dwells in us, only that power of the Holy Spirit that can make the Lord Jesus love through us, can enable us to meet these 25 injunctions. So turn with me, if you haven't already, to Romans 12, beginning at verse 9.

The most important thing about that passage is that you have to keep it in context. For it is only after a believer has been deeply moved by the mercies of God and by the grace of God, as we saw in the last message, only then, out of gratitude and out of thanksgiving, the believer would want to offer his body as a living sacrifice to the Lord. And only when the believer begins to offer all of him and all of her as a living sacrifice, only then that the mind begins to be transformed into the likeness of Christ. And when the mind begins to continuously being transformed, only then, in that state of transformation, you're going to see that these three things which I shared in the last message, that you will have an accurate perception of yourself. You have an adequate perception of others and you will have an active serving mentality. Here, Paul continues, verses 9 to 21, and says, when all of that happens, and only then, true love, genuine love, is going to manifest itself in us.

Only then. So to make it easier for you, I have codified those 25 injunctions into eight. First, in verse 9, says, love hates evil. Secondly, in verse 10, love gives honor. Thirdly, verse 11, love is passionate about God. Four, verse 12, love hopes and perseveres in prayer. Five, verse 13, love loves to give. Six, verses 14 and 15, love feels deeply with others. Seven, verses 16 to 19, love refuses to get even. Finally, in number 8, verses 20 to 21, love reverses the cultural norms.

Let's go through them very quickly. Love hates what? Evil. Paul describes genuine love, real love, not the fake one, but the real love. Literally, without hypocrisy, and he uses that Greek word, it's without hypocrisy. And there's some translation that says sincere, but literally, without hypocrisy. What's hypocrisy? The word hypocrisy, the Greek word that Paul is using here, comes from the ancient world of acting. Why the ancient world of acting?

Because back then, in the ancient world, the actors put a mask on to be somebody else or something else. And Paul is saying, hypocritical love is a love that puts on a mask. Hypocritical love is a love that loves in words only. Hypocritical love is a love that loves when it's convenient. Hypocritical love is a love that's only seasonal or as needed basis. Judas was one of the twelve disciples and he, for three years, had a mask on the entire time, but the day came when the mask fell and the real person showed up.

Sooner or later, the real person will be revealed. Listen to me, today, we have such a confused and false notion of love, and we think love is really not condemning sin. Professing Christians would tell you the definition of real love is that mushy, fuzzy, warm feeling. That love is that milquetoast reaction to sin or the suspension of our critical faculties. Now, beloved, you do not have to go to a seminary to comprehend what the Word of God is saying here regarding true love, regarding genuine love. Genuine love hates evil.

I have to confess to you that the more I walk with Christ, the more I genuinely hate sin in my life, in words I cannot even express. Genuine love must hurt evil. Genuine love must hate compromising of the Word of God.

Genuine love must hate rebellion against the command of God. The only security against sin is to be continuously be shocked by sin. You know what is happening in our culture? We no longer shocked by rebellion against the Word of God. The first stage came a few decades ago when we baptized sin into the church, and then we got worse sin and got that baptized too. And what it's doing to us is anesthetizing us against being shocked by sin. We're accommodating to it, not shocked by it. Please think with me, think with me.

Try to imagine a group of doctors and nurses who are working in the infectious disease ward of a hospital, who refuse to wear protective gear. You say, that's unconscionable, and I agree with you. I agree 100%. But that's where many Christians are today.

Let's wake up, beloved, before it's too late. Amen? Loving people but hating sin is not only a must, it's the only way to thrive in this perverse culture. Love hates what? Genuine love gives honor to whom honor is due. Now I know and you know that there are some people confuse honoring somebody with flattery. Now listen to me, flattery is a sin. And I pray none of you practice it. But honor shows genuine appreciation for those who have ministered to us.

It is not a sin. Honor is your respect and acknowledging of the faithfulness of those who ministered to us. Honoring others is a sure way of strangling envy and jealousy in our lives. Honoring faithfulness is a mark of genuine love. Love hates what?

Love gives what? Love is passionate about God. Verse 11, back in the days of the Wesleyan brothers' revival, a Methodist revival, they used to call passion for Christ. They used to call it enthusiasm.

That was the word and this was a big accusation of anybody who's really passionate about Christ. And they literally put people on trial if they're accused of enthusiasm. Today we can have passion for a sports team. I mean we can have passion for a hobby. We can have passion for countless things and we are called fans. But try to have passion for Jesus and you are called fanatic. Beloved, passion for God does not mean mindless activities. Passion for God does not mean mindless emotions but rather Paul is trying to tell the believers in Rome and indeed to us today that we should not cool off our zeal for Christ and for His Word.

Can I get a witness? That we should not be cooled off by the godless environment in which we live. That we should not become indifferent toward the gospel of Jesus Christ and those who have lost, been lost. Love hates what? Love gives what? Love is passionate about? Love hopes and perseveres in prayer. Look at verse 12. Rejoicing in hope and persevering in prayer.

What does that mean? Well, it means that you shouldn't be discouraged when God has not answered your prayers immediately. Don't give up praying in the face of resistance. You don't give up praying the moment you are rejected. Listen to me.

Don't give up. God will answer at the right time. Remember what Paul said in 1 Corinthians 15, 58.

If you remain steadfast, if you remain immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, your labor is not in vain. When you are faithful to the only one who can generously reward you, when you are faithful to the only one who can see you all of the time, when you are faithful to the only one who can truly bless you, when you are faithful to the only one who can truly answer your prayers, then you can rejoice in hope ahead of time and then you wait in prayer. My experience in praying is that God gives four answers, at least from my personal point of view. He gives four answers, not one or two, four. The Lord says no, not yet. Or sometimes He says no, I love you too much to give you that. Or He can say yes, I thought you will never ask. And the fourth one I've experienced many many times to doubt it.

He says yes, here's more. Exceedingly, abundantly, Thomas Brooks illustrated our lack of perseverance in prayer this way. He said, cold prayers are like arrows without heads, swords without an edge, birds that have no wings. They pierce not, they cut not, they fly not to heaven. Cold prayers freezes before it reaches heaven.

All I can say is Lord have mercy. Love hates evil. Love gives honor. Love is passionate about God. Love hopes and perseveres to the great. Love loves to give. Verse 13, I want you to know at the outset one of the greatest blessings in my life, blessings that literally blesses me out of my socks, is that I have been privileged to know some people who love to give.

And the reason I love them is because I want to emulate them. They will never know the sight of heaven, what a blessing they are. And I've seen them in Australia, in Europe and here in the United States, of course in this church. I cannot tell you how much these folks bless me, just for watching them. But sadly, I have also known others who nickel and dime God.

You know what I'm talking about? They nickel and dime. Should I tithe before taxes? Should I tithe after taxes? What does the word tithe mean? We're going to look it up in the dictionary, it's 10%.

And that's the starting point, not the ending. Should I only give when I have extra money or should I give? Should I even tithe at all? Beloved, here's the core problem about giving. Listen to me, here's the core problem. We think of ourselves as the owners of everything that God has given us.

And that's really the era that many, even Bible-believing Christians fall into. We think we own it. We think it's ours. We don't realize that we are managers and working for the boss who gave us everything. Listen, the Bible makes it absolutely clear, we are mere managers.

And one day we're going to give an account. And don't forget that the boss, he's watching you. He's watching patiently and longing for you to come into the joy of being hilarious giver. How are you managing that which is entrusted to you? According to Jesus, in Luke 16 10, is that those who can be trusted with very little will be trusted with much. Love hates evil. Love gives honor. Love is passionate about God. Love hopes and perseveres in prayer. Love loves to give. Love feels deeply with others.

Look at verses 14 and 15. Rejoicing with those who rejoice and weeping with those who weep. Now rejoicing here does not mean participating in this mindless parties.

It's partying. That's what some people think rejoicing. No, that's not rejoicing. But because it's tied up with loving of your enemy here in this context, rejoicing therefore means the following. Listen carefully.

Say you and somebody else in your company or in your organization or within your sphere are up for a promotion. He or she gets it, you don't. Can you rejoice with him?

That's what it means. Can you rejoice for that person? Say you are another person in a context.

He wins, you lose. Can you really rejoice for that person? See, that's what it means. Say you watch how God has blessed someone and you're struggling. Can you say oh God, thank you for blessing my friend? See, that's what it means here in this context. Now you have to agree with me that in our culture, any culture, this type of rejoicing with others even at our expense can only be, can only be a Christian principle.

Only in the Christian faith. Love hates what? Love gives. Love's passionate about. Love hopes and persevering. Love loves to. Love feels deeply with others. Number seven, love refuses to get even.

Look with me at verses 16 all the way to 18. I don't know about you, but have you ever asked yourself the question, what is the primary reason for wanting revenge? Have you ever asked that? What is the real motive inside of me of wanting to hurt someone who had hurt me? What is the underlying desire for that payback?

You know what I'm talking about? You hear it a lot in the media, you punch me, I'll punch back, right? Why do we want to stick it to somebody who wounded us? One word, pride. Pride, that's the underlying reason that is the bottom line motivation. When you see people who specialize in gossip and sowing seed of division, they only do that because they're conceited.

As scripture indicates that these folks really refuse to be associated with people whom they see to be below them. Pride, pride. Let me testify to the glory of God. In all my years in ministry, I have never been more freed up and liberated than when the time I learned to pray for someone who has falsely accused me, who has unjustly criticized me. I pray specifically for God to bless them and bless their family and bless their people, bless their work, bless their people. I specifically spend time praying that God would bless them. Oh, by the way, stop, stop.

In case you start thinking that I'm a super-duper Christian, don't. I'm ashamed of the fact that it's taken me years to learn this lesson of genuinely praying for someone who wronged me. To pray for someone who deliberately impugned my motives, to pray for someone who deliberately maligned me. Love hates. Love gives. Love's passionate about. Love hopes and perseveres in. Love loves to. Love feels deeply with. Love refuses to.

And finally, verses 20 and 21, love reverses the cultural norms, the cultural norms. The natural thing in our interactions, in our behavior, the natural thing is he hit me, I'll hit him back harder. He punched me, I'm going to punch back with more vigor. He attacked me, I'm going to attack him with all I've got.

He marred my reputation, I'm going to do it back with vengeance. That's just the natural world which we live in, the fallen world. But you know what Paul is really saying here?

Now let me give you a use of not translation, interpretation, okay? You cannot take care of your enemy better than God can. So you might as well leave him or her to God.

God will do a much better job with justice than you can. In this way, you will also heap burning coals of shame on their head. Here's what I know about burning coal and that's actually repeated in the scripture several times. It comes from ancient Egyptians. In ancient Egyptian culture, this was a ritual. When somebody is found guilty by the court, they put a container on which burning coal inside that container and he would have that on his head and keep walking around. And as you walk, people on the roof seeing that happen, they would throw more coals on it.

So it would keep on burning. This was a punishment. That was meant to be a punishment by the authorities. A guilty person is paying penance.

Beloved, listen. See how the Bible reverses everything. For Christian believers, he or she reverses the social norm and thus they shame their enemies, not by revenge.

No. Christian believers reverse this process of evil by praying for the wrongdoer. I still don't like the wrong. You must understand me.

I still hate the wrong, but praying, that is worse than putting a heaping burning coal on their head. I can tell you on the authority of the Word of God, you cannot do any of these things that I've just talked about from the epistle to the Romans on your own strength. I want to repeat this. I said it in the beginning. I'm saying it now. I know that every faithful believer here who said, oh man, Michael, I remember when I was trying to do it and I was trying to do it and it grieved my teeth and it just didn't work.

It will not work. No matter how strong will you may be, you can only do this in the power of the Holy Spirit within you. Challenging words from Dr. Michael Youssef to allow the Holy Spirit to work through you in impacting others with the love of Christ. Thank you for joining listeners all over the world for Leading the Way with Dr. Michael Youssef and his impactful series called From Valley to Victory. This and all of the messages by Dr. Youssef are not only available online at ltw.org, but they're also available on the Leading the Way app.

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