As followers of Jesus Christ, we often find ourselves striving to reach a higher plane. to rise above other sinners as a model of goodness. But in Paul's letter to the Romans, we're learning that our goal is not to become a better Christian, it's about finally becoming an authentic one. Today, on Insight for Living, Chuck Swindahl invites us to open our Bibles to Romans chapter 12. In this passage, Paul describes seven fundamental truths of an authentic Christian.
and each one is an expression of pure love. Chuck titled today's message, Christianity 101. If you have a copy of the New Testament with you, please turn to the 12th chapter of the letter to the Romans. I should warn you ahead of time that this is a very convicting section of Scripture. As I've said to you before, I've lived with it all week, and I thought today I'd share the conviction with all of you.
You'll feel it as we work our way through it. Actually, the section that's so great is the last half of the 20. 12th chapter. Not that all of it isn't great. But verses 9 through 21 form in a nutshell the Christian life.
Well, we've called it. Christianity 101. We haven't the time to deal with the last five Verses plus verse 14, so we'll wait till the next time for that, but About all we can take in one sitting will be 9 through 16, so let's go there. Romans twelve, nine. Let love be without hypocrisy, abhor what is evil.
Cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Give preference to one another. In honor. Not lagging behind in diligence, fervent.
In spirit, serving the Lord, rejoicing in hope. Persevering in tribulation. devoted to prayer. Contributing to the needs of the saints. practicing hospitality.
Bless those who persecute you. Bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice. and weep with those who weep. Be of the same mind toward one another.
Do not Be haughty in mind. but associate with the lowly. Do not be wise. in your own estimation. You're listening to Insight for Living.
To dig deeper into the book of Romans on your own, be sure to purchase our Searching the Scriptures Bible Study Workbook by going to insight.org slash offer. Chuck titled today's message, Christianity 101. What are you leaving for the next generation? What are you leaving in the minds of those who will outlive you?
So that their lives Or deeper, richer, better. than yours has been. Horror novelist Stephen King lived through a horrible experience. Even though he is rich and famous, he's also very human. And when hit by a car in 1999 and left in a ditch to die, Life sort of passed in review and gave him a whole new perspective on things.
Two years after it he wrote about it. And in the writing, he left all of us with a message regarding that question I asked you earlier. King writes. A couple of years ago, I found out what you can't take it with you means. I found out while I was lying in a ditch at the side of a country road covered with mud and blood.
And with the tibia of my right leg poking out the side of my jeans like the branch of a tree taken down in a thunderstorm. He is forever the horror writer, isn't he? I had a MasterCard in my wallet, but when you're lying in a ditch with broken glass in your hair, no one accepts MasterCard. We all know that life is ephemeral. But on that particular day in the months that followed, I got a painful but extremely valuable look at life's simple Backstage truths.
We come in naked and broke. We may be dressed when we go out, but we're just as broke. Warren Buffett? Going to go out broke. Bill Gates.
Going out broke. Tom Hanks? Going out broke. Stephen King. Not a crying dime.
All the money you earn, all the stocks you buy, all the mutual funds you trade, all of that is mostly smoke and mirrors. It's still going to be a quarter past getting late, whether you tell the time on a time X or a role X. No matter how large your bank account, no matter how many credit cards. you have sooner or later Things will begin to go wrong. with the only three things you have that you can really call your own.
Your body Your spirit. And your mind.
So I want you to consider making your life one long gift. to others. And why not? All you have is on loan. Anyway.
All that lasts. is what you pass on. Everything I have to say now has to do with the final eight words of Stephen King's statement. All that lasts. is what you pass on.
I'm going to ask you to imagine yourself in a most unusual place, but someday you will be there. You are lying in a casket. Your days of life have passed. Your family is sitting nearby staring. Blinking through tears.
Your friends are there. Remembering. What are they remembering? I can assure you, they are not remembering your financial portfolio. They do not have in mind your possessions.
or your photos. What you leave the next generation really has nothing to do with anything tangible or measurable or audible or even edible. It's what lives in their minds. It's the memories they take with them. As the lid of the casket is closed, And as it's placed six feet down in the ground.
It will be a model of a life well lived. that will enable them to live a life quite likely even better than you or I lived. But they need that example. We often search in vain to find that Golden list. That set of specifics we would love to use as a.
Guideline. to take us from now till that moment. We breathe our last. I'm happy to say that such a list has been preserved, and it's not simply the writing of a brilliant man. who made a major emphasis and impact on the first century.
It's preserved for us by God. It has His stamp of approval. This preserved list is in the latter half. of Romans chapter 12. beginning at verse 9, all the way down through verse 21.
Time doesn't permit us to take the last subject. Which is a subject unto itself, and how to deal with those who are difficult to love. Those who have hurt and injured us. Maybe even persecuted us.
So we'll leave out verse 14 as well as. 17 through 21 today, and look at that next time. What we want to see are these core values of life. in 9 through 16. Not surprisingly, Love takes center stage.
It immediately dominates the scene. In fact, I'm convinced. that the love mentioned in verse 9 is really unpacked in the verses that follow. In light of that, Let's define it so we understand it. What it means and doesn't mean Let's understand why it's so important, and then we'll analyze the verses and think through them.
The best definition I've ever come across is found in 1 Corinthians 13. And sometime when you will take an hour alone, would you just read it aloud again and again? And again. First Corinthians thirteen is the greatest treatise ever written on love. If I were asked to give one sentence, it would be this.
Love is seeking the highest good of the other person. It is seeking what's best for the other person.
Sometime, admittedly, love is tough. Firm, stern, strong hearted. Unwilling to look the other way. It's not making someone comfortable, it's not telling them what they want to hear. It is not treating them like they've treated us.
It is not looking the other way when we encounter wrong. This part of love is tough love. It's Relentless. There are other times when love must be tender.
Soft hearted. Marked by compassion. Understanding tolerance. Grace and forgiveness. Both sides of the coin make this love authentic.
And you need both tough and tender. Best example who's ever lived. is of course Jesus of Nazareth.
Now, why is it such a high priority? Why is seeking the highest good so valuable in life? It's because it shapes and colors all the other virtues that we admit. are important to life. All the virtues I'll mention today Are colored by our love, and so we'll return to the word over and over again.
When we put love on display, this is the way it looks. Look at verse nine to start with. Love has two major qualities. Sincerity Which is the opposite The opposite. of hypocrisy.
And second, Love has discernment. which is the opposite of gullibility. Let's take them in that order. Let love be without hypocrisy. You see your text.
If you carry the New American Standard Bible, you'll notice the first three words are in italics. Let love be. The Greek sentence begins simply: agape anhupakritas. You can understand that, though you may not know Greek. Agape love, en hupacritas.
from which we get the word transliterated unhypocritical. The sentence begins, love unhypocritical. Right out of the chute. Paul is making it clear, if it's love, it must be. Real love, it must be sincere love.
There's no place for a mask. There's no phony baloney. There's no play acting. There is no think one way, act another. There is no theater.
Love is real, gut level real. It has nothing to do with hypocrisy. John Murray was right. If love is the sum of virtue and hypocrisy is the epitome of vice, what a contradiction to bring these together. Get rid of all hypocrisy, and you're on your way to true love.
But I will tell you before you start the project. You've got a lifetime of work cut out for you. We are shot through. with hypocrisy, and Christians can be the worst. Who hasn't been hurt by a hypocritical Christian?
who signs that harsh letter in the love of Christ. Love must also be discerning. Notice Abhor what is evil. The word means to shrink back. to detest When love encounters what is evil, it shrinks back.
It doesn't embrace it. It doesn't look the other way. Remember, we're seeking the highest good of the other person. It confronts Albeit. lovingly.
Love abhors what is evil. It shrinks back from the presence of evil. But when it finds what is good, oh, it embraces it. The word is the idea of gluing or bonding oneself to it.
So when you pass on That which is worth living out in the lives of your loved ones and your friends start with love. Let it be. Let it be sincere. Let it be discerning. Before I move on, I warn you about just Today's concept of love.
Everything is love, love, love. It's loving everybody, loving everything. As one young Christian said to me several years ago, I just love even the devil.
Well, sweetheart, stop. There's nothing to love in the devil. There's nothing to love about demonic things. That isn't love. Charles Ryrie said it best: love is a river.
and they must be bordered on each side by the banks of truth, and discernment. Guard your love. It must have boundaries. Or, like a river that leaves its banks, it floods and does dangerous things.
Now there are several other components. That As we Analyze love emerge. I'll find seven of them in the verses that follow. First of all, verse 10, be devoted to one another. in brotherly love.
Paul reserves family words for the first part of verse 10, and I would use the words devoted affection. When love runs its course correctly, sincerely, Without hypocrisy. At the same time, Uh in a sense of discernment and strength. then it begins to reveal a familial Warmth. devoted Affection.
This is a good time for me to ask about your relationship with your family. How are things with your brother? With your sister. How are you with your parents? and with your children.
Forget the ages. Doesn't matter what their age is, how are things with you and your family? Phila Delphia. Brotherly love is what's rendered here in those words. Is there a philosophy?
Affection. for your brothers. Your sisters. Your mom and dad. Your children.
Your grandparents. Your grandchildren.
So starting there, the Apostle begins to unpack the concept. of that which we pass on to others to make their lives richer. Devoted affection. It's followed that the latter part of verse 10 with honor. By the way, they go together, don't they?
When there is this kind of familial affection, we give preference to one another. in honor. The word means respect. It's a willingness to defer. to another.
It works its way out in listening when they speak. Allowing them to disagree. respecting their opinions. Caring how they feel, paying attention to what isn't said. Showing gratitude.
for one another. I've noticed as a minister of the gospel that when I Serve families when they have come to the end of one of their loved ones' lives. That I often hear words of great gratitude and honor and respect said, though the deceased is now gone. unable to hear them. And how often I've thought, Did you ever tell that person that while they were alive?
It does no good to drop a note in a casket. It does no good to stand over the loved one who is gone and tell them what they mean to you. Don't wait. Don't wait. Devoted to one another, respecting and honoring one another, saying so now.
Now. The third is one of my favorite traits in life, and it doesn't surprise you. enthusiasm and passion. Look at verse 11. Not lagging behind in diligence, fervent in spirit, the Greek has in mind, boiling over, boiling up as if water were boiling in the pot, boiling up in the spirit, serving the Lord.
It's the whole idea of active optimism, energetic zeal. It's the opposite of lethargy and indifference. It's the thought of living one's life on tiptoe. Benjamin Zander wrote a book I read several years ago, one of the best books I've ever read, called The Art of Possibility. Zander at the time was conductor of the Boston Philharmonic.
also professor at New England Conservatory of Music. He writes as a musician, not surprisingly, but he also connects with life as we understand it. Writes a whole chapter on passion. And in that chapter, he includes these words: a young pianist. was playing a Chopin prelude in my master's class, and although we had worked right up to the edge of realizing an overarching concept of the piece, his performance remained earthbound.
He understood it intellectually. He could have explained it to someone else, but he was unable to convey the emotional energy that is the true language of music. Then I noticed something that proved to be the key. his body was firmly centered in the upright position. I blurt it out.
The trouble is you're a two-buttock player. I encouraged him to allow his whole body to flow sideways, urging him to catch the wave of the music with the shape of his own body, and suddenly the music took flight. Several in the audience gasped. Feeling the emotional dart hit home. as a new distinction was born, a one-buttock player.
The president of a corporation in Ohio, who was president as a witness, wrote to me later. I was so moved that I went home and transformed my whole company into a one-button company. I thought, what a great model for Stonebriar Church, a one button church. People would come from all over to see what went on inside here. Xander continues, I met Jacqueline Dupree in the 1950s when I was 20 and she was 15, a gawky English schoolgirl who blossomed into the greatest cellist of her generation.
We performed the two cello quintet of Schubert together, and I remember her playing was like a tidal wave of intensity and passion. I love those words. Tidal wave. when she was six years old. The story goes, she went into her first competition as a cellist.
and she was seen running down the back corridor, carrying her cello high above her head. With a huge grin of excitement on her face, a custodian noting. what he took to be relief. on the little girl's face said to her, see, you've just had your chance to play. Jacky answered excitedly, No, no I'm just about to play.
Do you take life by the throat? Beethoven said that when he was going deaf. Or do you see yourself as a helpless, pitiless wimpy, whining victim. Please. Spare us.
As a friend of mine wrote me when I was whining not long ago, Crimea River, Chuck. We've all got our problems. Please. Put that cello over your head. Please Move at that piano bench.
Please. Show the kind of boiling over passion and zeal described, In the words, not lagging behind in diligence, fervent in spirit. Trust me. When I've lost the passion for preaching. I'll step aside.
Not until. There is passion here, but there is also the convicting verse that follows, which I had hoped someone would have cut out of my Bible before we got to verse 12. It's the verse on patience.
Now let's go on to verse 13, shall we? Can't do it.
So let's take patience, all right? Look at the three phrases. Rejoicing in hope. Persevering in tribulation. Devoted to prayer.
Look at the sandwich. Look at the sandwich, the meat. Is perseverance in tribulation. But the bread on each side. Look closely.
Is hope. And prayer. How do I get through tribulation? How do I make it? How do I have the patience to endure under the load and the pressure of the trial?
I continue to hope Seeing that which has not yet happened, but anticipating it as if it has already occurred. I get there in hope.
Someone has said you can live about seven days without water. Four minutes without air. but only seconds. without hope. Every person who takes his life has lost hope.
Hope keeps us going. And then there is the devotion to prayer. which can never be displayed. The secret of any ministry is the prayers. of the saints.
The secret of every meaningful life. is the prayer of a partner. a group of friends. Billy Graham speaks to this day of a woman. He's named her several times.
I can never remember her name, which wouldn't bother her at all. An older lady who has followed him. year after year. In prayer. He says, Her reward would be greater.
than mine. This is Insight for Living. And here's the bottom line: the Christian life isn't a theory to discuss, but a love to demonstrate. Jacques Windahl is teaching from Romans chapter 12, and he titled this message Christianity 101. In this passage, Paul identifies seven expressions of love.
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