So, all of us owe God a debt we couldn't pay. That's why Jesus came. And that's what he means when he says the master took pity. on his servant. Took pity on his servant and forgave the debt.
That's what Jesus' coming is all about. God took pity on us. And when he looked at our helpless estate, He wrapped himself up in flesh and came down. and redeemed us. In light of God's mercy towards us, how can we not show mercy to others?
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Now, let's listen closely to Pastor Paul's Destined for Victory message: dying to move on. Do you understand? The magnitude of that part of the story. Jesus said a king had a servant who owed him 10,000 talents.
Now we don't live where talents is one of the means of exchange. And so you've got to understand that according to our economy, many scholars estimate that a talent, as spoken of here, In that context, it would translate in our society to $2,000. One talent, two thousand dollars. Do you know what that means? That means that Jesus said there was a servant who owed his master $20 million.
$20 million. And when it came time to pay, he didn't have it.
Well, tell me something I don't know. Of course he didn't have it.
Now, Jesus was just using that figure because his listeners would realize that's an overwhelming figure. But the point, Jesus' point is, there was a debt that there's no way it could be covered.
So even if you're a multi-millionaire listening to this message, for you, the figure is 200 million. And even if you're a billionaire, for you, the figure is 200 billion. You see what I mean? It's a figure you can't pay. That's what Jesus meant.
You owed a debt you couldn't pay. Guess who he's talking about? He's talking about you and he's talking about me. We owe God a debt we can't pay. Do you know salvation has all to do with God and nothing to do with me?
There's no way I can save myself. There's no way I can stand right before God. There's no way I can obey some little set of commandments and satisfy the nature of a holy God. We were born in sin. We were dead before we ever got here, dead in trespasses and sins.
And then as we've lived our lives, We've lived a life full of sin. We've sinned in action, we've sinned in attitude, we've sinned in motive. We had sin we never acted on. There were people we hated enough to murder. We were just too scared to go to jail.
And so all of us owe God a debt we couldn't pay. That's why Jesus came. And that's what he means when he says the master took pity. on his servant. Took pity on his servant and forgave the debt.
That's what Jesus' coming is all about. God took pity on us. And when he looked at our helpless estate, He wrapped himself up in flesh and came down. and redeemed us. My $20 million was paid off on the cross.
Glory to God. Not only mine, but your 20 was paid, and your 20 was paid, and your 20. Everyone whoever turns to Him in true repentance and confesses, I need you, Lord. Jesus' blood paid off your $20 million.
Now, that's the good part of the story. But now read on. But when the servant went out, verse 28. He found one of his fellow servants. who owed him a hundred deneri.
He grabbed him. and began to choke him. Pay back what you owe me, he demanded. Jesus is saying that when we hold people in unforgiveness, We are like a servant who was just forgiven $20 million. Who then goes out, and do you see what Jesus is suggesting is the audacity of the heart of unforgiveness?
He says, We have the nerve to have been forgiven for sins past, present, and future. forgiven by a holy God. And then he says, when you hold someone in unforgiveness, despite How hurt you are, and how broken you are. You've got to learn to trust God with that debt. And he says, When you don't, it's very much like a person having been forgiven for $20 million who then goes out.
Did you see the language? He says, The servant lounging, which means he was looking for him. You don't find what you're not looking for. Find and look go together. See what I mean?
Didn't say he came across him, it says he found him. I submit to you that my man left the palace and instead of floating out of there, so happy that he has forgiven this debt. He jumped in his car and started cruising the streets. Looking for somebody. Where is Johnny?
Johnny owes me A hundred deneri, you say, well, what's a hundred deneri? Literally, it would mean a few bucks.
So let's stick with the 20. Johnny owed him twenty bucks. He was just forgiven 20 million dollars. Johnny owes him twenty dollars. The king had pity over twenty million.
But he's cruising the streets looking for Johnny so he can get his 20. He's sitting outside Johnny's job waiting for him to come out. I want to make this plain so you get it.
So you see where we are when we hold people in unforgiveness. He's looking for him, and when he finds him, Johnny's gotten into his car. He drives behind and blows his arm. Pull over! Johnny gets out because he doesn't know he's in trouble.
Johnny had probably forgotten about the 20 bucks. Or even if he knew it, you know, he knew, okay, when you really jam me up over it, I'll pay.
So Johnny pulls over, jumps out of the car, and the Bible says this servant runs up to him and grabs him by the throat. And says, you owe me $20, and I want my $20. I'm not playing with you. Want my twenty bucks?
Now, I I need you to see something. I need you to see. That Verse 29 says, His fellow servant fell to his knees. and begged him Be patient with me. And I'll pay you back.
Does that remind you of something? That reminds you of when he was in the palace himself. Owe him 20 million dollars and beg the king. Please give me time.
Now, I want to show you something. Both of them asked for time. I want to suggest that when the servant who owed $20 million asked for time, that was a bogus request. When you owe somebody twenty million dollars You don't need a couple of weeks. Couple of weeks is not wait till my next check, no.
When you owe somebody $20 million, the only reason you need time is so you can get a passport. Uh Yeah. I need time for my passport to come through.
So that I can get on a plane and go God knows where and start a new life. That's a bogus request. He wasn't paying back $20 million. That's why the king had mercy. Because he knew there's no way he'll ever pay me back.
But now when Johnny owes him twenty bucks. And as for time, That's a reasonable request. Because you can get 20 bucks. It doesn't matter. You can just say, hey, just give me time for my next check, and I'll give you the first 20 out of that check.
Even if you're currently unemployed. And you owe somebody $20 that you absolutely got to get up off of. Think about it now, you can come up with $20. Everybody can come up with $20. It doesn't matter what the situation is.
You can, listen, if you got a lawnmower. You can come up with twenty dollars. Just borrow. You say, well, I don't even own one. Borrow one.
Call folk who love you. Say, hey, would you let me hold your lawnmower? I need to make 20 bucks. And go find somebody with a raggedy lawn and knock on their door. Would you please let me cut your grass for you?
What are you gonna charge me? $20. See what I mean? You can come up with this. Many of us have lived in the east and the midwest, places where it snows in the wintertime, you didn't have to be broke.
Not totally broke. You could always come up with something. A friend of mine was in seminary in Chicago. And one night in the dead of winter, he was praying because, you know, he's a broke seminary student, and he and his wife had just had their first child, and he was just struggling. He's working, you know, part-time and going to school full-time and what have you.
And he said, We didn't have a week's worth of groceries in the house. He said, And I was praying that night, oh, God, please, Lord, please, I need to take care of my wife and this baby. He said, while I was praying, it started snowing. Chicago in the wintertime. Started snowing at night, and he said it snowed all night.
Next morning, he woke up, went to the window, saw all this snow, and said, Thank you, Jesus. He said, I grabbed a shovel, kissed my wife, said, Baby, I'll be back with some money. Ran out, knocked on doors, said, Can I do your walk? Can I shovel your driveway? And he said, I didn't let anybody turn me down.
If my price was too high, I went on down. He said, I got home with pockets full of money. Listen, you can make 20 bucks. In fact, if you don't want to go to all that hard trouble, you can stand in front of 7-Eleven and make 20 bucks. Pooh!
If I don't want to go that industrious route and borrow a lawnmower and all that, I just stand there and say, hey, when you come out with your chains, can you hook me up? And you stand there long enough and get those quarters and a dollar here and 50 cents there, you'll have your 20 bucks. And my point is that when he asked for time, Johnny asked for time, that's not a bogus request. He can get the payoff.
Now, that's a best case scenario. There are some people who, when we confront them about the fact that they owe us an apology, they owe an acknowledgement for what they've done wrong to us. They're unwilling to pay. Still ahead, the rest of today's Destined for Victory message with Pastor Paul Shepard. Our mission at Destined for Victory is to serve you and all of our listeners by sharing timeless truth for a victorious life.
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Now, here's Pastor Paul with the second half of His Destined for Victory message, dying to move on.
So, suppose you're dealing with somebody who's unwilling to pay. Suppose you're dealing with somebody who would say, I don't owe you $20, get out of my face. And you have that type of person in your life. What d'ye do? When somebody won't pay you, Jesus said, compared to what I did for you, they owe you about 20 bucks.
And he's implying: if you just trust me with it, I care about the $20, but it's not your job to try to get it from somebody who refuses to pay. Jesus is implying, let me be your collection agency. Because I know how to deal with your enemies. And I'd rather forgive them. I'd rather convict them.
I'd rather save them than punish them. But know this. If they refuse to repent, Punishment is coming. No one's ever gotten away with messing with a child of God. You don't mess with God's kids and live to tell about it.
You might seem to get by in this world, but remember what Psalms 37 said: Fret not yourself because of evildoers, because they will soon be cut off. And if they don't get it in this life, they still didn't get away. Because one day they're going to face God in judgment. And God will have the account of their sin against you. Right before him.
They won't get by. But from your perspective, God says, I want you to realize that compared to how much I've done for you. They only owe you twenty bucks. And I care about the 20 bucks. But I refuse to let that stand between you and your divine purpose.
And if you'll release it to me, I will take your life from the bondage That they created. and take you to a glorious place of freedom. And so, when you really think about it, the reason why God commands us to forgive is He's blessing us with the ability to move on. And you're so far ahead? If God forgave me $20 million and somebody owes me $20 that they won't pay me, $20 worth of apology, $20 worth of acknowledgement, $20 worth of I shouldn't have done that to you.
And they won't even pay? God says worst case scenario, you're still ahead 19 million. 999,000. 980 bucks. You see what I mean?
I'm way ahead. Because of what Christ did for me. You shouldn't have wronged me, but it's not going to stop me. You shouldn't have mistreated me, but God will take that mess and turn it into a message of His grace and power. And I want to tell you something.
I want to tell you something. If you're holding anyone in unforgiveness, God calls you. To deny the flesh that desire to want to exact your own brand of revenge, which is futile in the first place. And he says instead, I want you to release them. into my hands.
Now, when you do that, when you trust God... With that thing. And you forgive, please understand what forgiveness is. It means that I send the offense away from me since I'm not built to carry it. I don't have the ability to handle it.
I give that burden to God because it's too heavy for me. I send it into His hands, and then I'm in a place of obedience, and I can say, Now, Father, I'm deeply bruised, I'm deeply hurt. And I need you to minister. To this area of my life, of my psyche. I need you to minister to this area where they have messed me over.
And what you will discover is that when you, as an act of your will, trust the Lord and forgive them. Then you're in a place to receive his healing. Because the hurt is very real. The impact of what they did is very real. But when you release it, you position yourself to say, okay, Lord, you know I need some help here.
And he can begin to pour in. His grace. and his power to bring you to a place of healing and wholeness. And healing very often is a process.
Now, God can and at times does instantly heal someone of broken emotions, but at other times he will allow it to be a process where he'll teach you through the process how to trust him and how to walk with him. And sometimes God allows our healing to be slow because there's more He wants us to learn through the process. He knows he's going to get us to the place where eventually it doesn't hurt anymore. I can have the memory of what happened, and it doesn't sting the way it used to. But in the meantime, I'm also learning some things about the love and grace of my Heavenly Father.
And I want to let you know, God's got plans for you, and they're so big that He can't afford to have you stuck. in a place of unforgiveness.
Now I've said many times before. You know, often folk will ask: well, when I forgive a person, does that mean I have to trust them again? No. Trust is trust. Forgiveness is forgiveness.
In fact, if you've proven to me you're untrustworthy, I would be foolish to trust you. Forgiveness has nothing to do with whether I trust you. I often give the illustration: if you have a crackhead kid who is in your house stealing all your stuff to support their habit, you need to practice tough love and put them out. And if you forgive them because of how they've wronged you and lied and stolen and took your money and all of that, The proof that you forgave him is not that you give him a key to your house. No, no, I'm not giving you a key to my house not because I haven't forgiven you, but because you'll come in there and take what I bought to replace what you stole the first time.
That's not tied to forgiveness. I love you, I've forgiven you, I've given you over to God, and I'm keeping you out of my house. It all works together. Don't let people put a guilt trip on you.
Well, you didn't forgive me because you still don't trust me. No, I don't trust you because you haven't yet proven that you're worthy of trust. I've told parents who have kids who are dabbling in the things, don't you listen to this worldly nonsense? Their space is their space, and you honor their space. My kids knew growing up, thank God they're saved and they have developed a lifestyle where I can trust them with an awful lot of freedom.
But listen, if my kids had shown me as they were growing up that they couldn't handle privacy, they wouldn't have had any. How are you going to have privacy in my house? And I know you're messing around and doing all kinds of crazy things, not in my house? And the same thing when it comes to trust. You trust people at the level they can handle.
Forgiveness is a different matter. Forgiveness means I won't be your warden. I've given you over to God. And I can trust that God will take. My desire.
To see his will come to pass. My sacrifice of my desire to exact revenge. And he'll use that. and take my life, From the bondage because unforgiveness is bondage. And God wants to set you free.
To enjoy his plan and purpose for your life, to bring you through a place of healing. Teach you some lessons about his love and grace. And ultimately, you'll arrive at a place where, just like Joseph in the Old Testament, he was able to look at his abusers who were his own brothers. who in our way of thinking destroyed his life. by sending him to a foreign country.
The fact is they didn't destroy his life because his life wasn't in their hands. And my friend, I'm here to tell you that your enemies, your abusers, your molesters, your offenders, that person who did you wrong in that business deal, that spouse who was unfaithful to you, whatever it is, they did not destroy your life. Because your life is not in their hands. Your life is in the hands of the one who said, I paid a full price for you. And if you think I'm going to let some person, some broken person, some messed up person destroy your life.
You got another thought coming. I'll take you just like he did Joseph. And I will put your enemies at your feet if I want to. But my daddy taught me years ago: but God will never put your enemies at your feet until you have grace not to step on them. You know, Jesus didn't simply ask us to forgive our enemies and pray for our enemies, He asked us to share the gospel with them.
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