What I Would Tell My Younger Self | Embracing a Changing Perspective

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It's the official companion resource for the new Amazon TV series also called The House of David. You don't decide what hand you will be dealt in life but you decide how you will react to it. Coming up today Pastor Greg Laurie points out whatever trials or pain we encounter can be a tool in the hands of God to make you into the person he wants you to be.

And here's the thing you discover in time, your pain can be effectively turned to gain because what you have gone through was not designed to destroy you but to develop you. Have you noticed how our perspective changes in life? Some of us hated certain vegetables when we were kids and now well we may still hate those vegetables but that's not the point. The point is our perspective changes right?

We eat vegetables because they're good for us. Today on A New Beginning Pastor Greg Laurie helps us realize that a changing perspective is good evidence that we're maturing and today we'll see how we can embrace and enhance that maturing process. The title of this special message is what I would tell my younger self. What would I say to a young Greg as an older Greg?

What advice would I give myself? What things would I tell young Greg to avoid? What things would I tell young Greg to do?

Well there's the obvious answers. I would tell young Greg press your teeth every day boy because you do not want to have to spend as much time at the dentist as older Greg has. Of course I would tell younger Greg wear sunscreen. I was a blonde kid out at the beach a lot.

I don't think I hardly ever wore sunscreen and I've had more than one trip to the dermatologist so I'd certainly give that advice. Maybe I would say to a young Greg you know when Star Wars comes out and all those figures are in the original packaging? Don't open those. Save those because you'll be able to sell those for a lot of money later. I think that's true of original Barbie dolls in their packaging. I just read the other day that an original copy of the Legend of Zelda video game sold for get this $411,000.

So I guess they would say young Greg go find a few copies of the Legend of Zelda because they'll be worth half a million one day. But don't take it out of the original packaging. Now these are silly things. Things that don't matter all that much. But I want to talk about things that really do matter. What I would say to a younger me and in effect what I'm saying to young people right now. Let me give you a little bit of advice. Maybe you don't have a mom and a dad that are doing this for you or a grandfather. Let me be your dad for a few minutes or your grandfather and say things to you that you need said to you as a younger person.

This first this first one may be surprising but I'm going to start with this. Whatever you're going through it's going to be okay. Whatever you're going through it's going to be okay.

I know when you're young and you're experiencing things for the first time life can seem kind of scary. You're wondering about what you're going to do with your life. Where you're going to go. Who you're going to marry.

What career path you're going to choose. And then maybe something bad happens to you. You have a huge setback.

You break up with your boyfriend or your girlfriend. And it almost seems like your world has just ended. Listen it's going to be okay.

You're going to get through this. I look at photos of my younger self. By the way I just rediscovered these really old photos of me as a little boy.

I believe they were taken when I was living in New Jersey. I was around six or seven years old. And I look at this little guy and knowing now what I know now I know that little guy is going to go through a lot of suffering. His mother would effectively abandon him. He would never have a father growing up. He would be passed around from aunts and uncles. He would spend a considerable period of time in military school. Life would not make sense to him. Sometimes he would be up all night wondering when his mother was going to come home. And she wouldn't come home. And he'd have to get himself ready for school.

And take a lot of responsibility on as a little kid. But here's what I would say. God has his hand on you.

God is going to watch over you. I mentioned I was passed around to family members. And I did spend a bit of time with my grandparents.

And that was probably one of the most stable times in my life. Because they functioned as parents. But they were parents from another century.

They were quite old when I was living with them. And they believed in old-fashioned values. But fortunately they believed in old-fashioned food too. Starting with fried chicken. And by the way we had fried chicken. We didn't just go to the market and buy chicken like normal people. My grandfather would kill a live chicken. Cut its head off.

I remember as a little kid watching him do it one time. He took the chicken. He put it on a tree stump. He took out the hatchet or the axe I should say.

Boom. Off comes the head. And the body is running around spurting up blood. And as I recall it started running toward me. And I'm thinking how does the chicken body know where to go? I felt like the little chicken head laying there was saying go straight. Turn right.

Turn right. Whatever. It traumatized me. I still break out in a cold sweat when I go buy Chick-fil-A.

Not really. But fresh chicken. Mashed potatoes made from scratch.

Black eyed peas. So many incredible things she would make every night. But her crowning achievement was her biscuit.

This was a biscuit unlike any other I have had any place. So it was good. It was stable. And I remember we would sit in the front room of my grandparents house. They each had sort of a lazy boy type chair.

And I would sit in a little stool in the middle. And I remember we watched Billy Graham. And how was I to know as a little boy that I would one day meet him and actually become friends with him. My grandparents had a little painting of the face of Jesus over the furnace.

It was a floor furnace. And I remember I would look at that picture of Jesus for hours thinking about him. There was something about him that that interested me. How was I to know that I would come into a relationship with him.

And he would change my life forever. So despite the hardship I went through as a little boy I was able to react to it in a different way because at the age of 17 I put my faith in Jesus Christ. Listen to this. You don't decide what hand you will be dealt in life. Some of you are in a stable home with mom and dad raising you in a wonderful way. Some of you are from a broken home.

In fact probably more of you are from a broken home. And you are facing an uncertain future. You don't get to pick what hand is dealt to you in life. But you decide how you will react to it.

And here is the thing you discover in time. No matter how bad your upbringing is or bad the experiences are that you go through your pain can be effectively turned to gain. God can take your setbacks and turn them into setups. Your tests can become a testimony because what you have gone through was not designed to destroy you but to develop you. To develop you so you'll be a different person. And I've been able to take the pain of my past and use it as a tool to help people who are going through similar pain.

The Apostle Paul speaks about comforting with the comfort that we ourselves have been comforted with. Pastor Greg Laurie will have the second half of his message in just a moment. Hey everybody I want to encourage you to join us for something we call Harvest at Home. It happens every Sunday at harvest.org and on our brand new app Harvest Plus which is available on your mobile tv devices. Download it now and you can watch Harvest at Home with Christians from around the world as we worship together and study God's Word.

So again join us for Harvest at Home at harvest.org or on Harvest Plus. Well Pastor Greg is getting very personal today letting us in on those things he would tell his younger self. Good wisdom coming our way today. I read just the other day that the majority of Gen Z has high levels of anxiety and stress. Let me say something to my younger viewers right now. I know it's harder for you than it was for us when we were growing up. I know older people will say things like you know when I was a child it was so much harder. No it's harder for you guys. One of the reasons it's harder is many of you are coming from broken homes. Another reason it's harder is because everything has been escalated. In my day I might get beat up at school. In your day you might get shot in school.

The drugs are much more serious and much harder and of course you have social media that amplifies everything and has changed things dramatically. I also read that Generation Z are afraid of the future and one third of this generation struggle with suicidal thoughts. Am I talking to somebody right now who has contemplated suicide?

Maybe you've even attempted to take your own life. I want you to know something. I want you to know that you are loved. I want you to know that you are wanted. I want you to know you're loved by more people than you could ever imagine and I also want you to know that God has a special plan for your life. You matter.

We need you. Don't contemplate ending your life. I just watched a documentary film called Roadrunner. It's about the life of celebrity chef Anthony Bourdain. Bourdain first kind of broke out with his book that he wrote called Kitchen Confidential.

Then he started working in television and had a very successful show on CNN called Parts Unknown that took him around the world meeting all kinds of people tasting the most exotic foods and sort of the life that many people would only dream of. It's almost like this film Roadrunner was designed to show why suicide is the worst possible solution because they interviewed many people that really cared about Anthony Bourdain and how much they missed him and how much they loved him and how devastated and in some cases traumatized they were by him taking his own life. Bourdain actually had a scene filmed where he's with a psychiatrist and they're having the discussion together and to the psychiatrist he says I would like to be happier. I would like to be calmer.

I'd like to be able to relax. I'd like to be able to look out the window and say life is good and the psychiatrist replies well you don't do that. You can't look out the window and say life is good and Bourdain replies no I can't and then the psychiatrist says to him you need to start thinking do you want to change anything and Anthony Bourdain responds I think it's too late for that. Listen it's never too late to change. I don't know what trajectory your life is going in right now. I don't know what bad decisions maybe you've made at this moment but it's never too late to change and it's not just changing the way you feel.

You need to change the way you think. Christ can change the course of your life. Listen just as surely as there is a God in heaven who loves you there is a devil that's headed to hell who hates you.

And Jesus summed up the contrast when he said in John 10 the thief speaking of Satan comes only to steal kill and destroy but in contrast Jesus said but I have come that you might have life and that more abundantly. So there's your choice. Life in a relationship with God. Death outside of a relationship with God. Don't let the devil whisper in your ear that you should take your life.

The Bible says he's a liar and he's a father of lies. Sometimes people are apprehensive about giving their life to Jesus because they think well it's going to be misery and rules and regulations. Au contraire. That's French for snails with garlic.

No that's escargot. To the contrary God's plan for you is better than your plans for yourself. God himself says in Jeremiah 29 11 I know the thoughts that I think towards you says the Lord.

Thoughts of peace not of evil to give you a future and a hope. Let me just stop right here and ask this question. Would you like to fill that hole inside of your heart? Would you like to have all of your sins forgiven? Would you like to have a fresh start right here right now?

Here's what you need to do. You need to realize that God loved you so much. He sent his son Jesus Christ to die on the cross for you 2,000 years ago. If you will turn from your sin and put your faith in Jesus Christ will come in to your life and he can change the course of your life. Not to mention your eternal destination from hell to heaven. If you would like Jesus Christ to come into your life. If you would like him to forgive you of your sin. Why don't we just stop for a moment and why don't you just pray this prayer with me. Just pray Lord Jesus I know I am a sinner and I know you are the savior and I need you in my life. Forgive me of all of my sin.

I choose to follow you from this moment forward. Thank you for hearing this prayer. In Jesus' name I pray.

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