All too many caregivers live in the wreckage of our future and we work ourselves into all sorts of heartache over things that haven't even happened Such is the case with this caller Lisa Like so many of us Lisa tortured herself with looking down the road and visualize what lies ahead for her as she cares for her husband She called crying but listen to the transformation We had to go to a break but when we returned the conversation moved her away from despair and she even chuckled a bit He comforts us in all our troubles so [... more]