Being filled with the Holy Spirit is not about experiencing a specific event, but rather about being controlled by God's power and presence in our lives. The evidence of being filled with the Spirit is not an experience, but rather the fruit it produces, such as love, forgiveness, and purity. The command to be filled with the Spirit is found in Ephesians 5, where it is clear that it is a process of being influenced by the Spirit to the point of being controlled by Him. This control affects our speech, heart, and behavior, and is a result of being yielded to God's will and surrendering to His power.
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