From HOPE FOR THE CAREGIVER Sept I've Got To I Need to You Don't Understand I Have To It's My Obligation to These are all statements made by all caregivers at some point and sadly all too frequently The feeling of obligation drives us to push ourselves to dangerous stress levels for our health finances and emotional stability The way we can push back is to recognize that we don't own the problem Think about it did you cause the problem Can you fix this issue Stewardship Vs Obligation Feeling obligated can quickly take us into resentment which will only [... more]