Greetings, friends and new listeners. Welcome to the Sound of Faith. I'm Sharon Knotts thanking you for tuning in today because we know faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God. I believe you will be blessed by today's message as I minister on the importance of raising a godly seed. You know, I'm a third generation preacher and I want to share with you the legacy passed to me from my dad R.G.
Hardy and my granny Mother Hardy in today's message A Godly Legacy.
So you see it was legacy that was being put into me and so we have got to have encouragement. I always I remember when I was growing up my mother always said to me she had little sayings that she always said and she one that always she always said that stuck in my mind she always say that quitters never win and winners never quit. Whenever anything would be, you know, a problem or I didn't want to do something or I didn't feel like doing something, she would always say that to me. Quitters never win and winners never quit. And that would stay in my mind.
That was encouragement. And then I remember I would always tell my children, you can do it, you can do it, you can do it. And Sarah, when she was little, she would always have this, she'd get this little girl whiny voice, I can't do it. And I'd always say, yes, you can do it. Stop saying you can't because you can.
And what would happen is she not only would do it, she'd end up bringing an A home. And then the next time she'd go back into that saying, but I can't do it. I'd say, what happened the last time? Didn't you get an A? I know, but I can't do it this time.
and this was over and over again and I mean the next thing you know she's on the honor roll I can't do it the next thing you know she's getting a scholarship but I can't do it but she was doing it because even though she was saying that she was wanting me to come back and say yes you can she was wanting that encouragement she wanted to know that her father and I believed that she could do it. Amen? I heard about a story that they did an experiment with elementary grade school children. And the teacher stood up one day before the class, and these are just grade school level. She told the children that a recent scientific study had come out that had proven that blue-eyed children were much smarter, were more intelligent than brown-eyed children.
Now, she told this to grade school kids. Immediately and consistently, the grades and the work of all the blue-eyed children in the class went way up over everybody else's. Two weeks later, the teacher stood up before the same classroom and she said, I made a mistake. It wasn't the blue-eyed children that are smarter. it was the brown-eyed children that are smarter immediately all the brown-eyed children in the classroom started their grades started going up and consistently greater than the others what was the difference it was the encouragement it was the suggestion that you can do it we all know of course you know that that's there's no that's but remember these were little grade scores so it's the encouragement that was given to them that made them think I can do this and so it's the same way we have got to give our children encouragement G is for guidance because there is absolutely no substitute for godly training if you want to raise a wise child who walks with the Lord you all know the big verse Proverbs 22 6 train up a child in the way that he should go and when he is old he shall not depart from it how many know that you've heard that before it has a twofold application first of all in the Hebrew that word means in the way that he should go it means in the bent that he's bent towards another words what is that child's callings or giftings what is that kid good at what is that child like to do when you know your child is good at something and they like to do something you should encourage them in that direction as much as you possibly can sometimes it means you got to dig down on your pocketbook and as much as you financially can do it you want to encourage them now you may really want your child to play the violin but your child might really want to play volleyball and you're trying to make your child play violin and they just ain't getting it so you've got to train them and push them in the direction that they are bent towards some kids are good at music and every child is different my son Scott from a very early age it was evident that he had great artistic talent Todd was more prompt was more a gifted musically and Sarah when we found that one when I first put her in Little League it was really because it was the cute thing to do to get the little uniform so she could march in the parade little did I know that she would be playing softball clear on up to college and last year when she was in college her team made it to the Nationals when I put her in there and that when she was six years old I had no idea that that was going to be something that she was going to latch on to and be so good at so you have to see what your child is good at when my son Scott I had no idea how talented he was he was my first child I had nothing to compare him to as far as the little pictures he drew me he was always drawing all these pictures and they were really good but I thought all five-year-olds drew that well I know I thought they all drew that well and one day his kindergarten teacher said to me she says Scott is really gifted artistically you really need to help him in that area so oh yeah I know yeah he draws it no she no I telling you he he really talented and I had this local my she says come here come here She took me to the back of the room and she had this big board up on there and she had all the pictures, the children had gone to the zoo, and when they came back, she told everybody, draw a picture about, you know, something you saw at the zoo.
Well, most of them, you know, they were stick figures, and you really didn't know what they saw. Scott's, everything was drawn, you know, it had all of everything, all the features, all the details, action, all that you knew what the animals were. I mean, and I looked at that. She says, now this, she pointed to all the others. She says, now this is normal five-year-old talent.
This is Scott. She says, no, this child has talent.
So after that, we began to encourage him in that way. I began to buy him little art sets and anything that could encourage him in that field. That's what he was good at. Todd was good at music. At nine years old, I put him to get piano lessons.
Problem is, the piano teacher told him one day, she said, if you don't practice, don't come back. She thought that that would make him practice.
Well, she was wrong. He didn't go back. But he's told me many times, Mom, I so regret, I so regret that I didn't stick it out. I wished I had done that. He has natural talent, but he's sorry now that he didn't learn how to read music and learn the right way.
So you have to see.
So first of all, it means in the, in the, what is their, what are they good at? And let's face it, everybody, all the guys want to be in the NBA or the NFL, is it? But, and some of them might make it, but have a backup plan. While you're encouraging them, have a backup plan, because there's a whole lot of other kids out there want to make it too. And not only that, they might be the greatest, one injury, and it could be goodbye.
So have a backup plan, amen? The second meaning of that in the way that he should go, hey, no brainer, God's way. There's no neutrality. There's no middle of the road. It's either God's way or Satan's way.
And you got to make that clear to them. And every choice that they make all the way down the line, they're either choosing life or death. They're either choosing blessing or cursing. God's way or the devil's way. Ain't no, I'm going to go down the middle until I get ready.
No, when you don't choose God, you're choosing the devil. And he's not your friend. He's come to steal and kill and destroy your life you've got to make that clear make that clear that's all you're going to get if you go that way and as I've told you before and I'll repeat it maybe some of you didn't hear this before it's all it's proven now that the frontal cortex of the brain of young people does not get fully developed until they're about age 25 they used to think it was around 18 but they realize now with being able to do different scans that that part of the brain is not developed yet and it's the part of the brain that allows them to take risks to decide about risk taking that's why so many young people they can still be 18 and still be out there driving like a maniac they can be 18 and making terrible choices and you think what is wrong with you literally their brain hasn't fully developed and therefore they're taking risks because they haven't developed that part of the brain that's why you still need to guide them even though they're 18 i know even though they're 21 I know you can't tell them and say you're going to do this but you can surely put input in there and you need to because you need to guide them as much as you can there is no substitute for guiding them and and you know on important things you know their career their job who they're going to marry their finances you know don't go getting in debt because they'll get you know it never ceases amaze me these companies they send credit cards to kids that are in the 11th grade. They don't care that they're in the 11th grade and don't have a job. Automatically, you can have this credit card.
Who is going to pay for it? And they run it up and they ruin their credit. They're not even ready to even do anything yet. Then when they do want to get a car or do want to get something, they got horrible credit. You've got to stay on top of those things.
You've got to guide your child and say, you are not ready for this credit card. These people don't care because even if you default, When you default, it doesn't matter to them. They make so much money on the interest, it well compensates for all the people that default. Have you ever wondered why they don't care if you default? Because they are cleaning up on the interest.
So they write it off their taxes when you default. It don't matter to them. You're the one that carries that black mark against your credit.
So guidance, G is for guidance. Teach them how to pray, as I said before, in times of crisis, that they know, okay, I haven't been walking with the Lord. I haven't been walking in the truth like I should. I've been doing wrong. I've been going my own way.
And now I've got a big mess here, and I don't know what to do. But if you've taught them the right way, they will know regardless of where you are. My God, God forbid you find yourself sitting in a jail cell. Call on Jesus. Call on the Lord.
If you make a mess, just call on the Lord that they will know who they can run to. Because sometimes they're going to make a mess. and sometimes they're going to get out there and do stupid things, and they're going to pay some sad consequences. But even when they do that, it breaks your heart. You don't want that to happen.
But if it does happen, pray that in that middle of that, they say, oh, God, if you'll help me, if you'll deliver me, if you'll bring me out, and God will hear them. Amen? A. A is for affirmation. It's closely related to encouragement.
But it's just a tad different whereas with encouragement you're always cheering them on telling them what they can do You can do it. I know you can just just try you can do it Affirmation is more affirming not what they can do but who they are Because they are not only your children and your grandchildren. They are children of God And we've got to see our children as children of God and he created them and he made them for his glory and his honor And he said very clearly in jeremiah 29 11. I know the plans I have for you saith the lord Not just sayeth mom or dad, but sayeth the lord plans to bless you plans to give you a future Plans to prosper you plans to give you your heart desire I have plans for you Oh if you only leave the choice to him his choices are so much better than what we would choose for ourselves We don't have to have second best God's got something greater He said I would do exceeding and abundantly above all you would ask or think I can do greater than that if you let me work in you So we've got to affirm to them over and over they are children of God. God created them.
You're going to have them 18 years, maybe a little more after that, maybe a few more years, 21, until they're out on their own. But they are going to be God's children from day one forever. And you've got to get that across to them, who they are in God. Amen? So regardless of what the circumstances are of that child's background, I'll speak generally what if okay suppose the child was born without a father and doesn't know their father Okay, that that's a hardship against them.
That's a handicap against them What if that child was born and seemingly seems to be a slow learner can't seem to find their niche and and What they're fitting to do they can't seem to find it what if that child Perhaps is born into a poor family And your limited resources as to just how much you can give them or how much you can do for them what if that child does have is born with a physical problem of some kind and the handicap of some kind it does not matter none of those things does not change that they are God's children and he has a great life for them regardless of what the circumstances are if they will trust in the Lord if you make them understand don't focus on those things that seem to be a hindrance to you look to the Lord it doesn't matter even if sickness has come and stolen your child's health. Maybe something's come into their life and it seems to steal their dreams and take them away. They are still God's child. He loves them and he's got a life for them. And you need to just encourage them and affirm to them that in God there is great things yet that they will receive if they will trust in the Lord.
And no one can say it any better than the psalmist did in Psalm 139. Turn with me to Psalm 139. Let's read this one together. I'm not going to paraphrase this one. it's too important.
And verse 13, for thou has possessed my reins and your reins talks about your innermost being. Thou has covered me in my mother's womb. I will praise thee for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Marvelous are thy works and that my soul knoweth right well. My substance was not hid from thee when I was made in secret and curiously wrought in the lowest parts of the earth for thine eyes did see my substance yet being unperfect and in thy book all my members were written which in continuance were fashioned when as yet there was none of them how precious also are thy thoughts unto me oh god how great is the sum of them if i should count them they are more in number than the sand when I awake I am still with thee now here we have even the testimony of the unborn child yet in the mother's womb looking back being in that place not completely perfect yet during that time of being knitted in the mother's womb being put together God knew when it was first that tiny first little cell that is so so tiny that you couldn't even see it before it began to divide and divide and grow and grow.
God saw that tiny little child even before he had all his fingers when they were still like this, before they began to break apart, before they had fingernails. God saw when its eyes were tight like that, before they opened up. He saw everything about them in their mother's womb. He said that when I was being made in secret I am wonderfully I am fearfully made and that word fearfully means that with such reverence life is to be revered life is precious God says life is precious he says the life of the unborn child is precious he says that baby in its mother's womb is precious and when and today we live in a society when our children are being literally killed by the millions how many what's it 40 million to date or something and counting i know they call it abortion but that is a misnomer it is not abortion it is infanticide it is murder abortion is when the body of its own aborts or miscarries a seed because for whatever reason there's a problem with it either with the seed itself or or with the environment that the mothers can't carry and the body itself may abort, deliver that child too early. That's an abortion.
Not when they go in there and suck it out. Not when they deliver a child and take scissors and stab it in the back of it right here and then suck out the brains. That's not abortion, that's murder. And God, if God said that the blood of one man, if just Cain's blood cried out from the earth If one person's blood, what do you think God is hearing in his ears from 40 million babies being murdered? God says that child is precious, regardless of how it all began.
I don't care if you take someone who was high on drugs and they were with somebody, they don't even know who they were with. And now they have that child growing in there. No, that child, if they can't care for that child, they need to bring it forth and put it up for adoption. That child is precious. Amen?
And so he's saying that when you were curiously made, and I love the word curious, and you've heard me say it before, it's curious. It's a curious word. It makes you stop and think, hmm, hmm, what does that mean? But really the word is an old English word that literally means to embroider, to hand embroider. Have you ever seen like doilies that were hand embroidered with little flowers and all the different colors I don mean the kind they do with the machines where the machines come down and go do I mean where somebody sits there and does the sews with my hand That's the word, what it means, embroidery.
And that's that word, because if you go back under Leviticus, you'll see that when he told them how to make the garments for the priests, he told them, make the curious girdle. He meant make that covering that had embroidering all over it.
So what it means is meticulously hand-designed, handmade, no stamp pattern, but hand-designed. Every one different because it's not possible to do every single stitch identically the same over and over again. And that's how God made us. We all have our own DNA. Every one of us is different.
They know even our eyes are different. And our fingers are different. We're all God made us each one and he gave each one of us a unique makeup And so when God made us he made us even though we may not see all the things that God sees in us He sees them nevertheless even when they're imperfect Even when they're immature and when you come to Christ when you give that child to the Lord And when that child will surrender his life to God God will bring out of him all the things that he placed in him placed in her when he created them in the mother's womb.
Some people go through their whole life and they never have those things brought out of them because only God can bring them out. He's the only one that knows they're in there and put them there. You have some people that manage to bring them out, but they're using them in the wrong places. And God's blessing, God made them to bless his kingdom, to bless his people, to shine for his glory. Instead, they're out there and the devil's using it.
How many say amen?
So we need to affirm to them who they are. They are God's child. C. C is for correction. How many know you've got to have balance?
And when I'm talking about correction, I'm talking about constructive remedial discipline. We're not talking about abuse, okay?
So when I get to reading these scriptures, don't let your mind run off. We're not talking about abuse. We're talking about that which is remedial and that which is going to bring about a good remedy and fix a problem. The two worst things any parents can do are fail to discipline, over discipline. If you fail to discipline, you let a child do himself.
Oh, my Lord, one day you will regret it. But by that time, it will be too late when they stand up in your face. It's too late then. How many say amen?
so if you think oh I'm just gonna let them go in there a free spirit and let them be yeah when they get to school they're gonna be so free they're not gonna be able to sit down behind the desk they're gonna have all kinds of problems so failure discipline is bad but so is over disciplining because if you over discipline them the Word of God says you break their spirit and I think off I didn't put that scripture down but I think it's Ephesians or Colossians one of the other I think it's Colossians around the fourth chapter if you over-discipline them, you will break their spirit. You don't want to do that either.
So we want balance. Amen? Because if we love our children, we will correct them. God said it clearly, and I won't read it, but you know in Hebrews, the 12th chapter, it says, for whom the Lord loves, he chastens and scourges every son whom he accepts. Everyone.
If you endure chastening, then God deals with you as a son. For what son is there whom the father does not discipline? No chastening for the present.
Somebody say for the present. Seems to be joyous. But it's grievous. For the present it's grievous. But he says oh but in the future nevertheless afterwards.
Somebody say afterwards. It yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness. Amen. I hope you're being blessed by this message, A Godly Legacy. This message speaks not only to mothers and grandmothers, but to all parents, grandparents, godparents, and really to anyone who mentors or has influence over children.
You know, I love to talk about my granny, Mother Hardy. She was a self-taught Bible scholar who trained many young believers in the Word of God. And when she died at age 89, she had no earthly riches, no property or money in the bank or even jewels to leave us. But she did leave me pearls of wisdom, which she gleaned from a lifetime of daily prayer and Bible study. She left a well-worn Bible with ragged pages and voluminous notes.
and this is the most valuable legacy we can receive and we can leave to those who come behind us. I want to help you to walk with me in God's word as we discover the power of L-E-G-A-C-Y, legacy, and the six attributes these letters stand for. You may want to order this message for yourself or someone you want to become a godly legator. It's available on CD for your love gift to the radio ministry of $10 or more. Ask for offer SK129, that's SK129, and mail to The Sound of Faith, P.O.
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