"The Golden Rule"

Hi there, this is Lon Solomon and I'd like to welcome you to our program today. You know, it's a tremendous honor that God has given us to be on stations all around the nation bringing the truth of God's Word as it is uncompromising and straightforward. And I'm so glad you've tuned in to listen and be part of that. Thanks again for your support and your generosity that keeps us on the radio. And now, let's get to the Word of God. I'm a little league coach.

It's Excedrin headache number 24 in case you're interested. But we're having fun. And I was interested in the article therefore that I read in the paper this past week. I don't know how many of you saw it about what happened out at this little league game in California.

Any of you guys see this? Was in Castro Valley, California. And in Castro Valley, California, it's a very tiny little town. They only have one little league team. So they bring in little league teams from other little towns all around to play. And another team had come in from Ashland, California. And as the game began, some of the fans began hurling racial slurs and taunts at the visiting team because there were some black players on the team. Well, after the fans, meaning the parents, began doing it, before long the kids got involved in it. And the game really got nasty. When the game was over, everybody thought that things had cooled down. And the teams lined up in typical little league fashion and walked down a line giving high fives to each other.

And everybody thought the game was over. One of the players from the visiting team went and got a bat and went after one of the kids on the home team that had been riding him the whole game. And he swung at this kid with the bat. And the kid ducked. But there was a 17-year-old spectator whose back was turned and never saw the bat coming that did not duck. And the bat hit him right across the back of the head and completely knocked him out.

When the attacker realized what he had done, he threw the bat down and began running. And three of the players from the home team, the little league team now, chased him. One of them picked up a rock and threw it and hit him in the back of the head, knocked him out unconscious. And then the stands emptied and a general brawl ensued. A little league game.

Well, he said, well, where do things stand today? Well, the 17-year-old fan that wasn't looking, that got hit with the bat, is dead from massive head injuries. The kid that hit him is still in the hospital from the rock that he took to the head. But when he gets out of the hospital, the police plan to charge him with murder. And the umpire had a brick thrown through his window with a note attached that read, testify and you're dead.

And then the next night somebody tried to set fire to his house. What we see at this little league game is the true human spirit. You see the world is great at all of its plastic rhetoric, all the rhetoric that says, let's all get along. Let's all love each other.

There's a new world order. But you know, folks, you just cross somebody and you'll find out what the real color of the human spirit is. Because the real color of the human spirit is retaliation, revenge, payback. That's what it's all about. Now, in direct contrast to that, Jesus says what he says to us here in Luke chapter six this morning. It says, do unto others, you know the rest, don't you? As you would have them do unto you.

What do we call that? The golden rule, right? And everybody knows that.

They taught you that in elementary school. But I want to say that this is more than just a nice platitude. I believe contained in this verse and the teaching that's around it here in Luke chapter six, we find one of the most powerful instruments of human living anywhere in the world.

Powerful for what it can do for your life and powerful for what it can do as Christians in terms of our affecting other people's lives and seeing them come to know Christ in a real and personal way. So I'm not going to approach this as a platitude this morning. I'm going to approach it as a piece of life changing teaching that Jesus Christ has given us that he expects us to take seriously. Let's look here in verse 27. But I tell you, Jesus said, I tell you who listen to me, love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you.

Bless those who curse you. Pray for those who mistreat you. If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other cheek. If someone takes your cloak, don't stop him from taking your tunic.

Give to everyone who asks you. And if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Before we decide what this passage does mean, it's very important that we understand what this passage does not mean. Because there are many people who have taken Jesus's statements here and have turned them around and twisted them into meaning something that Jesus never intended them to mean. People have taken these verses and have come up with teaching when it comes to punishing criminals based on these verses. That's not what Jesus is talking about. Some people have gone so far as to say that they think these verses apply to us exercising our legal rights as Christians and saying in a society like America we should never exercise our legal rights because Jesus has turned the other cheek.

Now is that really what he's saying? When I first came to the Washington area, I fell in with a fellow down in Alexandria named Bob Porter. Bob Porter was a man who owned a street front, a little store down on King Street in Alexandria. And from this little storefront he did street witnessing, street evangelism every day. And I got involved with him and every day we went out there on King Street and we did this.

Now King Street's a pretty rough place. But Bob Porter was pretty well equipped to handle it. He was a former athlete, a former professional athlete, played baseball. He was a southern boy, a big strong southern boy that in his unsaved days he had a mean streak that ran through him kind of like the beltway, runs through Washington. And yet he was a Christian now. And I'll never forget one day he was sitting in the office and this fellow came walking in with this big knife in his hand. And he said, preacher, it says in the Bible that if somebody hits you on one cheek you're supposed to turn the other cheek.

Now I'm going to find out what kind of a Christian you really are. I want you to get up and lie down on the floor and I'm going to cut you up. And Bob Porter stood up and he pointed his finger at this fellow and this is what he said to him. He said, if you take one more step towards me with that knife, he said, I'm going to break you in half and shove that knife right down your throat. And we all knew he meant business. And that guy walked right back out the store. He said, well, Lon, in light of what Jesus says here, is that right?

Yes, sir. Absolutely right. Jesus is not saying here that we should lie down and let people cut us up with knives. Jesus is not saying that it's wrong to punish criminals for criminal activity. Jesus is talking about one issue and one issue only. He is talking about the issue of our personal response to abuse. He's talking about the issues of personal revenge and that bitter attitude that says I'm going to get you back if it's the last thing I ever do for what you did to me. That's what Jesus is talking about. So let's make sure we know what we're really dealing with before we deal with it, okay? So we don't misunderstand this passage and come up with all kinds of screwy interpretations that Jesus never had in mind here.

Okay, let's look at it. But I tell you, Jesus said, love your enemies. Now, the people that Jesus is talking about here to us, he tells us in verse 27 who they are. He says they're your enemies. They're people who hate you, verse 28, and they're people who mistreat you.

Isn't it amazing how often in life we run into these kind of people? Seems like life is full of people who treat us this way from time to time. In light of that, what does Jesus tell us to do? To people whose performance towards us is rotten and to people who our natural response is to strike them back and hurt them worse than they hurt us. Look what Jesus said. But I tell you, love your enemies. And everything else that Jesus says flows out of this one command.

Everything else is just a fleshing out of this one command, love your enemies. In Greek, there are three words that are commonly translated love in English. The first is the Greek word eros. We get our English word erotic from this word.

This is not the word Jesus uses here. There's a second word in Greek that's translated love. It's the word philos. We find it in our English word, the name of the city.

You know the city? Philadelphia, meaning the city of brotherly love. This too is not the word Jesus uses here. Philos is a word that applies to the kind of love we have for people who we have a very strong emotional feeling for.

You know, we feel warm about them. This is the kind of love that we might have for our close friends. But this is not the word Jesus uses here. Jesus uses a third word and the word he uses is the word agape. And the word agape in the New Testament means God's love. It's a word that's reserved in the New Testament to describe the kind of love that God has for us as human beings and that we as people should copy. Now if we're going to understand this passage and we're going to understand what Jesus is asking us to do, it's important that we understand agape love because this is what Jesus is asking us to show to other people. So let me see if I can help us understand what this love is all about.

So what is it? Well, there are three words I'd like to give you that describe agape and here they are. Unemotional, unconditional and unnatural.

Let me explain those words. First of all, agape is unemotional, meaning that agape love is not based on our emotions. Agape love is a love that is based on a commitment of our will, a commitment to act in the best interest of another person regardless of how we feel about them. And friends, in God asking us to show agape love to other people, we have to understand God is not asking us to feel anything about them. What God is asking us for is to make a decision of our will that we will pursue and do what is in their best interest, doesn't matter how we feel. This is an unemotional love.

This has nothing to do with how you feel. People don't fall into agape love. This is something that you make as a commitment of your will. You decide to have agape love.

And you know what? We can agape people we don't even like. Say, no, I can't love anybody I don't like. Yes, you can.

Yes, you can. If it's this kind of love, you may not like a coworker who stabs you in the back, but you can show agape to them. You can still seek what's best for them and do what's best for them. You may not like a boss who lies and manipulates for their own advantage, but you can still show agape to them. You may not like a neighbor who does mean things to your children or relative who plays cheap family politics, but you can still show agape to them because agape does not depend on how you feel.

It's a decision you make to do something. Second of all, agape is unconditional. Agape love is not based upon performance.

When we agree to agape somebody, we agree, we commit ourselves to seek what is best for them regardless of their performance. If you've ever raised a child, you understand how agape love has to work because you as a parent are committing yourself to care for them even though they don't perform correctly all the time. This is the kind of love God's asking us to show for other people. And third, it's not only unemotional and unconditional, but it's unnatural to love somebody like this. You want to know what natural love is?

Look at our little league game. You'll see natural human love in action, but this is unnatural love. And in calling us to show this kind of love for people, Jesus understands he's asking us to do something unnatural. That's why he gave us the Spirit of God living inside of us as Christians to give us the power to do something we can't naturally do, to love in a way we can't naturally love. And down in verse 31, do to others as you would have them do unto you turns out to be in one sentence, can you see it, a summary of what agape love is all about.

If you had to summarize agape love in one sentence, this is it. Do unto others. It doesn't matter how you feel. God's not asking you to feel, he's asking you to do. And it doesn't say do unto others the way they did unto you. It says do unto others the way you wish they would have done unto you.

Regardless of your emotional feelings towards them, do unto them as you wish they'd had done unto you. This is what Jesus is asking from each of us, to agape others. As I mentioned to you, this is really what God showed to us. This is the love of God.

In asking us to do this, God is asking us to copy him because this is the way he loves. The Bible says God so loved agape, the world, that he sent his only son that whoever would believe in his son might not die but have eternal life. And in Romans chapter 5, the Bible says that even while we were God's enemies, even while we were sinners, even while we didn't want anything to do with God, even while our performance was stinky and horrible in God's sight, God demonstrated his agape towards us in that while we were yet sinners, Christ went to the cross and he died for us. See, Jesus did for us what we needed to be done. And it didn't have anything to do with emotion.

It didn't have anything to do with our performance. It didn't have anything to do with the way his human side felt about the abuse we gave him. He did it because he agape'd us. And if you're here this morning and you've never trusted Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior, may I say to you that the big issue between you and God this morning is not the golden rule. You can't keep the golden rule anyway and even if you could, you can't work your way into heaven by doing it. The big issue between you and God is the love of God, the agape of God that God offers you free. Jesus Christ died on the cross to pay for your sins free just because he loves you unconditionally. And the big issue is are you prepared to throw away everything else you've ever tried to use to earn your way into God's love and just simply accept God's love because he loves you unconditionally. I hope you'll think about that.

If you're here and you're a Christian, what God's asking us is to take the same kind of love that he's loved us with and go out there and try to show it to other people. And you say, Lon, I appreciate that and I understand what you're saying but it still leaves me with a big question and that is? So what?

Right. I understand what I'm supposed to do, Lon, but this is hard. I mean, this is stressful. This is demanding. This is intensive. Why should I do this? Why should I put myself through all this stress? I have two reasons to give you as I close.

Number one, because it's best for you. Peter one time met a fellow named Simon. He was a sorcerer. And Peter said to him, you know, Simon, he said, I perceive that you are in the gall of bitterness and in slavery to sin. Now, gall is bitter stuff. It's horrible stuff. It's like vinegar.

It's terrible stuff. And Peter says, this is what your life's like, Simon, because of the bitterness that you have inside of you. And folks, the Bible says and psychologists confirm that bitterness and revenge is like a strep infection for the soul. How do you get over bitterness? Say, well, Lon, you go see a therapist.

Wrong. A therapist may help you identify bitterness but a therapist will never heal you. You know how you get over bitterness? You know how you have healing into your life? Love is what heals bitterness.

When we commit ourselves to love that other person, to do what Jesus said, to do good to them, to bless them, to pray for them, to actively commit ourselves to living the golden rule towards them, God brings healing for the bitterness into our soul. When God asks us to live this way, the golden rule in our relationships with people, he's doing it because he knows it's best for you and best for me. But there's a second reason, and that is that if we want to make an impact on people outside in our community and in our world for Jesus Christ, this is the way to do it. Folks, if we're going to make an impact on people out there, we're going to have to live an unnatural lifestyle.

We're going to have to live a supernatural lifestyle. Look at verse 32. If you love those who love you, what credit is it to you? Even people that don't know Christ do that. And if you do good to those who do good to you, well, then what credit is that to you? Even people who don't know Christ do good to people who do good to them.

And if you lend to those from whom you expect to get it back with interest, well, what credit is that to you? Even people who don't know Christ lend to people expecting to get money back. But Jesus said, love your enemies, do good to them, lend to them expecting nothing in return and your reward will be great and you will be sons of the most high because he is kind to the unkind, the ungrateful and the wicked.

You know what Jesus is saying? Jesus is saying is, folks, if we want to make an impact on the world, we're going to have to treat people differently than the world does. The world is nice to the people who are nice to them. But the world is mean to the people who are mean to them. And if we go out there and we're nice to the people who are nice to us and mean to the people who are mean to us, what kind of impression are we going to make?

We're no different than the rest of the world is. Jesus said, you want to make an impression on the world, you're going to have to live differently when it comes to the people who treat you wrong. That's how you'll prove that what you've been telling them about Jesus Christ is really true.

And that's how you'll prove to them there's a different way of living than the way the world tells them to live by the way you respond to people who treat you bad. And I believe that living the golden rule and our interactions with people out there in the world can change the way that even our most hardened critics feel about us and the way they feel about our faith if we're willing to do it. One of my favorite people in all of history is Abraham Lincoln. And I think what made Abraham Lincoln such a great president and such a great leader is that Abraham Lincoln was a great man. He was a great man. I don't know how many of you have ever heard of Salmon P. Chase.

You ever heard of him? Well, Salmon P. Chase was the governor of Ohio. He was a U.S. senator. He was also appointed by President Lincoln when he was first elected to be Secretary of the Treasury. In 1864, when Lincoln was up for renomination by the Republican Party, Salmon P. Chase decided he wanted to be president instead of Lincoln. So he began to go after it.

He organized his own election committee. He went out and found every enemy that Lincoln had ever made as president. And he wrote him letters, many of which we still have today, saying if I were the president, I would fix your situation. I'd do the right thing by you. I wouldn't do what that dirty guy Lincoln did.

You need to support me. And not only that, but he spoke in the newspapers and told them what a poor president Lincoln was. Then he criticized the man up and down. And you know what?

He did all of that without ever resigning from the cabinet. Well, as we all know, Lincoln won. But what do you do to an Absalom in the gate like this? Listen to what Lincoln said. I quote, As to Mr. Chase's talk about me, I don't mind that. People say to me, this is the time to crush him out, Lincoln. Well, Lincoln said, I'm not in favor of crushing anybody out. If Mr. Chase has said some hard things about me, I in turn have said some hard things about him, which I guess squares the account. He is a very able man. And if there's anything that a man can do and do it well in these.