Let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith. It's tough taking no for an answer. But there are times when the answer to a believer's prayer is a clear no. We have a choice. These times can either make us resentful or they can increase our faith.
Today, how to respond when God answers in the negative. From the Moody Church in Chicago, this is Running to Win with Dr. Erwin Lutzer, whose clear teaching helps us make it across the finish line. Pastor Lutzer, is it true that many people give up on God when they find their desired answers being denied? You're absolutely right, Dave.
As a matter of fact, a couple spoke to me about a week ago. talking about the fact that their granddaughter left the faith, because she prayed God didn't answer the way in which she thought he should.
So she is now in the world. and she is actually working against Christianity. That's how disappointing it can be. And that's why I've written a book entitled Why Doesn't God Answer My Prayers? But today I want to thank the many of you who support this ministry.
Because of you we have many downloads on our website. We of course have a YouTube channel. I'm thinking of the many ways in which we are able to get the gospel to millions of people. Here in America, about a thousand outlets. I want to thank you so much.
Also, I'd like to challenge you to become a more consistent part of our ministry. by becoming an endurance partner.
Now what that is, I'll be explaining it to you and especially giving you some contact info immediately following this message. Please stay tuned. It's because of people like you that our ministry can continue and expand. Yeah. Oh no.
Mm-hmm. If you were to ask people why they don't pray seriously and why prayer isn't really that big a part in their lives, I believe that 90 or 95% would say it's because of unanswered prayer. That's the reason. It can happen even when you're small, little, a little girl prayed that the doll that was in her arms would become a real baby. And when that didn't happen, she was disappointed with God.
Aren't you glad that God often doesn't give us what we ask for? The teenager who prays that his teeth will be straightened out so that he won't have to wear braces and then discovers that God doesn't answer begins to think: well, what is there to this business of prayer? But usually, of course, the issue is much more severe and much greater. It has to do with a young mother dying of cancer. It has to do with Johnny Erickson Tata.
in a diving accident. In the late 60s, existing for 40 years by now, I'm sure. in a wheelchair. That's what it has to do with. It has to do with families and abuse and all of those things.
At the end of the day, people would say it's because God doesn't answer prayer. Why should I bother?
Well, there's a very interesting and famous unanswered prayer in 2 Corinthians, 2 Corinthians chapter 12, that I want you to turn to. And if you didn't bring your Bible, there's one there in the pew that you might be able to use. This is not 1 Corinthians, this is 2 Corinthians chapter 12. The Apostle Paul was caught up to the third heaven. He was caught up to paradise.
And there in paradise, God gave him specific revelations that were wonderful and great. In fact, Paul says, I heard things that. I'm not even going to tell you about. How different he is from some of the folks that we see from time to time on TV who'd only be too quick to tell you what new revelation they've received. Paul says That I had this experience, he's talking about himself in the opening verses.
He says, 14 years ago, I was caught up to the third heaven, verse 2. I don't know whether I was in the body or out of the body. I know that this man was caught up into paradise. And he says in verse 4, he heard things that cannot be told, which a man may not utter.
So the Apostle Paul says that in light of this I received so many revelations. And of course he wrote 13 or 14 books of the New Testament. A book of Hebrews is disputed as to who the author is, but Paul wrote a good part of the New Testament, and Paul says that if I were to tell people of the Revelation, and if they know that I am. That to me, this revelation is given, they are going to honor me so much, and when they honor me so much, I'm going to be tempted to begin to think that I'm special. And so God says, Paul, what I'm going to do is to give you a thorn in the flesh to keep you humble.
That's why we pick up the text in verse 7, and I'm going to read.
So, to keep me from being too elated by the surpassing greatness of the revelations, a thorn was given me in the flesh. A messenger of Satan to harass me. to keep me from being too elated. Three times I pleaded with the Lord about this, that it should leave me, but he said, My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness. Therefore I will boast all the more gladly because of my weaknesses.
So that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong. Don't you want to say, wow, after reading that? A couple of introductory questions.
First of all, what is this thorn in the flesh? The Greek word scolopsis. What is it? What is the thorn?
Well, it's a stake. And it was the kind of stake, you know, upon which people were impaled. It was a horrendous way to die. This leads people to think that maybe the thorn was a physical ailment, maybe an eye problem. There is some indication that Paul had problems with his eyes.
Maybe malaria, which evidently brings a pain to your head. It's like someone taking a hot iron bar and just pressing it against your forehead, someone has said. Maybe it was malaria. John MacArthur goes to great lengths to try to show that actually the thorn in the flesh was very probably a false apostle indwelt by a messenger of Satan, namely a demon who stirred up opposition against Paul.
So, the thorn in the flesh is not defined so that we can insert our own thorn into that particular slot.
So, the thorn may be a health problem. The thorn also may be a person. I hope it's not the one whom you married. But it could be a person. And we've all known what it is like from time to time to having people who are thorns in the flesh.
Paul gives us a lot of latitude. He says, I'm content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. That pretty well covers what the thorn might be.
Now, normally we don't vote here at the Moody Church as to what I say. I simply assume that you accept what I say. I hope that it's biblical. And if you disagree with me, that's no problem. You come up later, and you have the opportunity to ask my forgiveness for disagreeing with me.
But today we are going to vote. Let me ask you this question. How many of you would say that the thorn was from Satan? Raise your hands. How many of you would say the thorn is from Satan?
How many of you would say that the thorn was from God? Raise your hands. Even more hands for that. How many of you have no opinion at all about theological matters?
Now here's the most important question. How many of you raised your hand twice saying that it was both from Satan and from God? Could I see your hands please? You're the theologians. You're the theologians.
Of course it's both. The immediate cause, the text says, was a messenger of Satan. But the ultimate cause is God. It was given to me of God. to have a thorn in the flesh.
If you don't understand the relationship between God and Satan in these kinds of trials, you're never going to be able to exercise the kind of faith that you need, the kind of faith that I'm going to describe at the end of this message. Just like Job was his trial from God or the devil.
Well, it is the devil who did all of the terrible things to his family, etc. But what does Job say? The Lord gave and the Lord took away, because the ultimate cause is God. Satan cannot wiggle unless God gives him permission to wiggle. And therefore, this thorn was from God.
Well, now let's look at the prayer itself. The prayer itself. First of all, the specific request. I'm here in verse 8. He says, verse 8, three times I pleaded with the Lord about this.
That it should leave me. What do we say about this request? First of all, it was very specific. God You have given this to me, whether it's a person or a health issue. You've given it to me, Lord, and I ask that it might leave me for your glory.
And God, you'll get all the credit. I'll talk about you as a result of this. You will receive the glory. Do it, Lord. It was specific.
It was persistent. I pleaded with the Lord. Same word that's used in the New Testament for people who came to Jesus wanting to be healed and they pled with Jesus to be healed. Paul says, I am pleading with God. Take it away.
The first two times, God said nothing, dead silence from heaven. But then the third time, after praying the third time, God spoke to the Apostle Paul and gave him the reply. And the reply in effect was, Paul, the answer is no.
Now, God didn't say that directly, but God clearly said that: that you will keep the thorn. But that's not the end of the story. That's not the end of the story. God never leaves us stranded. He never leaves us without what we need to endure a trial.
Now, notice what God says. He says, My grace, I'm in verse 9 now, is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness. God says, Paul, I've got something else for you. I've got grace. Grace.
Paul thinks to himself, surely there's a misunderstanding. I asked you, Lord, very clearly, we laid this on the line that my thorn was to leave. God says, Keep your thorn, but I have grace. And grace is heavenly strength for the need of the moment. Grace is a river that runs to the soul that brings healing.
Grace is the river that runs to the soul. And also provides calmness and a sense of acceptance and hope and even gladness, as Paul says he has after the answer. Grace is indeed given to us. God says, I am going to take grace and it's going to be like an elastic band that is going to stretch over your throne and over your difficulty in such a way that you are going to be able to endure it. That's what I'm going to give you instead.
Grace is a wonderful pillow. upon which many a weary traveler Has laid his head.
So God says, I'm going to give you grace and I'm going to give you strength. My grace is sufficient for you. My power is made perfect in weakness. My power is completed. Paul.
If people want to honor me and give me glory, you have to be weak. And so I sent you this thorn so that when you are weak, then my power will be displayed and my strength will be made complete.
Now, when I was out on the farm many years ago when I grew up as a child, we used to actually use the catalog. People don't use catalogs nowadays, but we used to order things. And we'd send the order away, and a few weeks later it would come back. And sometimes the company would substitute something. For example, if you ordered a sweater.
And they were out of sweaters, they might send you a light jacket and hope that you are satisfied with a substitution. They usually did not say, we won't fill the order, they filled it with something else. And God is saying to the Apostle Paul here, He's saying, I am saying no to your request, but I'm giving you something else. I am not indifferent to my answer. When God says no, it isn't just a plain no, it's always no, but.
There's something else that I have in mind. Grace is going to be given to you. I think of Johnny Erickson to whom I referred earlier. This young woman has blessed millions. Many of you know about her because she has Johnny and friends in that marvelous ministry, and she's been here to the Moody Church many times.
And you remember in that diving accident, there she is. She becomes a quadriplegic. And after it happened, as just a college student, she wanted to die. She hoped and begged that people would give her some kind of pills so that she could commit suicide and get out of her misery. But nobody did, and so she went on a living.
And then, because she was a Christian, she learned that there were those who believed in faith healing. She attended the faith healing services. And she attended these with hope and encouragement from friends. And the passage of scripture that she zeroed in on more particularly than any other was the fifth chapter of the Gospel of John, where Jesus heals the paralytic that was there along the pool by the pool of Bethesda, and he was there for 38 years. And Jesus comes along and says, take up your pallet and walk.
That was her passage. But even though she had faith, even though this was her passage that she would be healed, the healing never came. Fame. One time at Founders Week a few years ago, She was here at the church and she told this story. and I could not even keep back the tears.
She said, recently I was in Israel. This is now 40 years later. 35 or 40 years later, she said, I was in Israel. And she said, I went and I was wheeled next to the pool of Bethesda. And she said, when I looked at that pool, I thanked God that he had not healed me.
in those 35 years. Because of all the grace and because of all the ministry he gave me as a result. of my infirmity. God says, Johnny, I'm not going to heal you, but I'm not going to just leave you there hopelessly. I am going to give you grace.
I think of a family that has a child. With a huge disability. I won't even describe it to you. It's not just a normal disability, but far beyond that. And how these parents lovingly take care of the child in exasperation, and they watch the child suffer.
But there's nothing they can do for that suffering. They have the best of medical care. You say, Well, Pastor Lutzer, would you have the grace to look after a child like that? I don't have that kind of grace. I don't.
But hear me carefully. If God had given us a child like that, I believe that God would have supplied. The Grace. Grace comes in the midst of our need, and God says, Paul. The answer is no.
But it isn't a harsh, uncaring no, it is grace that I am giving you.
So what is Paul's response now? We've looked at the request. We've looked at the reply. What is Paul's response? He says in the middle of verse 9 now, Therefore I will boast all the more.
Because of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. He says, if I receive grace, I also receive power. I accept it. Yeah. How wonderful it is to know that when God doesn't answer our prayers the way in which we think He should.
He does give grace. That was the experience of the Apostle Paul. and that also can be our experience. I want to ask you a question. Are you blessed as a result of the ministry of running to win?
Would you like to become a partner or what I like to refer to as becoming a member of the family of running to win? First of all, I'm reading a report here of someone listening to this program. They say I listen to running to win in the mornings in my company van. Though I have been celibate and not dated, I've been experiencing attacks on my mind. Your messages help deliver me.
I gave up my life to follow Christ. I joined a local church and I'm getting baptized this month.
Well, I would say to this person that the attacks might not stop, It is a continual battle. But the point is this Thanks to the Ministry of Running to Win, people are being edified. Would you consider becoming an endurance partner? I hope that you have a pen or pencil handy because I want to give you some contact info and you could at least investigate what an endurance partner is. Here's what you do.
Go to rtwoffer.com. or you can pick up the phone and call 1-888-218 ninety three thirty seven. I want to thank the many of you who respond to this ministry. You encourage us, you pray for us. And once again, let me give you that contact info.
Go to rtwoffer.com. Now when you're there, you click on the endurance partner button. It'll give you all the info you need. or if you prefer, call one eight eight eight 218. ninety three thirty seven.
One of the blessed things about radio is this For every person who contacts us, We know there are two. tens of thousands who are being blessed. Thanks so much for helping us. It's time again for you to ask Pastor Lutzer a question you may have about the Bible or the Christian life. Today's question comes to us from Texas from Christina.
She writes, I feel I am very ineffective at prayer. and just a few days ago a passage of Scripture struck me in a way that gave me pause. I was reading in Matthew chapter twenty one, and this verse jumped out at me. Truly, I say to you, if you have faith, and do not doubt, you will say to this mountain, Be taken up and thrown into the sea. And it will happen.
and whatever you ask in prayer you will receive if you have faith. I know God can do anything. But I doubt, because I also know that He does only what He wants, that is, what His Divine Will is. I'm not so bold as to presume that my prayer will change his mind. I've been praying for someone who is seriously ill.
But because I don't know God's will, my prayer is vague. If it's not God's will for this person to be healed, then he won't be healed, no matter how much I pray. It seems to me like a self-defeating circle.
Well, Christina. I've been sitting here listening as Dave McAllister has been reading your question to me and wondering exactly how to answer, because I could give you a very long answer. To many excellent questions that you've embedded in your letter. But just a couple of comments. First of all, when Jesus said, if you have faith, you can move this mountain from here to there.
Obviously he is using hyperbole. He just means to say that faith can do mighty things. And why is it that he goes on to say that if we ask in faith without doubting, we'll receive it?
Well, in cases like that, It appears to me that God shares with us what He intends to do. and therefore when we begin to pray we are in effect praying His will back to Him. There are instances like this in Scripture. And of course at a time like that you can really pray in faith because God is granting you the faith. and the ability to know that this is his will.
Now the other question regarding your friend who's sick, and the whole matter of the will of God. There are times when we don't know God's will and we can't pray with great faith that God is going to heal someone. but we should pray for that person, and we should commit them to God in something like Jesus in Gethsemane. Father, if it is your will that this cup pass from me, nevertheless, not as I will. but as you will.
That's the bottom line. for every growing Christian. Let God's will be done. But we do bring our petitions to Him, like the Apostle Paul says. Very clearly.
He says that we come before God. We bring our cares before him, and the peace of God which passes all understanding keeps our hearts and minds in Jesus Christ. And therefore we should come with all of our petitions. But there's finally, I do need to add this. You say that you would not presume that you could change God's mind.
Well, that might be true because uh we don't know what God's mind is, but Remember this, Christina. Prayer changes. things. It may not change God's mind in the sense that you and I think of it, but. Prayer changes things.
Your prayer. Might under the divine will of God make a huge and lasting difference. Keep praying. Keep praying. Keep seeking.
and you'll grow in faith. And who knows? but you may even see some miracles. Thank you, Dr. Lutzer.
If you'd like to hear your question answered, you can go to our website at rtwoffer.com. And click on Ask Pastor Lutzer. Or you can call us at 1-888-218-9337. That's 1-888-937-777-777-7777. 218-9337.
You can write to us at RunningTowin 1635 North LaSalle Boulevard, Chicago, Illinois, 60614. When Christians find themselves in need, they naturally pray for God to provide. If the answer is no, how we then react is crucial. Even the no answers are still answers. God is fully aware of our needs and what's best for us.
Next time on running to win, why our faith can grow even when the answer is no. Thanks for listening. For Pastor Erwin Lutzer, this is Dave McAllister. Running to Win is sponsored by the Moody Church.
