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As Christians, we must strive towards dependability, a spiritual discipline that helps believers grow into something others can depend upon. This involves training our hearts to praise and worship, understanding that our new heart feeds on the Bible, and making sure we have a heart that is born again. Dependability is proven through difficult times in life, and it's essential to train our hearts daily in the things of God to understand that what we're fighting for is truth.

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Today on Real Life Radio, teach. It That is your heart to praise and worship. My friend, you and I have to nurture our hearts to worship. Don't ever think. The way some people think, well, you know what?

We can get the church, they're just singing now. A born-again heart cannot think like that. This is real life. Welcome to Real Life Radio with Pastor Jack Hibbs. I'm David Jay, thanking you for joining us today as we listen, learn, and are challenged by God's Word, the Bible.

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Erwin Lutzer at jackhibbs.com slash realradio. On today's edition of Real Life Radio. Pastor Jack continues his series called Disciplines of Life. with a message titled, Disciplines of Dependability. As Christians, we really have to strive towards dependability.

It's a spiritual discipline that helps believers to grow into something that others can depend upon. You see, this discipline is all about being consistent, to trust and obey God even when it's difficult. Dependability, together with patience and humility, is what you gotta have to face life's obstacles with faith rather than giving up when things get tough.

So today Pastor Jack teaches that dependability is proven through the difficult times. Our hearts need to be guarded through the pressures of life so that we can praise and worship the Lord, so that we can fellowship with others and to meditate upon his word.

Now with his message called Disciplines of Dependability, here's Pastor and Bible teacher Jack Hibbs. Reliability, steadfastness. That's a strong word. Jesus said it this way in Matthew 5:8 regarding the heart. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.

Have you ever thought about that for a minute? Think about that. This is not the study I want to give right now, but let me put this. in front of you. Blessed are the pure in heart.

For they shall see God. You want to freak out for a moment? God is Father, Son, Holy Spirit. In eternity. By the way, the pure in heart, there's not going to be a section in heaven where the pure in heart sit.

Did you know that?

Well, I'll be a peacemaker. I'll be over here. No, you're not. No, no. Those in heaven We'll have all of those things.

Because the true believer In their heart right now, you, right here this evening, you long to be a peacemaker. You long to be pure in heart, don't you? The four of us do, right here. Pure in heart. See, what does that mean?

They shall see God. How? How are we going to see the Holy Spirit in heaven? I don't know, but we're gonna. It says God.

You will see God. How are we going to see God the Father when the Bible tells us that no man can look upon him? Because you will be glorified. You will be in your glorified state. You will be in your absolute, total, redeemed state.

Wow. Obviously, we can really relate and associate, and so we should with Jesus Christ. But to see the Holy Spirit, to see the Father, to see the Son, blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God. That is going to be an awesome moment. And when we talk about the disciplines of dependability, we're talking about something that is installed in the character of a believer.

A brand new heart's been given to us.

Now, why do we need a new heart? Because the Bible says in Jeremiah 17:9, now watch the doors. This is where people leave. Watch this. Cameras, get ready.

Follow them out all the way. Because nobody wants to hear this if they're deceived. But if you're honest with yourself, you'll say, wow, the Bible looks down into my soul. Jeremiah 17:9 says, This is God speaking, the heart is deceitful above all things. It's desperately wicked.

Who can know it? If you keep reading verse 10, God says, I know it. God knows. Do you know that? The heart's wicked, says the Bible.

It's deceitful. It needs to be. Renewed, it needs to be changed, I should say. A new heart. And that heart needs to be trained in the things of God.

It's being born again, Jesus said. In Psalm 14:1, the Bible says, I love this. Go out tonight, it's gonna be crystal clear. Look at the stars. It's been beautiful at night for the last 10 months.

The fool has said in his heart, There is no God. Look up at those stars because the Bible says the heavens declare the glory of God. You think of that? Boy, this morning I was outside early. It was beautiful, and it was dark, and the sky was so brilliant.

And you think about the heavens, declare the glory of God. And sometimes when I'm looking at the heavens and you're thinking about that, it's almost as though, as the scripture says, that day and today, night unto night, and day unto day, they utter their speech, and there's no place. Where their voice is not heard, it means that the heavens are shouting to a world that's looking on: God is real. But the fool says in his heart, No God, there's no God, there's no God, there's no God.

Well, listen. This is the very reason why, as Jesus said, we must be born again to enter the kingdom of heaven. We need a brand new heart, and the moment that we come to Christ, that heart needs to be trained in the things of God. Ezekiel 36:26 says that God speaks to the believer, and He says, I will give you a new heart, and I will put my spirit within you. A brand new life.

In 2 Corinthians 5, you're going to have to write these down fast. I have a lot of verses. In 2 Corinthians 5:16, The Bible says, Therefore, from now on, we regard no one according to the flesh. I quote this verse often, I love it. We don't look at each other any longer according to the flesh, even though we have known Christ according to the flesh, yet now we know him thus no longer.

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation, old things have passed away, behold, all things have become. No, do we believe that tonight? Listen, have you had a rough life? Has the input into your life been very bad? Have you had horrible parents or horrible grandparents?

Or did somebody raise you? Were you raised by a pack of wolves in the wilderness? Whatever that was, listen, you are not an animal. You have been created in the image of God. You're not an angel.

You're redeemable. Angels are not. You are God's treasure, so much so, he says, I've sent my son. To die on the cross for your sins And to not only pay the price that you and I couldn't pay for our sin. He did that.

Washing away the sin of yours and mine. But on top of it, given us a brand new start in life. All the stuff that mark it down in your head. Just think for a moment. All the stuff that we would say is against us.

Is it life?

Somebody might say, life's not fair. Let me tell you something, absolutely not. Life's not fair. It's not supposed to be fair. Where do we get that concept?

Well, life's not fair. For you to say that life's not fair is for you to immediately admit that there is something better. And to assume that what's difficult must be bad.

Somebody I was talking to someone yesterday at the hospital and They said, well, the worst thing that can happen is... And they said what they said. And I said, but is that really the worst thing that could happen? Yeah, yeah, actually, that's what they said. Is it really the worst thing that could happen?

That this person re life ends in death. Not for the believer, that's not the worst thing that can happen. See, we get this concept, and let me tell you something right now: we need to rejoice. God is not fair regarding salvation either. You don't want God fair regarding salvation.

Fair is all the super nice good people get to go to heaven. Where are the rest of us going to go? Jesus died for the entire world. He died for the sins of all humanity at the cross. And that's an awesome thing, and that's a wonderful thing.

So the newness of life that he gives us? Listen. Is Observable. In this area of God working in you, dependability. And man, I feel like a salmon right now swimming upstream with what I'm about to say.

Our culture is all but lost. Because Somewhere along the line, our kids have been sold the bill of goods. Just get by. Don't excel. Don't be.

The star student. Don't get all happy faces. Don't get straight A's. You'll make everybody else feel bad. Don't be innovative.

Don't be, listen. We have been sold down the river of Just getting by in life, and now we come. Listen, there's something, there's something to suffering, there is something to. Duty. There is something to Having to be dependable.

Mom, Dad? If you think Having junior at Eight years of age, learned how to take the trash cans out, even though the trash cans are taller than him. You think that's evil? Because you've been sold an absolutely insane way of thinking. Listen, do you understand that when you're training Junior to take the trash can out, you are building in his life character?

I want you to mow the lawn. The lawnmower might be too big for him. But put him, put her in situations where they need to sweat and learn and try and try again. We have a culture that says if it's too hard, quit. And it's wrong because you know what?

It translates into life. And you have a bunch of people walking around in life. They're not dependable, but they're holding their hand out saying, Give me, give me, give me. It's mine, it's mine. I don't need to earn it.

Hand it to me. And yet, every great achievement in the world, for that matter, in America, has been because people have put their blood, sweat, and tears. You see, what does that have to do with what we're talking about? Because in spiritual matters, too many young people today are brought up saying, well, you know what? Whatever.

And when I read my Bible, I see young people pursuing, hungering, can I say, lusting after God. Passionate for him. The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 15, 57, but thanks be to God who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. Stop right there. He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.

So what does that mean?

Well, I guess we just sit around and wait for the cake to arrive. No We are to war in the things of the Spirit, right? We are to put on the armor of God. The victory's been given, thus, we go to war. And the things of God.

Therefore, my beloved brethren, be here's that word, dependable, steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor, your what? Can I hear that again? Your labor is not in vain in the Lord. Are we teaching our young people today? Do our junior hires and high schoolers know that they are to be laboring in the things of God?

It's hard, it's difficult, it's tough. Because you know what? Life is hard, difficult, and tough.

So, tomorrow night, we'll have a three-time gold medalist speaking to us. And how do you think that happened? Do you think they just walked up there in Greece or in Australia and handed her the gold medals? I said, Here you go. Looks good on you.

Kinda goes with your skin tone. No. A life was devoted to that. And as believers, as eternity, as heaven, is Christ.

So important to us that we will absolutely be sold out for him. Oh, I'm telling you, it's the only way to live, and it's the only way that we're going to have life. There is no life. Lived. in some mediocre state.

And maybe we're too old to hear this message tonight, but there might be a young person listening. That might be the next person who either Takes the pulpit for Billy Graham, or I don't know what. becomes the next president. The Lord knows we need a new governor. Right?

Dependability is proven through difficult times in life. 2 Corinthians 1.7 says, And our hope for you is steadfast, because we know that as you are partakers of the sufferings, so also you will be partaker of the consolation, that is the comfort. Heart maintenance is required daily as a Christian. We're to train our hearts up in the things of God. And to understand that What I'm embarking upon is going to be difficult.

Don't raise your hand tonight, please. But are you not a Christian tonight?

Well, let me tell you something right now. Your friend may have brought you here tonight. They bought you dinner, maybe, and. Brought you here in Well, I want to be the first to tell you. Being a Christian is the hardest thing in this world to be.

Oh great, thanks.

Now my friend's not going to come to Christ. Oh no, no, listen. You can sleep in and snooze and dream, daydream your whole life away. Anyone can do that. But the moment you become a Christian, for real, I'm talking realsies, I'm talking a real Christian.

I'm not talking about a Sunday Christian. The world's full of Sunday Christians. I'm talking about a real Christian. I'm talking like a Wednesday night Christian. Oh, yeah.

And a Monday, and a Tuesday. Right? It will be hard. What am I saying? As a believer...

It is an amazing thing to realize that what we're fighting for is truth. We are on the side. We're not asking God to get on our side. That's a bad thing. Ronald Reagan said, Don't ask God to be on our side.

We better be on God's side. There's a big difference. We need to make sure that we're on God's side. You're listening to real life with Pastor Jack Hibbs. To learn more about this ministry or to catch up on some previous episodes, go to jackhibbs.com.

That's jackhibbs.com. And now, let's get back to today's message. Once again, here's Pastor Jack. In Hebrews 3:14, the Bible says for. We have become partakers of Christ if we hold the beginning of our confidence steadfast to the ends.

We're Christians before we're Americans. We're Christians before we're Californians. We're Christians above all things. Because he is steadfast, we get to be steadfast. Hebrews 6:18 says, Know this: that by two immutable things, God is immutable.

There's. No one else is immutable. That is, he is... Perfect. in which it is impossible for God to lie.

We might have strong consolation who have fled for refuge to lay hold of the hope set before us. This hope we have, here it is, as an anchor of the soul. Don't you need an anchor for your soul? I do. Both sure and steadfast.

That's that word, dependable, and which enters the presence. Behind the veil. That's Jesus. Our confidence is in Christ as an anchor of the soul, both sure and steadfast. That's our Jesus.

And you and I need an anchor. in the storms of life. An anchor.

Okay, listen, I want you to jot this down before we move on. To the next point. How do I train my heart? Isn't that your asking anyway?

Okay, Jack.

So you say I need to have my heart trained. How do I do it? Here you go. Ten things. You get it?

Write them down. There's a piece of paper right in front of the seat there. Yeah. Begin these disciplines for your life starting now. Number one, Make sure that you have a heart.

Yeah. Make sure you have one. That is a new one. Are you born again? John chapter 3, verse 3: Are you born again?

Jesus said, You ain't going to heaven. Unless you're born again. The word born again in English is actually the word born from above in Greek. To be born from above. It flies in the face of having been born of the earth.

We've all been born of the earth. We are children of Adam and Eve. Jesus said, To enter the kingdom of heaven, you need to be born by the Spirit which comes from above. John chapter 3.

Okay, the second thing is do everything you can to feed it. The Bible. Your heart feeds on nothing, let me rephrase. Your new heart feeds on nothing but the Bible. It doesn't have an appetite for anything else.

And I'm going to prove it to you right now who are born again. When your heart invests in things that are not of the Spirit, You might have fun. You might be entertained. It might be exciting. But when it's over...

You know that this was of no eternal value. You know what I'm talking about? It's like going to a movie. You go to a movie, you get popcorn, you watch this thing. What are you doing?

In honesty, here's the way I think. You don't want to go to a movie with me. First of all, the Lisa hates to go to a movie with me because when I go to a movie, I sit down and if I can figure that movie out in three minutes and five minutes, I'm gone, baby. I'm out of there. Money back!

I try to figure out the movie. And if I can figure out a movie in three to five minutes, it's not worthy of my time. And you eat the popcorn and all that, and what's happened? You've wasted three hours. I said, Jack, man, calm down, back off, take a chill pill.

What is the deal? But your new heart walks around thinking. How do I redeem the time? And so we'll go and do something or do whatever. And is it of value?

Now, just so you don't think I'm some sort of a creep. You can go to the beach and enjoy the whole day and totally be walking or laying out in the will of God. You could be Sabbathing. Thinking about him. Thanking him for the sand, thanking him for the shore, thanking him for the dolphins or whatever it is.

I don't know. What?

So often we r we get involved in things that that don't matter eternally.

So that's important. Number three, teach it, that is your heart, to praise and worship. My friend, you and I have to nurture our hearts to worship. Don't ever think. The way some people think, well, you know what?

We can get the church, they're just singing now. A born-again heart cannot think like that. A born-again heart says, I don't care what Jack says, I got to get there before the worship begins. Because that's my offering to him. That's my time with him in a corporate setting.

in a convocation. That's my moment. Teach your heart to praise and worship. Do you know the difference between praise and worship?

Some people get all bent out of shape. It should only be praise. or it should only be worship. No, the Bible says that we are to praise and worship. Worship is more like those times when we're singing and it's kind of melodic and it's kind of meditative.

You know what I'm talking about? And it's kind of like this, and that's wonderful. And then praise is more of the time where it's like this: God, you're awesome, and God, you're great. Both are biblical. Both we are to do.

Four months, except The man or woman He has made you or made you into be. Your heart needs to understand this. Your new heart, your born-again heart. God, listen. In fact Esther, aren't we reading didn't we read about Esther today?

She's going to come to the conclusion soon in our daily Bible reading. That she's come into the kingdom. She's going to hear this from Mordecai. For such a time as this. Guess what?

Are you alive right now? Yep. Are you born again? Are you listening? Yep.

You've been appointed right now for such a time as this by the hand of God. You understand something now. Whatever your life has been previously to this moment. If you're a Christian today, whatever hardship, difficulty in life you've had, it is to the making and building of your Christian character. Did you have a A rough this or a good that or a whatsoever, it's for your character.

Accept the person who you are in Christ and get up and go. Don't look around and say, I wish I was like her, I wish I was like him. You're not them. You're not supposed to be her. Get up and go.

Here's the cool thing. Are you ready for this? I've only had about three original thoughts in my entire life, and this is one of them. It's very hard to have an original thought. I remember 30 years ago really struggling with God, why'd you save me?

I'm so stupid. Why argue with him? Just say thank you very much. No, I'm going to get in a debate with them. Why'd you save me anyway?

And the Lord Instilled in my heart this. Because I wanted to be somebody else. It's like, you know, I don't want to be me. And God says Jack. I didn't die for your personality.

I died for your sins. I made you who you are because I like you. That's freaky weird, huh? Mm-hmm. The sin issue.

He died for the sin issue. He thinks that you know how you know that stuff in your life that You're kind of quirky about? God thinks that's cool with you. It drives us nuts, but He likes that in you. It's absolutely amazing.

Pastor and Bible teacher Jack Hibbs, here on Real Life Radio. and his message called Disciplines of Dependability. Thanks for being with us today, we really appreciate you being here. You know, this message is part of Pastor Jack's series called The Disciplines of Life. It's a series that highlights the disciplines of a Christ follower and the high cost of sharing our faith with others.

And we'll continue on the next edition of Real Life Radio. Truth doesn't need permission and it doesn't need a filter. The Real Life Network delivers bold biblical content that addresses today's toughest issues with clarity and conviction. Watch teachings and interviews and the special programs that equip you with God's truth for the world that we live in today. Sign up for free at reallifenetwork.com.

Stay grounded in scripture, gain perspective, and remain confident in Christ no matter what's happening around you. Stream for free today at reallife network.com. Uh Hey, thank you again so much for listening. And if you'd like to hear or see more of what we do here, you can always go to jackhibbs.com for all the latest on what's going on with this ministry. And please, if you're ever in the Southern California area, come see us at Calvary Chapel Chino Hills.

We'd love to see you there in person. It has been so good to be with you today, and I pray you find yourself in the grace and mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ. See you on the next episode. This program is made possible by the generous contributions of you, our listeners. Visit us at jackhibbs.com.

That's jackhibbs.com. Until next time, Pastor Jack Hibbs and all of us here at Real Life Radio wish for you solid and steady growth in Christ and in His Word. We'll see you next time here on Real Life Radio.

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