Men of Character

Welcome to PowerPoint with Jack Graham.

So if you want character in your life, you have to go through some things. The Bible says we are to exercise ourselves unto godliness, just as you would exercise your body to get stronger. To run harder and longer, or to lift more. On today's PowerPoint, Dr. Graham brings a message about the importance of being a father who is a man of character.

Now here's Dr. Graham with his message. Men of character. I want to speak to you on the subject of character. Because I know if you are a Christian man, You want to be A great dad.

Right? You want to be, because it's the best job you will ever have. Did you know that? The best job you will ever have. is being a dad.

And ultimately, if you get to be a granddad, that's a great job too. But We need to be men of character. Men who are faithful. to our wives. to our children.

to our families, to our Church. to our community, to our nation. What we need is godly men. Men like you and you and you and you who are willing. To say, Lord.

I'm available to you. Fill me and use me. First and foremost for my family. is the goal for every godly man. is to be a man.

of character.

Now we are seeing A problem relative to character not only in the community but in the church.

Sometimes young pastors ask me, What's the most important ingredient for a successful ministry? I don't have to think about it twice. character. Integrity. I had the opportunity.

several years ago to be at Yankee Stadium. That was a thrill. It's probably about 2008, the great Mariano Rivera, the closer, the only person ever inducted into the Hall of Fame first ballot unanimous was not Babe Ruth or Ty Cobb or Lou Gehrig or Joe DiMaggio. It was Mariano Rivera, the great closer. He's a strong believer in Christ.

And we were there at batting practice, and I had the opportunity. I just sat down with Mariano on the bench, and we were talking about faith and talking about life. And this was a time in the Yankees, and they'd been through a great series of championships. The New York Yankees, a well-known franchise. But they were losing.

It was the middle of the year. They were having a bad season, and they had a lot of characters on their team. And one of them was bragging about having the biggest porn collection in Major League Baseball. They were in internal fights within the team. There were problems in the team.

And I said to Mariano, I said, Mariano, What's the problem with the Yankees? And he didn't hesitate. He just said two words. No Character. No character.

Warren Buffett was asked what are the most important ingredients. in hiring a successful person in your business. He said, well One is competence, ability. That's so very important. Another is energy.

We hire people who are energetic. And the other is integrity. And Buffett went on to say, Without integrity, the other two, talent, and energy. will kill you. You see, character Is essential in life, in anything that you are doing.

And certainly regarding being. a parent and being a dad.

So, no wonder the Bible asks, God asks the question in Proverbs 20, verse 6: but a faithful man who can find Where are the faithful men? 2 Chronicles 16, 19 says this. That the eyes of the Lord are running to and fro throughout the whole earth. Looking For men to give strong support to those whose heart is blameless towards Him. That is a good word.

Blameless. Character is not perfection because if it was perfection, none of us would be here. None of us. We're all flawed and failed. But we can be blameless.

in our lives. In the sense, as one person put it, you have nothing to hide and nothing to fear. In the sight of God, in the presence of your family and your friends, you are. Blameless. So very important.

Dads. Men. that we be people of character. Psalm 128, verse 1. The scripture says, Blessed is everyone who fears the Lord who walks in his ways.

To fear the Lord, what does that mean? Not to dread Him, but to walk in His ways. And how do we know the ways of God? How do we know how to walk? God has given us the instruction manual.

God has given us his infallible, inerrant word. Men are not too good at times in reading directions on how to get somewhere. Man, if you want to get somewhere with God, you better read the instruction book. Better get God's word open and listen to God as God leads us along.

So we have God's word. And in God's word, we find out what character is, what it's all. About. The word character in the ancient world literally meant an image or an imprint.

So we use the word similarly today. We say a character is like an imprint on a typing. We type an image or they would put it on coins, an imprint on a coin or on currency, and we do the same.

So that's character. It's an imprint. And your character is what imprints people around you, the lives of your children and your family. That's character. But what is it is Character is honesty.

Character is integrity. That's a similar word, integrity. And integrity literally means one or together. The word energy, you can. In mathematics, you can hear it there, or integrate.

is the idea of of integrity. And a building, we say, has integrity when it is structurally.

Sound. And integrity, character.

So you've got humility, you've got honesty, you've got integrity, you have purity, and you have one of my favorite words, authenticity. It's being real. None of our kids expect us to be perfect dads. But our kids rightfully can expect us to be real. The opposite of integrity and character is duplicity, of course.

and hypocrisy. When Jesus spoke of hypocrisy, he used an image of a person wearing a mask. In the ancient world, when the plays were performed, one character would often use multiple masks to play the various roles.

So Jesus took this word out of the culture. You said Don't wear a mask. Don't be a poser. Don't be a pretender. posturing your way through life.

You're not an actor on a stage as a Christian. And genuineness. It's what it's all about, genuineness. Real. If you get right down to it for the Christian.

It is godliness. Christ-likeness. And it comes from within. It's an inside job. Reputation.

Is what people think about us. And it's good to have a good. Reputation. But if you will take care of your character God will take care of your reputation. Because character comes from the inside out.

It's an inside out. And when there is a lack of character, you are exposed to all kinds of disaster. But when there is character, we can withstand. the pressures and the circumstances of life. In fact, that's another attribute of character as far as I'm concerned is strength and stability when tough times come.

And men, that's what we need. We need that kind. of character, Christ-likeness. and godliness. That's what I'm doing right now.

I'm defining Character. And remember Character for the Christian is the work of the Holy Spirit. There are people who are not Christians that have a certain amount of character. But if you are a Christian, Then the Holy Spirit does something unique in us, reproducing the life of Christ. And in Galatians 5, we're told the fruit of the Spirit is love and joy.

And peace, and patience, and kindness, and goodness, and gentleness, and meekness. and faithfulness. and self-control. That's the fruit of the Spirit. I like to say one fruit, nine luscious flavors.

The fruit of the Spirit. And this is the work of God in us. This is Christ alive in us. And that's the kind of character we need. It's beyond something human.

is character. that comes from Christ. You're listening to PowerPoint with Jack Graham and the message: Men of Character. This summer, America turns 250 years old, and Doctor Graham wants to mark it with you. That's why we're releasing a 21-day devotional series called One Nation Under God.

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Now, let's get back to today's message. Men of character. Let's talk for a few moments about refining character. How is character refined in our lives?

Well, look in your Bibles in James. The first chapter, the first chapter of James. And it says, when trials come, Count it all joy, my brothers. Verses 2 through 4: When you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces what? Steadfastness.

That's a great word. Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord. You know your labor in the Lord is not in vain.

So when the heat is on, when trials come, Count it all joy. Add it up. Count it as joy. Because this testing of your faith produces steadfastness or endurance. Character.

And let steadfastness have its full effect that you may be perfect and complete, that is, fulfilled and complete, lacking in nothing. Paul gives us this same principle in Romans chapter 5, 3 and 4. Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces suffering. Character. And character produces hope.

We hope in Jesus. Come, Jesus, come. And we do it with character and conviction. And When we think about perseverance and resilience in face of the struggles and the battles that we face in life. Don't think of tenacity, another word I like a lot.

Tenacious. Don't think of Of being trustworthy and true to your convictions as being just gran and bear it, or perseverance is just enduring it. No, as Christians, we endure with joy. Count it all joy. And yes, we can rejoice even in the trials that we're going through when the storms are unleashed against us because we know.

within, deep within. That there is hope in Christ. We have character. He who has this hope in him purifies himself. There is resilience.

as we are dependent upon the Lord.

So if you want character in your life, you have to go through some things. You have to be willing to go through some trials. And we all do. But know that those trials and those tribulations enable us to get stronger mentally, spiritually, and even physically. The Bible says we are to exercise ourselves unto godliness, just as you would exercise your body.

to get stronger. to run harder and longer or to lift more. When you exercise yourself in godliness, you are enduring some things to get stronger in your faith.

So we practice spiritual disciplines and we endure hardships and danger. Why? Because God's doing a greater work in us, God's doing a deeper work. Yeah. And so, then aligning our character with our families, aligning our character means that.

Dads, here's a word. to you. That We are aligning our faith in Jesus Christ. with our families. And we are walking with God.

living godly lives, being godly men. Being a man of God, fearing God, and as a result of that, there are several things that I want to mention. that we will do as fathers. Number one, We will be present. We will be present.

Away with absentee dads. Dads Get off your screen at home. And get with your kids. Spend time at home with your family. Be present.

Go to everything you can go to. Games and concerts and all the rest. My friend. Tim Clinton wrote this in Fox News. online.

He's a wonderful brother and and heads the largest association of Christian counselors in the world. But he said, This: young or old, male or female, we all look in the stands for our dad. And consider his presence and influence one of the most important factors in life. For good or bad, dads have a profound impact on the life of a child by what they say and do or what they don't say or do. The research is clear.

If we were able to stem the fatherlessness issue, our kids would be more able. to handle peer pressure. less given to substance abuse. be more secure in their male and female identities. less likely to experience mental health issues and more.

And then he said, our prayer is that of Malachi 4, 6. And he will turn the hearts of the fathers to their children, and the hearts. of the of the children. to their fathers. And then he closed with these words.

to all the dads who are showing up. Your kids see you. See you. At the game.

So, a big part of being a great dad. is to just show up. and be there. Be prayerful, of course. Pray that your children will come and know Jesus as their Lord and Savior.

Pray that your children will be discipled and grow their faith. Pray that they will learn to be servants of Christ and have a mission and a purpose in their lives. Pray that they will be generous with others. Pray that God would give them wisdom. Pray for their spouses, even yet to come.

Be prayerful for your children. And I might say children. Are you praying for your dad? You may not realize some of the things that he's dealing with or going through or the struggles that he's facing. And you need to know.

That your dad is a man. He's a man's man. He's God's man. You know... You can be born a male and not be a man.

And you can be a man and not be a godly man.

So pray. That your dad would be not just a man, not just a male, but would be a godly. Amen. For godly Father. We want to acknowledge those who have said goodbye to their fathers.

Your fathers, as mine has, is in heaven.

Some of you, even recently, have said goodbye to your father, and you know what that feels like, the impact that has on your life to be. Fatherless in that sense.

So, some of you are still grieving the loss of a dad in your life. And then there are others who are grieving and even suffering. Because you didn't have a godly dad, the absence of a godly dad in your life. And we know that happens. But I'm here to tell you that you have a heavenly Father.

That God himself will be a father to the fatherless. and a husband to the widow. and that God will be your Father. And he's a good, good father. Who will love you?

Unconditionally. Be protective of your children. That means setting boundaries, disciplining your children, and doing everything you can to protect. your children. from the works of the enemy.

That's on you and me, Dad. I would say. Get anything out of your house that's detrimental to your children. Starting with the alcohol. Get the alcohol out of your house.

It's not doing anything for you or your kids. You say, well, you're an You're just an old school Baptist preacher, Jack. No. Alcohol. Strong drink is a brawler according to the scripture.

Alcohol has many defenders, but no defense. I've been a pastor for all these years, and I can't name you one good thing that alcohol has done for anybody.

So, if you want to protect your kids, you might just want to start there. Be positive. With your kids. Ephesians 6, 4. It says, don't provoke or exasperate your children.

What that means is, as Dad, sometimes. Especially overachieving dads. We uh We can be demanding. of our kids and domineering.

So, don't exasperate your children. Love them. Everyone needs affirmation. Everyone needs encouragement. Everyone needs approval.

Everyone needs support.

So stay steady. Be persistent. Stay in there, hang in there. And don't quit. You never ever stop being a parent, do you?

You never stop loving your children. And you're a lifetime, you're a lifer when it comes to being a dad. Or being a mom. In his book, The Tender Warrior, and I close with this. Stu Weber writes these words.

Fathers and husbands need to learn faithfulness. Stand by your promises. Never, never let go. No matter what. When marriage isn't fun.

Stay in it. When work is crushing your spirit, don't let it beat you. When the local church is overwhelmed with pettiness. Or I might say scandal. Stay by it.

When your children let you down, pick them up. When your wife goes through a six-month mood swing, live with it. After all, she lives with you. When it's fourth and fourteen, and no time on the clock, throw another pass. Stay with it.

Be The man, be faithful, understand that the heart of staying power is sacrifice. Give oneself up for the good of another. For the ultimate example of staying power, our eyes only have to look to the Lord Jesus Christ. When he could have turned away from the cross, he stayed the course, setting his face like a flint all the way to Calvary. When he could have come down from the cross and sidestepped the suffering, he stayed.

When he could have summoned armies of angels to deliver him and called down divine airstrikes on the adversaries, he stayed. He persevered and he stayed under all the way until the moment came when he could cry out, It is finished. Aren't you glad that he stayed? Amen. He stayed.

And because of Christ. Because of Christ, you can too. You can stay with it. You can be faithful.

So who can find a faithful man? God is looking his eyes to and fro throughout the whole earth. Here and here and here and here and everywhere you are. For the man, the woman whose heart is blameless, step fast towards him. And God will find you.

If you think you're just out there alone on an island trying to get this done, no. God will strongly support you in this.

So be the dad, be the man of character that God made you to be. And it's never too late.

Some of you might be thinking, I've already blown it as a dad. I've already messed up. My life is too far gone. No, it's never, as long as the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, as long as there is a cross and a resurrection, is never too late for you. You're listening to PowerPoint with Jack Graham and the message.

Men of character. When you support PowerPoint ministries, you help share God's word with people around the world through programs just like this one. And as a thank you for your gift this month, we'll send you the Jesus Discoveries by Dr. Jeremiah Johnston as our thanks. This powerful resource walks through real historical evidence that points directly to Jesus, helping strengthen your faith and giving you confidence in the truth of God's Word.

And right now, every gift given before June 30th will be doubled through a $200,000 matching grant. To give your gift and request your copy, text June to 59789. That's June to 59789. This summer, America turns 250 years old, and Dr. Graham wants to mark it with you.

That's why we're releasing a 21-day devotional series called One Nation Under God. Beginning June 14th, Dr. Graham will trace the faith at the heart of America's story all the way through the 4th of July. Walk with us through the faith that built our nation. The scripture that shaped her founders, and the God who is still sovereign over her future.

To sign up, text FREEDOM to 59-789. Pastor, what is your PowerPoint for today? We really need some fat fathers. By that, I mean not overweight dads. We got enough of that, I'm sure.

But fathers who are FAT. Faithful, available, and and tender. Fathers like that make a difference in the lives of their children. These are the fathers who truly know what is best. They are encouraging, they are authentic, and they are helpful with their families every single day.

So, with that in mind, let me share a little poem with you.

Well, what are you going to be, my boy, when you reach your manhood years? A doctor, a lawyer, an actor great, moving throngs to laughter and tears? But he shook his head as he gave reply in a serious way that he had. I don't think I'd care to be any of them. I just want to be like my dad.

He wants to be like his dad. You men, did you ever think as you pause that the boy who watches your every move is building a set of laws? He's moulding a life you're the model for, and whether it's good or bad depends on the kind of example set to the boy who'd like to be like his dad. Would you have him go with you wherever you go, have him do the things just as you do? and see everything that your eyes behold, and woo all the gods that you woo?

When you see the worship that shines in the eyes of your little lovable lad, Could you rest content if he gets his wish And grows up just like his Dad? It is a job that none but yourself can fill. It is a charge you must answer for. It is a duty to show him the road to tread ere he reaches manhood's door. It is a debt you owe.

For the greatest joy on this whole earth to be had is the pleasure of having a boy to raise who wants to be just like his dad. Be a father who knows best.

so that when your little ones grow up, They too will know us best. And that is today's PowerPoint. And join us again next time as Dr. Graham brings a message about the importance of being a part of the family of God. That's next time on PowerPoint with Jack Graham.

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