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Mr. 60s: A Baby-Boomer's Story of Trials, Triumphs... and Redemption

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February 21, 2025 3:02 am

Mr. 60s: A Baby-Boomer's Story of Trials, Triumphs... and Redemption

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A man's life was marked by abandonment, abuse, and identity issues, but he found redemption through his faith and forgiveness, and overcame a life-changing stroke to live a positive and empowered life.

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Here's Joe Quinn with his story. On the morning of April 30th, 2019, I got back into acting after raising a family and talking to a friend of mine. And he said to me, he said, I got back into acting after raising a family and then on April 30th at 5.30 in the morning while I was putting my boots on and getting ready for work, I felt something funny. It wasn't funny like, haha funny. It was funny like, well, that was weird. So I started tying my boots and a little bit of a hard feeling in my right hand.

It wasn't working very well. I looked at myself in the mirror and I stuck my tongue out and my right side of my face just sagged. I went, oh, oh God, I'm having a stroke.

So I went upstairs with my right leg starting to dwindle and I went to tell my wife I'm having a stroke and I couldn't talk. So that was the beginning of a real tumultuous journey. I always knew I was adopted, always. For my earliest recollection, my parents made sure I knew that I was adopted.

So I guess it was important, but to me it didn't matter. I had my mom and dad and as I grew up, I was just a little tyke and I remember my dad had an affinity for alcohol. He drank and I remember one time, I was seven, I hit a home run in Little League Baseball and that's all I ever hit was that one home run because my dad, he sort of staggered out of the bleachers and he was from Louisiana. He was a southerner and my mother was from Germany.

She was a war bride. Well, my dad comes staggering out of the bleachers and he goes, you didn't hit no God **** home run. I'll always remember that. He said that I was stepping in a bucket and I was just swinging, trying to protect myself.

That was the only time. I mean, I boxed, same thing. It was kind of a bizarre relationship with my dad.

I think he treated me like his little brother, like I was a sibling and a sibling rivalry over the affections of mom. He said, let's put the gloves on there. Let's put the gloves on, get down on the base of the box a little bit. So I was, again, around seven or eight and man, he knocked me cold. He just bam. I broke my nose and chipped my front teeth and I woke up and said, no, no, no, don't make a scene.

Mom won't let us box anymore. But that's just the way, then I really didn't have any sort of a model to look to. I kind of mounted myself after people in the movies. That's all I had, especially a real powerful movement for me when I was growing up and about that time was Cool Hand Luke, Paul Newman, and that was a powerful movie for me.

Another one was 2001. When that came out, I thought, wow, that was really powerful. I didn't understand it, but it was powerful and I thought it was great and I thought that's what I want to be. I thought about being in the movies and being an actor and trying to look for something. I was looking for something. Well, I got some weights and I started lifting weights in the basement and all of a sudden I had something.

There was something. So I went to the Marine Corps out of high school. Again, the weightlifting, I was made a platoon leader in boot camp and they used me to show people how to do push-ups. Just all the way through it turned into a pretty good thing. I got out of the service, started competing right away, and got more and more.

Now people were asking me how to get ready for a show and how do I do this, how do I do that. All of a sudden I really developed into somebody that when he mentioned my name, people went, oh, oh, the bodybuilder. I got a lot of attention.

I felt people like me and people like having me around. My mom was from Germany. She was kind of a, well, she was from Germany and that kind of says it all. She was very strict and very forthright with everything, with everything, the way you ate, the way you sat, the way you talked.

She expected a certain thing out of people and she expected people to act a certain way and a certain decorum about themselves too. I got out of the service and I majored in theater and that was the end of it. That was really the straw that broke the camel's back with my parents. They were like, oh, theater, what are you doing? Major in business or finance or law.

Get into pre-law, you'd be a good lawyer, and then do some community theater on the side. What's the matter with you? Anyway, as I got older, I'd ask God, what in the heck did He let those two people adopt me for? It just didn't make any sense. I mean, there was nothing there, nothing, no support. But I'll tell you what, weightlifting gave me an identity. It gave me something that I was good at. It gave me something I could be proud of. It gave me something that people liked me and respected me and would ask me questions and asked me to help them, and I thought, well, fantastic. I got something.

I really do. I felt like I was really in something good, with good people, with substantial things to do. Well, anyway, after I got through college and my parents first wanted to go with some of my mother, she had a cancer in the liver and I was sitting on her bedside when she died. My dad, almost a year to the day later, he had gone back to Louisiana. He had lung cancer. I looked at him, and he was in the living room there. There was a house coat on.

He was down close to 70 pounds at this time. He was getting really close to the end. And I thought for one second I was going to go over there and say, let's put the gloves on. Come on.

Let's put them on. And now I just could hit him as hard as I could with just a straight right hand, bam, right down the middle and just say, how do you like it? That's absurd. You don't replay evil for evil.

It's really much more powerful. I just forgave them, both of them. But the problems really persisted because when my parents had passed away, I mistakenly thought, sure, now they're gone, my life will be fine.

No, no. My first wife, that ended. My second wife, that also ended because of my shenanigans and because of my bad behavior. I just could not shed that feeling that was following me everywhere. And that was it.

I'm worthless. And you've been listening to Joe Quinn share his story and what a story it is. It starts with abandonment, and he is ultimately adopted and was told he was adopted from the earliest time. He had a bizarre relationship with his own father who drank too much. Moreover, it was almost a sibling rivalry between he and his father over his mother.

You heard that boxing story, just how bizarre. He modeled himself after people in the movies, people like Paul Newman from the epic classic Cool Hand Luke. And in the end, he found meaning and identity lifting weights and also in the pursuit of the arts and in acting. But anger, resentment, and shame and a feeling of worthlessness prevailed in his life. When we come back, more of Joe Quinn's story and check out his documentary Diary of a Bodybuilder at diaryofabodybuilder.com.

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My parents are not my challenge anymore. And the weightlifting, as it came through the gamut, it was solid, it was stable, it was something I had counted, and I didn't need anybody else. Like if I was a boxer, I'd need a trainer, I'd need a sparring partner, you know what I mean? But you would lift weights, just go around the basement and set your dumbbells and your barbell down and turn some music out and get to work, you know?

And you can do that anywhere. It's always there whenever you need it, except when you have a stroke. I don't mean to sound facetious, but it's really hard for me. I miss it. I miss it terribly, terribly.

It's like the death, a death of a family member that I can't work out. My bodybuilding has been cut short. I remember competing at the Nationals in Pittsburgh in 2016.

I remember being on the stage and looking out over a dark auditorium with people, and I would say close to 70%, maybe more, were on their cell phones. They weren't even watching my posing routine. And I love posing.

I won best poser at some contests. And I didn't feel offended or angry. I felt sad.

This is the end. They took some pictures of us, and a friend of mine sent me the pictures after they were developed. And I have to tell you, I did not look good in those stupid pictures. It looked ridiculous. In those shorts, those Speedos, it reminds me of when I used to ride my bicycle out to the end of a pier over there in the summers, and the old men would be out there just standing there talking and wearing these Speedos looking ridiculous. When I saw myself, I felt like, wow, I look just like those old dudes that would hang out at the end of the pier over there off North Avenue Beach. And, I mean, they looked bad. So I thought, was me looking like that? I mean, aesthetics are gone.

They're out the window. I'm not going to be part of that anymore. Now, in my life, I became a Christian when I was 18 years old in the Marine Corps, and in spite of my struggles, I've always seen that the peace and the power and the real victory and everything was here. In my drunken and often drunken and angry tirades against God was a verse that always came to mind that neither this man sinned or his parents sinned.

He was born blind so that God could be glorified. So I was put into that situation, into that challenge, into that hell, into that cesspool for an opportunity for God to be glorified. I think that His glory is evident even in spite of those people.

I love the Lord. I have grown to understand just how powerful He is, especially through the stroke and through this lightest challenge in life that is probably the biggest thing I'll ever undertake aside from my death. And I'm not afraid to die anymore because I was in the midst of terror after that stroke, terror. And that word doesn't even do it justice. I hope to God no one has to go through what I did with the stroke.

Just what an awful experience. But on the flip side of all that is that God's going to be glorified in that stroke. God's going to be glorified in my life.

And that's all that matters because I feel that I was created to bring Him glory in spite of who I am. But now in my life I have God. I have a beautiful home, a beautiful wife.

I have an absolutely beautiful life, I do, in spite of having a stroke. I feel positive. I feel empowered.

I feel that because of forgiveness, solely because of forgiveness, I've been able to release all the past issues and anomalies and things that were just evil in certain instances that brought me up. But it forged me into the exact person I think God had in mind. And it's not for me. My life's not mine. My life is His.

It's to give Him glory. And that's what I hope I do. And that's what I strive for in spite of all the flaws that I have. And a great job on the production, as always, by Greg Hengler. And a special thanks to Joe Quinn for sharing his story.

To learn more about Quinn, check out his documentary called Diary of a Bodybuilder at diaryofabodybuilder.com. And the dam burst when his therapist told him later in life, you know you were an abused child. In 2006, we learned he went to his first AA meeting.

Thank God for AA, he said. And he's closing in on 17 years of sobriety. But the biggest challenge of his life wasn't his parents anymore. It was his stroke. He'd lost weightlifting. He'd lost his identity. But he was searching for real peace and power. And he found it through his faith walk. I'm not afraid to die anymore. I was created to bring God glory despite who I am. I have a beautiful home, wife, and life, and feel positive and empowered. And I couldn't have done it without forgiveness.

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