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Take it away, Jamie. I've got an interesting story to tell you. It's all about family. You see, when I was born in September of 1963, I was put up for adoption. I didn't realize this until years later, of course. I was adopted by a wonderful man and woman, Ted and Sandra Scott.
And I was raised in Concord, North Carolina, which is in Cabarrus County in the beautiful heart of North Carolina in the Piedmont region. Had a good reason. They treated me good. They took care of me. They provided for my needs, loved me to death and treated me just like their own son. See, Mom and Dad didn't think they could have any children. So when they adopted me, they figured that I would be it. However, my little brother surprised them a couple of years later and came along. I found out when I was a few years old about my adoption because it was a mean lady that my mom worked with that one time said to me when I was about four or five years old that my mommy was not really my mommy. You want to talk about breaking a kid?
I didn't know what that meant. Of course, I told my mom about it and she got very upset. I don't know what she did to that lady, but I'm sure it wasn't nice. But she sat down and explained to me that, yes, I had been adopted, that somebody else had given birth to me. And that they had gone in. They wanted a child. They chose a child.
They wanted somebody for their very own and they went and chose me. And they also described to me how Paul talks about in the scripture that when we accept Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior, we're adopted into the family of God. We become his sons by adoption. And it's just exactly the same process.
If God could do it, why can't others do it? So that made me pretty good with the whole adoption thing. I didn't have a problem with it. But like most kids who are adopted, and I'm sure all of them do, I haven't talked to a ton of them, but every single one I've ever spoken to has always said that you always wonder why. Why were you given up for adoption? Why weren't you kept? What, and you assume like children do, what's wrong with me that they gave me away? Not thinking as we do later on when we're parents and when we're having our own children that it was very possible that they did what was best for me.
You never know for sure, but, you know, you always have that thought in the back of your head. Well, I went to U.S. military, retired from the Navy, had families, children, even adopted a son. Regular life, didn't give it much thought.
Every now and then I would consider it and think about it, but didn't give it much thought. Until my dad, he was in his 80s at this time, mom had already passed away, and he was thinking about this ancestry.com thing and wanted to know what his background DNA was, where his family had come from. I mean, he knew his mother and father and that whole background, but he was wondering, so of course he went ahead and did the DNA. And then he got it and he was all excited about it.
He had Scottish and Welch and a whole bunch of different things in his background. And then he said, isn't that nice to know that we've got that in our background? And I looked at him kind of funny. And of course, then he realized that, you know, I don't have the same background as him. And he said, well, why don't you do it? And I said, well, I'll do it one day, dad. Maybe.
Maybe I'll do it. I don't need to do it. I'm perfectly happy with the father I have. Of course, that made him happy. And I knew that while he would want me to go ahead and do it because he thought it was the right thing to do. It would have bothered him when I found out that if I found other family, it would have bothered him.
So I didn't worry about it. A couple of years later, dad passed away. And I really hadn't thought about it until I was actually listening to Our American Stories. And it was in the month of November. I'm pretty sure it was in November, which is supposed to be something like Adoption Month.
And there was a lot of these adoption stories. And I thought, oh, I think I better have the time to do that DNA test. So I ordered the AncestryDNA test in November, right around Thanksgiving time frame.
And I went ahead, did it and sent it off. I got the results of my AncestryDNA test on Christmas Eve, 2018. It said that I had two first cousins. And I thought, well, that's interesting. So I opened up the Ancestry, saw they had a gentleman named Daniel, a gentleman named Scott. Didn't know the names, didn't know anything about them.
But I did. I went ahead and shot them an email off and said, hey, it seems that we're first cousins. Just want to let you know that I'm adopted and trying to find out things about my natural family.
And it appears that we're cousins. Scott didn't reply to me at all. He didn't know what to think. I think he noticed it right away for several days. I did speak to his mother later, and she told me that he had by the time he emailed her and asked her what she knew, the rest of the family was already aware of me.
But anyway, Daniel responded to me within a half an hour. Said he was on his way to a Christmas party, but that I looked a lot like his grandfather. And he sent me some pictures of his grandfather. His name was John Ed Ferguson and lived in Cabarrus County, North Carolina. So he had passed away several years earlier.
So he wasn't alive at the time, but they did look a lot like him. He also called, spoke to his mother, Sue, who lived in New York on Long Island area. And Sue contacted me a couple of days later and said that we talked for a little bit and told her what I was trying to do. And I was trying to figure out my family. So she said she would take a DNA test. So we were waiting for the results of Sue's DNA test to see where and how we were related. When I got an email from Ancestry telling me that I had a close relative had popped up.
So I opened up Ancestry and looked and I had a lady named Catherine Joy Binkley listed as possible, even sister. I contacted her and I found out that she was adopted also. She was a year younger than myself and had also been adopted and that her son had gotten her the DNA test for Christmas that year. And she had done it and sent in the information. So I got hers back around February, contacted Sue. So she came back in March and it came back in March as she was my half sister. It also showed that she was Joy's half sister.
So it appears that we all share the same father. So it was pretty excited to get Sue as a as a sister and to get Joy as a sister. And then to kind of find out that Sue was actually one of seven. That my biological father, John F. Ferguson, had been married and had had six children, then had gotten a divorce. Back in the time, which was odd, he was actually able to keep the children. And his wife, ex-wife, moved to Arizona, where later on she had more children of whom I've met. Mary, who says, you know, we may not be related by blood, but you're still my brother. So anyway, then he remarried and had a daughter named Robin. It just appears that during the time, about three years that he was divorced, he produced me with some woman as yet unknown and produced my sister Joy.
And we did discover who her biological mother was, of which she'd also passed as well. But it's wonderful because here I went from having one brother, whom I love very much, to having many brothers and sisters. It's wonderful to have family.
It's fantastic to have family. And a special thanks to Jamie Scott for sharing his story and great work, as always, by Monty. And by the way, you now know that we really mean it when we say your stories are our favorites. Jamie Scott's story, here on Our American Stories.
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