Are you getting God's best? I mean, the God of the universe who created all there is and loves you wants the highest, the best for you in every area of your life.
Is that what you're experiencing? Well, if not, stick around. You're going to learn how to get God's best today. Chip serves as our Bible teacher on this daily international discipleship program.
I'm Dave Druey. In this program, Chip continues in his series, True Spirituality, becoming a Romans 12 Christian. Now, if you're looking for the definitive how-to explanation of what it means to actually follow Jesus, this series provides a clear step-by-step outline.
Now, before we begin, I want to remind you to keep listening after this message to hear some additional thoughts from Chip on what we're about to hear. If you have a Bible handy, turn now to Romans chapter 12, and let's join Chip for his talk, How to Get God's Best for Your Life. Have you ever wondered why there are so many decisions and so few disciples?
Here's what I mean by that. What I know historically right now in the next 24 hours, tens of thousands of people all across the world will make decisions to follow Christ. They'll get it where you realize, I've sinned before a holy God. Christ died in my place. He rose from the dead. And you place your faith in Him and He takes you from the kingdom of darkness to the kingdom of light.
But I'm guessing that we all have either a short or long list of friends, and for many of us, I've certainly been there myself, where that's a reality. His Spirit came into your life, you begin to make some progress, you started to grow, but then things kind of got not so good. And the great majority, at least statistically, of people that genuinely know and love God, who are followers of Christ, their life isn't quite matching up.
I got an email from a lady, it's a picture of this and it's interesting, she said, thank you for your message this morning on Romans 12 one. And then now listen to her story and see how much you can identify with. I came to Christ when I was 13, but I've gone through a lot of hard times throughout my college, and my relationship with God has been up and down ever since. Lately I've been feeling lethargic and distant from God. I woke up this morning and I asked myself this question, if I died today, would people say that I was a Christian? That I was a messenger of God? Or would they even say or know that I followed God at all? Well, I happened to turn on your program and as I, in my inner life, have struggled both with alcoholism and immorality, I heard what it meant to go all in.
Bold letters. I decided to give all myself to God and completely surrender to Him. So thank you and God bless. Now that email is sort of, there's some really wonderful neat parts, but isn't it, isn't it kind of sad that someone would come to a saving knowledge at 13 and have the next plus or minus 20 years described by up and down, distant, lethargic, looking for the satisfaction that only God can give and for reasons maybe she didn't understand, finds herself relying on alcohol and then multiple sexual relationships, only to discover, oh, God has a good plan. God wants to give me the best.
And for many people, they didn't know. It does require a moment where you say to Him, I'm going to trust you. And here's what Romans 12 one said, Therefore I urge you, my brothers, in view of God's mercy, remember 11 chapters, of His love for you, offer your body a living and holy sacrifice, well pleasing to God. This is your spiritual service. In other words, that's what God really wants.
But here's the question. It's one thing to give God what He really wants. Second question is, how do you get the very best from God? And it's interesting, that's verse two. He's going to say, and do not be conformed any longer to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind that your life, in other words, your lifestyle, what you actually experience, would be the good, well pleasing, and perfect will of God. So I'm going to ask you to open your teaching handout, and what I want you to do is know that we're going to ask and answer the question that I think is one of the most important for any Christian.
How do you get the very best from God? What you're going to see, the structure of this passage, there's a negative command. Stop literally allowing the world to conform you to its mold, then there's a positive command. But be transformed by the renewing of your mind, and then there's this purpose clause.
There's a reason why. So that you personally, not someone out there, so you could experience the good, well pleasing, perfect will of God. So you got your study out. Let me do a little Bible study.
It's a bit more technical than normal, but I think it's worthwhile. The negative command is do not be conformed to the pattern of this world, and the main verb is do not be conformed. It's grammatically in what's called the passive voice, and I'll be technical just for a minute. The passive voice means, in Greek, it means that the subject is being acted upon. The active voice would be the subject is doing something. The subject is being acted upon.
The imperative simply means that it's a command, and the present tense means the subject that is being acted upon, it's happening continuously. And so what I did is I took that and gave you sort of the Chip Ingram translation from that grammar to just fill it out a bit. Literally the Apostle Paul is saying stop allowing yourselves to be molded by the influence and pressures of this present world system. It's really what he's saying. Now by the way, when he says world system or the values of this world, he's not talking about the world, the geographical world. He's talking about a system of values, a mindset, a worldview that's energized by the enemy of your soul whose goal is to kill and to steal and destroy, to mess your life up, to ruin your relationships, to separate you from God, to make you be emotionally depressed, to cause you to physically go into areas that will ruin your life.
I mean the whole goal of the world system is to destroy you. And so the Apostle Paul says stop allowing this system, this set of values that's antithetical to everything God wants for your life, stop allowing it to squeeze you into its mold. So grammatically he's telling us this is currently happening in the church at Rome. And we know it's happening right in our lives.
I mean imagine a little boy or a little girl or a young woman or an older man. You hear about Jesus the Messiah, you come to Christ, you live in Rome, there's an emperor, there's a gladiators, there's idols everywhere, there's brothels everywhere, you can have any kind of sex with any person, anytime, anywhere. It's a violent culture. 80% of the entire people group are slaves that are treated as less than human beings.
Women don't even make it. They're just a piece of property. Babies are killed because of gender with no thought. He says stop allowing the values of this present world in Rome and now today in America or wherever you are in the world to squeeze you into its mold. Now sometimes, this is really exciting for me, sometimes there'll be a phrase in scripture and someplace else in scripture it'll define it very clearly. So the application is very clearly is that we are to be separate from the world's values. If you want to understand how to give God what he wants the most, we need to be surrendered to God. But when you want to understand how to get God's best, we need to be separate from the world's values. And then in 1 John 2, 15 through 17, I put the text right in your notes, he will literally define and explain what are the world's values and how does it work.
Follow along as I read. Do not love the world or the things that are in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.
And now he's going to define. So what's the world? For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life is not from the Father but it's from the world.
And then notice this commentary. The world is passing away and it's lusts or passions. But the one who does the will of God lives forever.
Now if you have a pen, I'd like you to pull it out and every time you see the word love, why don't you circle it. He who loves the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father. Because what I want you to understand is sometimes, at least historically in the church when people talk about the world system or the world's values or worldliness, it somehow gets translated into here's a list of things you can't do or here's another list you can't do or it's all these external things. I want you to understand the values that he describes and the powers that pull at your flesh and mind are far deeper. It's about relationship. It's about where is your love, where are your affections. And he says the world system has three components.
You notice I put it in bold. There's the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes and the pride of life. The lust of the flesh is merely the passion to feel. It's this desire we have for pleasure and that pleasure can come out in sex, it can come out in food and by the way, all these desires are legitimate. But what the enemy wants to do is create a world system to deliver legitimate needs and illegitimate ways to destroy your life. The lust of the eyes is the passion to have or to possess.
I gotta have that. The boastful pride of life is the passion to be. It has to do with position.
I gotta be a somebody. And so, in summary, the world system seeks to seduce us from our love for Christ by pleasure, possessions and position. Some people put it this way, the world is really about sex, salary and status.
Or I heard an older missionary, this is like, you know, I was in another country and it said young men, we were all young men playing basketball in South America. And he says guys, it's all about girls, gold and glory. And he said those are the things, you know, girls, you can flip that around and figure it out.
Here's what I want you to get. There is a system that comes on almost every commercial, every billboard, in every magazine, where you work, that tells you that if you could possess that, if you get this position, if your kids get in this school, if you can have these things, that security and significance and meaning and happiness and purpose, it's all for you. In fact, every time you walk out of the checkout stand, it screams the world system. Because here you are, you got your little groceries and you're at the local grocery store and, you know, they got all the magazines and this magazine number one is either Cosmo or Men's Health. And if you're a guy, you look more at Cosmo than you do Men's Health. And all the girls, literally, they're all the same from the neck down when you look at the cover of Cosmo.
Some of you will get that a little bit later. And it just says sex, man, if you have that. Or part of us look at Men's Health and say, man, if I had abs, if I had abs like that, man, the women would love me. And the girls don't know whether I should look at Cosmo and I'm supposed to look like that and I wonder how many surgeries that would require or how many it's time in the work, in the workout room. And so we're just told, I mean, we're just told, your body, you got to be attractive and sexual and beautiful.
And there's whole industries, multi-billion dollar industries. I mean, all you're trying to do is buy some groceries. And it says you don't look like this.
You ought to look like this. And some of us look at all that and realize, you know, I may never get there. And so then it's People Magazine.
That's the next one on the rack. And if I could be famous like them. I mean, it's just like, how in the world did we go from actors and scripts and drama and thinking and entertainment to 80% of everything reality shows? Everyone wants their own reality shows. We've got people who do illegal things to create false stories to try and create their own reality school.
Why? If people knew me, fame, glory, then I'd be a somebody. And as you kind of get the yogurt and the bread and the milk across and you've been to Cosmo and Men's Health. And now here you are, you're thinking, my, Lance, you know, I don't, People Magazine, those sure are pretty people. And if you check the pictures and she's with so-and-so, she used to be so-and-so, now she's a so-and-so and she's pregnant.
Oh, she's got the baby bump and the names and faces change and right. And as you get a little older, some of you are going, oh, forget that. And it's, well, there's Forbes and there's Fortune.
If you had that, man. Right. And so money, sex, power, position, and then we create worlds so that our kids can get money, power, sex, and position. So we work like crazy, don't see one another, spend most of our time staring at screens, have relationships that don't work, work hours that are insane, be in the gym for long hours to become and look like someone so someone will love us. And all the while, the people that have the most money with the sexiest bodies, with the largest houses, who've won the lotto or are the celebrities, when we look carefully at their life, we see the highest percentage of depression, divorce, suicide, and emptiness. Take this crazy picture of everyone following the great rainbow for the pot of gold with possessions and power and position. And those that have it would come out and say, it's empty.
It's empty. And I can tell you whether it's in South Africa or Korea or Hong Kong or Indonesia or the Silicon Valley or Nebraska, the great majority of Christians are not experiencing God's best. And they're not experiencing God's best because their heart has been seduced away from their savior and we've bought the lies that these things will fulfill and they don't.
And God brought you into this room on this day to say to you, I want to give you the best. If you're negative, stop allowing yourself to be molded by the world. So get aware.
But that's not enough. Turn the page. Second, he's going to say, start allowing yourself to be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
Notice the positive community. He says, be transformed. Remember, I think it's about ninth grade biology, metamorphosis, right? The Greek word wef, morph is to change. Remember, and I know there's a very technical word because people always correct me, but I call them green caterpillars and I know it's technically not a caterpillar. But you know the little caterpillar that puts it in its cocoon and then this beautiful butterfly comes out?
What do we call that process, ninth grade biology? Metamorphosis. It's changed from the inside out. This is what God's saying. Don't allow the world, the externals to squeeze you and their values into this false belief and system of lies that lead to death, but allow yourself by the transformation of your mind to be changed from the inside out. Then notice the grammar.
It's exactly the same. It's in the passive voice. But what's that mean? It means, so in other words, God has to, you can't change yourself, but it's a command. So God says, there's a part that you have that you cooperate with me, but I'm the one who does the changing.
And then notice it's in the present tense. So notice a translation here of this command is, but allow God to completely change your inward thinking and outward behavior, how? By cooperating wholeheartedly moment by moment with the Spirit's renewing process. It's supernatural. It's not self-effort and trying hard to, here's a model and a picture like Jesus, I'm going to try and be kind, try and be loving, try and... No, no, it's internal.
It's supernatural. It's the Spirit of God taking the Word of God, renewing your mind in the context of community, of real life relationships, with the very personality of Jesus and His character, where you're loving and kind and peaceful and gentle and generous and other-centered and of self-discipline. And the fruit of the Spirit, which is really the life of Christ, progressively becomes more how you think and how you act.
It's not trying hard to be like Jesus. It's allowing the Jesus living in you by the Holy Spirit to transform you from the inside out. And so the application is really, I put it in the form of a question. Are you shaped more by the world or by the Word? I think I know the answer for most of us, but I thought, why don't we, let's let this one just rest for a second.
Ready? So before we just go on, let me just ask you, okay, ready? If I just put a little stick man on a line in an arrow this direction, an arrow this direction, and on this side would be the Word's influence in my life, truth, God's Word, God's people, you're the little stick man or stick woman, this is the world, which one is having the most influence? The world is saying get, get, get, accumulate, accumulate, impress, impress, impress. The Word is saying give, give, give, be authentic, love, care. The world is saying it's how you look. The Word is saying it's who you are. The world is saying you don't measure up unless you have. The Word is saying you already measure up and your value is in how you care. The Word comes to you in the beauty of nature, primarily the Bible, the Word of God, and out of the relationships of other believers where Jesus lives inside of them, all those things wooing you and drawing you to allow Christ be formed in you. And the world comes at you in smartphones, computer, TV, Netflix, billboards, romance novels, relationships where people kind of look at you and say unless you have this, unless you look like that, unless you can do this, unless you conform that, you don't really measure up.
And you're in the battle of your life. External forces like this saying to you conform, conform, conform. And an internal supernatural power saying be transformed, be transformed. And I don't say this, this is not like oh I want everyone to feel guilty for like 30 seconds.
I just want you to look at the little stick man in your mind and say is the input of God's Word and God's people and those things influencing your time, your priorities and your focus or is it more the world? Now nationwide it's pretty obvious about 8 to 9 out of 10 Christians it's more this. But can you imagine in heaven how God must feel about that lady and about us as a 13 year old girl that comes to know Jesus and is loved and He's got this amazing plan for her.
But she hears that unless you sleep with your boyfriend you don't measure up and so she does. And she feels guilty because when the Spirit lives in you there's this battle and she did it to be loved and well then she feels bad about it and so to get sleep at night she starts drinking a little bit and she wants to be a part of things so she hangs with the crowd and down deep inside of her soul she has this lack of peace and then finally she just realizes I've spent 20 years with the Spirit of God living inside me and I've never gotten God's best. I wonder how many Christians sitting in this room today are living right there today because boy I'll tell you I've been there.
Chip will join us here in studio with his application in just a minute. You've been listening to the first part of his message how to get God's best for your life from his series True Spirituality Becoming a Romans 12 Christian. This six part series sheds light on how to move your relationship with God from a performance oriented existence to a loving grace filled life. In these messages Chip describes the profile of an authentic follower of Jesus and provides practical steps for how we can get there. Now for those who don't know True Spirituality is the core discipleship teaching here at Living on the Edge. And because of that we have a ton of great resources to help you get plugged in with this series whether that's the study guides the DVDs or CDs of Chip's teaching the book or our free MP3's. For a limited time all of these helpful resources are discounted. So order your True Spirituality resources today by going to livingontheedge.org. That's livingontheedge.org.
App listeners tap special offers. Well Chip for a lot of believers you know over a period of time the Christian life starts feeling like a big long to-do list. Like I'm supposed to pray, I'm supposed to read my Bible and it becomes a grind and there's no joy anymore. Could you give us some help in terms of how to make our relationship with the Lord fresh and alive the way we'd like it to be and God wants it to be?
Dave it's true of all of us. I mean it's about relationship, it's about connection, it's about the Spirit of God taking the Word of God and hearing his voice and growing and having a sense of his presence and very vivid prayers and sort of walking with God day to day. And what I realize is a lot of Christians don't know how that works or they need kind of a jump start to that. We're doing something brand new. It's called Daily Discipleship with Chip and it's on True Spirituality. It's me meeting with you the listener one on one. We walk through the text together.
I give you a small little outline and I ask you to do 10 minutes. And for 17 days we walk day by day together and discover how to study the Bible, how to hear God's voice, developing the habit where day in and day out you begin to make this a part of your life. People have asked me for years, will you mentor me, will you disciple me? Daily Discipleship, True Spirituality is just that.
Dave could you tell them how they can get connected with us? I'd be glad to Chip. Well we're so excited to share with you this new Daily Discipleship with Chip, True Spirituality based in Romans chapter 12. Our heart behind this video series is to really help you dive into God's Word and discover how to more intentionally live out your faith. For 17 days you and Chip will walk through what True Spirituality looks like and how you can put these truths into practice. If you're looking for the next step along your faith journey let me encourage you to be a part of Daily Discipleship with Chip, True Spirituality. You can sign up for this study right now and when you do we'll send you our friend Lance Witt's devotional based on Romans 12 called Leave Ordinary Behind at No Cost. Sign up now while this offer lasts by going to LivingOnTheEdge.org or by calling 888-333-6003.
That's 888-333-6003 or go to LivingOnTheEdge.org. App listeners just tap Discipleship. Now with some final thoughts from this message, here's Chip. As you listen to today's message what went through your mind? I mean it's a no yes proposition and to get God's best what we talked about is you have to say no to the influences of the world system that is taking you out of receiving God's best. We're going to talk about how do you actually renew your mind to receive God's best.
But today is kind of like inventory day. I mean what came to your mind, what people, what practices, you know, what's going into your mind, your heart that you realize as I was talking. In fact you realized it because the Spirit of God did that thing. You know how He does where He just sort of pokes and you go ooh it sort of hurts but I know it's true.
Where did He poke you? I mean what movie, what Netflix, what relationships, what websites, what books, what magazines do you just say and some of them they aren't even wrong. They're just not helpful. They're not healthy.
They're distracting. You know how much time in front of a screen or a tube or a video game did God just whisper to your spirit and say you can keep doing that but you'll never get my best. You need to make room for me so I can do in you and through you what I long to do so you get the very, very best, the best relationships, the best future, the best work. And so what I want you to do is just identify that and then make a commitment to be with me at our next broadcast and we're going to talk about how to be transformed by the renewing of your mind. You know a great way to get more out of every message is to use Chip's message notes while you listen. You'll get his outline, all of his scripture references and lots of fill-ins to help you remember what you're learning. Use them personally or even with your small group. Chip's message notes are a quick download at livingontheedge.org under the broadcasts tab. App listeners tap fill-in notes. Well be sure to join us next time. Until then this is Dave Druey saying thanks for listening to this Edition of Living on the Edge.
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