The ART of Survival - A Resource to Ask for, Part 2

When you need answers, when you need direction, how do you know God's will in these difficult days? How do you know whether it should be school online or school at home? How do you know whether you ought to relocate or stay where you are? How do you know whether you stay in this job or look for a different one? How do you know what to do when it looks like everything's falling apart? God has the answer, and that's today on Living on the Edge.

Stay with me. Well, thanks for joining us for this Edition of Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram. Living on the Edge features the Bible teaching of Chip Ingram on this international discipleship program.

I'm Dave Druey, and in this program, Chip continues his series called The Art of Survival. We're studying chapter 1 of the book of James. James was the half-brother of Jesus who became the leader of the Christian church in Jerusalem. But circumstances turned ugly for those believers, and their world was turned upside down. What James said to encourage them has the same relevance for anyone today whose world is turned upside down. He brought God's answer then, and we have it now.

So let's listen in as Chip brings us the second half of this message from his series, The Art of Survival. You serve a God who is kind and good and loving and understanding. It's why Jesus, when he taught the disciples to pray, he introduced a foreign concept. And in the Old Testament, there's not a lot of references to God as our Father. And Jesus would say, when you pray, pray Abba.

It's a term of endearment of a small child connected to his papa or his father. And I just want to remind you, when we go through difficult times, some of us blame other people. We can blame the government. We can blame circumstances.

But down deep, many of us blame ourselves. And God would want you to know that I want you to come, and I want to help you. But did you notice there's a condition here? He says, I want you to ask, but let him ask in faith without any doubting.

There's two conditions. It assumes that you lack wisdom because of the construction and the grammar here. But then he says, we only receive God's wisdom if we, one, ask in faith, and two, without any doubting.

So what's that mean? Let's figure out what it means to ask in faith. What it means to ask in faith is trusting and believing and having confidence in God's character and his word that you'll do whatever he shows you.

Right? Ask in faith. In other words, it's not, oh Lord, I would kind of like to know your opinion on what I ought to do in this devastating situation. This is, Lord, I'm believing you're the all-knowing, all-powerful God. You're the sovereign God of the universe. I can trust your word.

I can trust your character. I'm asking in faith. And then notice, without any doubting.

Some people get tripped up on this. This word for doubting means without judgment or wavering. This is not that feeling that we all have at times, like, God, are you really there? Or do I doubt that you might show up?

Or are you really going to take care of me? God knows we're human. He knows that we'll have struggles at times and have some intellectual doubts. This passage is not saying that. This passage is talking about the kind of doubt that has disloyalty. Because notice what he says.

He explains it later. He says, Come to him without any doubt, for the one who comes with doubt like that is unstable in all his ways. In fact, is double-minded, two-souled.

We get our word schizophrenia. It's a picture of someone who says, God, I really want to know what you want me to do, but I'm not really committed to doing it. I just want to know what your will is so I can evaluate whether I will obey or not obey. And then notice he says, Let not that person expect that he'll get anything from the Lord.

So here's what I want you to get. I know some of you are going through really, really difficult times. And I know that God wants to work in us before he works through us. And so come to God and ask. And then here's what you need to do. You need to come to God. Think of it as a contract or a blank check.

And what God wants you to do is sign the bottom of the contract and say, Lord, will you show me what to do in this pandemic? What should I do about where I should live? What should I do about this problem relationship? What should I do about the business that is lost? What should I do about the ministry? The churches are closed. What should I do because I can't travel?

What should I do to make it through today? And God says, If you will come to me and ask in faith and then say, Lord, whatever you show me before I know what it is, I'll do it. He says 100 percent of the time, I'll show you what to do. Let me picture this for you, because these are great concepts.

Let me personalize. Early in our marriage, I married my wife and we shortly went away to prepare for ministry. And my father was an alcoholic and her father was an alcoholic. We came from very dysfunctional families, but we love Jesus and we loved each other.

And we thought everything will be great. Within six months of being married, while I'm preparing in seminary to be a pastor, our marriage is not working at all. I mean, we can't resolve conflict.

We have anger. The person I love makes me crazy. I'm making her crazy.

You all understand what that's like. And I'm feeling this guilt because I'm preparing for ministry and my marriage is not working at all. And I'm trying hard, trying to be good. No matter what I do, it doesn't work. And I came to this passage and I said, Lord, will you show me what to do?

I can't fix this. I bowed my head, lifted my hands, and I heard the Spirit say, Chip, go to a good Christian counselor. And I thought, oh no. No, no, that's for people with real needs.

And if I walk into one of those counselors' offices, it'll be embarrassing and people will know we have a problem. And I heard the Holy Spirit whisper, so what's the problem? Is it your pride? And I realized it was. See, sometimes when you say, Lord, show me your wisdom, we unconsciously have a box that says, as long as it fits inside of this. And another time I needed God's wisdom and he said, I want you to relocate from this side of the United States to that side of the United States. And then it was, oh, Lord, no, my wife doesn't want to go. This won't work.

It's going to cost a lot of money. I had all these reasons. But when you want God's wisdom, he says, come, and you sign up and say, I will do, Lord, whatever you want me to do. And here's what he promises.

He will do it 100 percent of the time. I can't tell you how many times, whether it was a big decision, a financial decision, there was a time we literally, and some of you are there, we had no food. I had worked. Our money was taken away. We had no food and we sat in the middle of the living room and we prayed and we asked God, we need food. We ate fruits and vegetables that we got for just five U.S. dollars. And we combined with some other couples and we could eat fruits and vegetables for a week. And I'll never forget asking God for wisdom.

I told him I would do whatever he wanted me to do. And I was working, unloading trucks and doing odd jobs and wondered how we were ever going to make enough money. And I'll never forget the day my wife had dropped her children off to school and she came back and there were five bags of groceries on our front porch filled with meat and cheese and a type of flour to make bread.

We never told one person, not one person, that we had any needs. We had ten dollars, ten U.S. dollars. That's how much money we had. And as she opened those bags, it was the kind of flour she used to make bread for our family every day.

We had not eaten meat in about 15 or 20 days and it was filled with meat and cheese and things that we longed for. And my only explanation is, when we're really desperate, God shows up in supernatural ways. I've not met a lot of angels personally, but the only explanation, because we told no one and no one in the world knew how she baked what we had. I mean, we whispered to no one and God provided. On another occasion, like many of you, we were completely out of money.

And, Lord, we can't pay our rent. I went to the mailbox and there was a check. A check from a man I met six or seven years earlier who later played sports in college, later on a professional team. And God woke him up in the middle of the night with my name on it. I taught him when he was in high school one time for one hour and he sent me a check. He was a quarterback in the NFL for a thousand dollars. I could tell you story after story after story after story after story of God's miraculous provision. And it's not for special people.

It's for needy, desperate people. I'm telling you, come to God. If he says relocate, relocate. If he says forgive your enemy, forgive your enemy.

If he says apologize to your wife, apologize to your wife. If he says this is your job, but your new job needs to be this, you come to God with no expectation other than, Lord, whatever you show me, I will do. He may show you through a book, through his Spirit, through his Word, through counsel, through a friend, through a prompting of the Holy Spirit, but here's what you need to know. If you're 100% willing to get God's wisdom, he will show you what to do. Will it be easy? Probably not. Will you be comfortable?

Probably not. God directs our steps, directs our paths, and reveals his power when we're at the very end of our rope, when we have nothing. We're at the bottom.

We're in absolute desperation. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and he saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34. God's for you.

He loves you. If you're stuck and you don't know what to do, here's his invitation. I will give you supernatural wisdom. I will show you exactly what to do, how to do it, when to do it, with whom.

If you will come to me with open-handedness and commit to do whatever I show you. These are the times where God's people see great power, where there's great testimony. I look back now with my older children, and they remember sitting around in the circle, a circle at a time when we didn't have a car that would fit our family and we prayed and God delivered, a time when we didn't have food and we prayed, a time when we didn't know what to do and we were asked to relocate. Most of the things that were difficult to do, what I can now look back on and realize, it was the good hand and the kindness of God.

Some of you will never change. Some of you will never get on the path that has your highest and your best and God's greatest favor, apart from a crisis like this that caused you to re-examine your life, your role, your relationships, and that God redirects us through times like this. The early church was doing very, very well. I mean, just read Acts chapter 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, thousands of people.

There's favor. There's miracles happening. I mean, they're exploding. Acts chapter 8, and then a great persecution came upon the church. Well, Jesus told the church to go into all the world and make disciples, right? Jerusalem, Judea, Samaria, to the uttermost parts of the world.

Well, for about the first 15 years, they didn't go anywhere, and God allowed a persecution. And now, James is writing to them, and as they are going all across the world, God uses this crisis to take the gospel to the ends of the earth. God, in His wisdom, who knows what's happening, who didn't cause, but has allowed this pandemic to occur, is going to show you and show me and every single person exactly what to do, when to do it, and how to do it in the midst of all the special details. It would be different for you than for me.

That's why this is the art of survival. It creates a dependency like never before. It creates a desire and a thirst for His word like never before.

It means we have to depend on each other, forgive one another, look through new eyes at our circumstance, and say, Lord, show me what to do. I need your wisdom. And He says, I'd love to give it to you. Just ask.

And, no double-mindedness. Ask without any doubting. Let me fill in the top of the check. Let me fill in the top of the contract. Let me say, this is what to do, this is where to go, this is how.

You just sign your name on the bottom that says, I am willing. You know, it reminds me of our Savior and the greatest moment that occurred in His life and ours. Yes, Jesus was fully God, but He was fully human. And there was a moment where He said, Lord, if there's any other way, let this cup pass from me. Nevertheless, not my will, but yours. And He endured excruciating suffering and pain, and He actually took on your sin and my sin. And in that cataclysmic moment, the Father would turn away, my God, my God, why have you forsaken me? And your sin and my sin were placed on Jesus for our forgiveness because He said to the Father, not my will, not my way. And that's how you get God's wisdom. It's in these moments of absolute surrender.

It's at a level like never before because of what's happening in the world where we say, Lord, I offer my body as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to you. This is my spiritual service. I will do whatever you want. I will go wherever you want. The money in my bank account, little or much is yours. My future is yours. My family is yours.

Show me what to do. And I want you to know, Holy Father, I will do it. That's how you survive a crisis.

That's the greatest, most important resource in all the world. It's the wisdom of God. Lord, I pray for my brothers and sisters because it is a journey to come to the point where we can fully, completely surrender and be willing to do whatever you want us to do. But Lord, you have told us very clearly the condition to get this kind of supernatural wisdom is our absolute and complete willingness to do whatever you show us. And so I pray for a movement in people's hearts. I pray that they could believe how good, how kind, how all knowing, that you want to give us the best.

Even when some of the first steps are very, very difficult. That's our prayer, Lord. Now lead us. Give us your wisdom.

In Jesus' name, Amen. You've been listening to part two of Chip's series, The Art of Survival. Art is an acronym, A-R-T. As Chip walks us through the book of James, chapter one, we realize that the uncertainty and fear of the believers James originally wrote to are similar to the growing pressures we face today. Chip explains there's an art to survival, skills honed by practice that lead to joyful endurance, no matter what. A is the attitude that helps us navigate adversity. R is the resource God offers in adversity.

And T is the theology that guides our perspective in adversity. If you think this message could help others, why not share or send it to them? Email, text, or on social media.

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That's 888-333-6003. App listeners, tap Current Offers. Well, Chip, before we come back and you talk about today's message, there are a lot of our brothers and sisters in Christ who are very discouraged right now. Your latest book based on this series, The Art of Survival, has the potential to bring a lot of hope and healing.

Now, if someone asked, what would you tell them about it? Dave, what I would say is I think we're all struggling, regardless of our background or perspective of discouragement to some degree. Discouragement is really rooted in something called perspective. We either have God's perspective and we see life through His perspective, or we see it through our own lens. When our problems are very up close to our eye, the whole world looks pretty dark. When our problems get pushed back and we see things from a large and big perspective, then we can overcome our discouragement. And the very last chapter in that tiny little book is How to Slay the Dragon of Discouragement.

Of all the things I've shared, people have told me over and over and over. One guy said, you know, the first chapter was good. I really, really liked the second chapter, but the last chapter, that was awesome. That's what got me over the hump. So I would pray that that little book and especially that chapter can help our brothers and sisters that are really struggling with discouragement. It's called The Art of Survival. In it, Chip gives you a clear outline directly from the book of James, Chapter 1, of not only how to survive, but how to thrive, even in the most difficult circumstances. If you're looking for a path to perspective and peace, you need to read Chip's new book, The Art of Survival. Get your discounted copy at livingontheedge.org with the Chip Ingram app, or by calling us at 888-333-6003.

That's 888-333-6003. I hope you'll do it today. In today's program, we talked a lot about getting God's wisdom. We talked about that He promises that He will give it 100% of the time, but there are two conditions. The first condition is we ask in faith. In other words, we have to believe that He's good, that He has our best in mind. And so I would ask you, are you asking in faith?

Do you believe that go ahead and risk it because whatever He would show you is going to be for your good? The second is without any doubting, and literally it's with this one condition that you are willing to do whatever He says. That's really about lordship. It's about surrender. It's about with an open hand, with everything in your life, in that hand, saying, Lord, you have absolute freedom to do whatever.

I meet so many people, and I don't mean this critically, who long to know what God wants them to do, but are unwilling to fully surrender and fulfill this condition. It's true today. It was true in Jesus' day. There was a group of people that questioned whether Jesus was really God. Was He the Messiah? And He said, you'll know of the teaching.

Here's how. If any man is willing to do My will, he'll know the teaching, whether it's from God or whether I speak from Myself. In other words, the condition that's the prerequisite to get God's wisdom is being willing to obey it in advance. And what I've realized is that we pray, but we have some unconscious assumptions like, Lord, yes, I really want to know exactly what you want me to do as long as it doesn't change my lifestyle, I don't change jobs, I don't have to be in a different location away from family or friends, and it doesn't require any great sacrifice or any downward mobility.

Now, I know that just sounds like, Chip, you are just coming after me today. No, I'm trying to help you get God's will. And what I know is that we have unconsciously bought into those things are non-negotiable, now God show me what to do. If He wants to change any one of those things, it's because you are so special, so loved, and His plan is so much better than what you're experiencing that He would ask you to make a temporary sacrifice to give you something better.

It won't always be better financially. But, I mean, what's the price tag of love and peace, connection, affirmation, and the favor of God upon your life? Let me encourage you to pray in faith without any doubting, ask Him for wisdom, and you tell Him, Lord, you write on the top of the paper what I'm supposed to do. On the bottom, I've already signed my name. I will do whatever God shows me. Here's the promise. He will show you. Do it today. or go to LivingOnTheEdge.org. And thanks in advance for doing whatever God leads you to do. Well, next time, Chip continues his series, The Art of Survival, so be sure to make plans to join us then. For everyone here, this is Dave Druey, saying thanks for listening to this Edition of Living on the Edge.