Today on Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram, is it possible to talk about politics, social justice, and Black Lives Matter without launching an argument? Is there a way to remove the barriers that are dividing you and those you love? Your kids, your grandkids, a close friend? The answer is absolutely yes, and you'll learn how today. Stay with me.
Today on Living on the Edge, Chip Ingram invites you to hear from guest teacher Aaron Pierce, tackling one of the touchiest topics there is, how to talk about politics without losing the relationship. Aaron's ministry, Steiger International, has spent decades planting itself in secular spaces most Christians avoid, learning how to build real relationships in tough places. Today he shares a powerful personal story from the streets of Minneapolis and shows us how even our most divisive topics, like politics, can become doorways to the gospel if we're willing to lead with love instead of an argument.
Now, here's Aaron with today's message titled, Let's Talk About the Hard Stuff. I want to start by just telling a story. You know, we were in the center of the political universe when George Floyd was killed, and man, it was crazy times. And I remember taking a small group of people from the Styger-Minneapolis team the Saturday after it happened and going down to see what was happening with the huge protests and just standing there with a group of people and Buildings were still on fire from the night before and just the intensity of the situation and seeing thousands and thousands of young people, mainly young people, all around just angry and searching and crying out for justice. And it was so interesting because there was just this deep sense of anger, but also a sense of hollow solution.
Like the solutions just rang so hollow. And it was really clear to me just looking around and seeing all these people that were fighting for something that they were looking for a human answer to a sin problem. And it was really an interesting thing. And the dynamic was really strange, actually, because I remember being here, thousands and thousands of people, but there was really no sense of leadership. It was a weird dynamic.
People were like looking, you know, it was a crowd that was ready to be led. And so I was just thinking about that. And we just were there to really just observe and pray. And then we came back a couple days later. And this time we went actually right to where the spot where George Floyd was killed.
And when we got there, there was a big box truck and some speakers set up. And there were some people with the microphone talking, and there was a huge crowd all around them. And so our group came, and we kind of got to the edge of the group with a number of people, including Serena. Who was part of our team, an African-American woman who was very bold. And I remember sitting there looking at it and remembering the moment in the crowd before, and how the crowd was actually very much ready to be led.
And so I said to Serena, because it made a whole lot more sense for her to do it, I said, hey, go up there and ask for the microphone. And so she did. She walked up and she asked them, and no one was gonna say no to her. And so they gave her the microphone. And first she sang a song, which is really cool, drew people in.
And then she just began to preach the gospel. And she began to share how the ultimate solution to the brokenness of the world is Jesus. And it was very clear, very bold, and people were glued to what she had to say. And she invited people to pray to receive Jesus, and people raised their hands, prayed out loud right on the spot there. And then we had hours and hours of conversation right there at that spot.
And then that whole summer, our team went out back to that spot. And I have never experienced a time when people were more open to spiritual conversations and talking about Jesus ever than in that season. And there was that real season of hunger and openness that summer in that moment. And it was a really cool and powerful experience. And I think what it speaks to is that while.
These issues, these topics of politics and sexuality are very divisive and they're very kind of intimidating topics. They're also incredible opportunities for the gospel. They're moments in which we can connect. And actually, rather than seeing them as things to avoid or putting them in that box of politics, they're actually opportunities to connect on a deeper spiritual level with people. And so part of it is reframing in our own minds these things are not scary topics, but these are actually opportunities if we approach it in a different way.
And so that's part of what I want to talk about is how do we approach this in a better way. Starting with the idea of politics.
So the first thing we have to understand is the concept of fear and the political savior. And this is an issue that we have as Christians in the church.
So much of the Christian response to the decline of Christian influence and the the moral decay of society has been characterized by fear. All right, so there are new books published every year foretelling like the inevitable downfall and collapse of American society because we've forgotten our Christian roots. You know, the internet is filled with podcasts and blog articles decrying the evil forces at work to undermine Christian values and marginalize Christian voices. And then as the hostility grows, we have these projections and these images of pastors being arrested because they're preaching the Bible and Christians being fired because they won't bow down to the ideology of the day. And all of these things, believe me, there's some truth to some of that, right?
There's truth to that. But the challenge is that it's created a culture of fear. and angler. That's the culture that we've created. And so, what happens is when we have a culture of fear.
we see secular people as the enemy. And so the big paradigm here is that followers of Jesus, of all people, should not be known for fear but for hope. And so a while back, I became friends with a pastor that I really respected on Facebook. And I really appreciated a lot of his teaching. But what I didn't realize until we became friends on Facebook is how politically outspoken he was.
And there's not necessarily anything wrong with that, that's not what I'm saying, but it was his approach and tone that really surprised me. You know, and it we became abundantly clear. from looking at his posts and the way that he talked about them, that he didn't have any liberal friends. That he didn't have any friends that saw the world different because of the way he talked. I mean, if he did at one point, they'd unfriended him a long time ago.
Right?
So here he was shouting eloquently into his social media echo chamber filled with like-minded followers, having zero influence on anyone that didn't already agree with him. All while fostering a culture of fear and hostility towards them. And so here's the thing, what do you think about or how do you talk about them? specifically those that are politically opposed to you. You know, do you envision real people?
With hopes and fears Just like you, do you see them as people that Jesus loved so much that he died on the cross for them? Or do you envision nefarious people with malicious intentions out to get you? Like, what do you envision when you consider them? I prefer to approach people using this thing called Han Lawn's Razor. And Hanlon Razor says, never attribute malice to that which can be adequately explained by ignorance or deception.
And so maybe... Maybe you'll be duped every once in a while. but at least he'll continue to foster love for people and see the best in people.
So let me illustrate this with a well-known verse. You've probably seen this verse before. says when I saw the crowds I was angry and defensive with them because they were malicious and plotting to hurt me Right, you've heard this verse, right? No, this is what it really was. When he, Jesus, saw the crowds, he had compassion.
on them. Because they were confused and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. That should be our approach to people. The thing to remember is that often people's motivation, politically or otherwise, is technically good. When you consider their underlying assumptions, right?
They're operating on an assumption and on a worldview where to them they believe they are doing right. And so the challenge is not what they're doing, it's the worldview that they're operating under.
So that's the first thing. It's our approach to other people. What is our approach? Or how do we feel and look about them? The second thing is that we can't make secondary things primary.
Don't make secondary things primary. And it sounds obvious, but our goal is to win people to Jesus, not our political perspective. And they're not the same thing. And often it seems that Christians are more passionate about their political affiliation than Jesus. Like the things that they're most getting passionate and worked up about on social media is their political stuff.
Right, and there's some of those issues to me that are so secondary, and so like good Christians can have different views on it, but we're so passionate about it, right? We often get stuck in these downstream battles and secondary issues rather than introducing people to Jesus.
So that is my key point.
So next thing about politics. We live in an activist culture. And I think this is awesome because this activism really operates on a framework that connects to the gospel in a powerful way.
So, it's a really interesting thing. And so, even though a lot of the things that people get into, like environmentalism, racism, Black Lives Matter, LGBTQ, sexuality, feminism, mental health, suicide prevention, and economic justice, these are the hot topics. These are the things the culture cares about. Even though a lot of these things either are outright anti-biblical or get twisted. Right?
It says something about people. What it says most importantly is that they believe the world is not as it ought to be. And that is that, remember when he talked about spiritual conversations, finding a truth that they believe and affirming that? Those that are politically active, that is a key truth that we can affirm in them. You're listening to Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram, and we'll continue this lesson from guest teacher Aaron Pierce in a moment.
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Now let's continue today's lesson. And then the question is, okay, okay, how do we solve it? How do we solve these problems that we're dealing with? Is it really a political thing? Or is it something bigger and deeper than that?
And so, my challenge to you is, these things have often evoked a lot of. angry political them reactions. And my challenge to you is see them as opportunities. To connect and to affirm, and then have a conversation seeking the truth together. Like, how do we take care of this planet?
Like, how do we see racial equality? How do we treat, where does love come from? How do we create, how do we treat people who are different with dignity and love and respect? How should women be treated? Can we acknowledge the fact throughout history that there's been a ton of marginalization?
And what do we do about that? And of course, Jesus was so radical in the way he treated women, right? And so see these as opportunities, not as political conversations. All right?
So I'll give you an example of this. This was last year. I end up meeting a couple of these guys. They're kind of tough looking, tattooed people. And I saw them and I thought, oh, they kind of look interesting.
So I went up to him and I said, like, hey, what's up, you know, how you doing? And then I said, what do your tattoos mean? Because tattoos are personal and they're easy things to connect on. And so I said, yeah, what do your tattoos mean? And he looked at me, the guy in the back there, and he said, well, which one?
And I said, that one. And I pointed to one with a circle with three downward-facing arrows. And I found out later that that actually was a symbol representing Antifa, which is a left-wing political movement with some extreme and sometimes violent elements to it. But he said, well, it means anti-fascist, anti-capitalist, anti-authoritarian. And I was like, ooh, okay.
And so I asked him, like, why do you, what does that mean to you? Why do you believe that? And he talked about the corruption of the system and how you've got all these billionaires in their yachts while the poor are struggling and how that's injustice and all this kind of corruption and political stuff. And then he began talking passionately about implementing his kind of socialistic, almost communist system in order to bring about equality. And at that point, A well-meaning Christian man that was there doing outreach with us began to have an argument with him about capitalism versus socialism.
And hopefully we realize by now, like, that wasn't... That wasn't the moment for that, right? Like that wasn't, he com frankly, he completely missed the point of that moment, and that this was not the time to argue about capitalism and socialism, blah, blah, blah. This was a moment where we could connect. And so I kindly but firmly took over the conversation.
And I followed basically a process, a process of first of all affirming in him some good things that I saw.
So I said, man, I respect you. Because you see the brokenness of this world. You see suffering, and you're not willing to just stand aside. You want to do something about it. I respect that because I agree with you that the world is broken as well.
And I'm an activist too. I'm a Jesus activist.
So I'm connecting on his playing field, right? But then I reframe it. And I said, but the problem is that no matter what economic or political system we seem to put in place, we can't get rid of the corruption. We can't get rid of the evil and the suffering. And that's because I believe the core problem is a corruption of the heart.
I was using his language. and that there is no political system that can solve that. And then I challenged him, and I told him that as a follower of Jesus, I believe that we can't fix ourselves. And that the only solution was a spiritual renewal and restoration found through the death and resurrection of Jesus. And then we end up having this really deep, long conversation.
And eventually he ended up opening up and he said, well, you know, yesterday I was at a funeral. And the pastor came up and talked to me, and he was talking to me about this stuff too. And I said, Well, man, I think God is pursuing you. And he said, yeah, I think you're right. Wow.
And it was a pretty amazing conversation with an Antifa guy that wants, you know, that for most people is like the enemy that we should stand against. Right, so how are we going to engage the political process in a different way? That's our challenge. All right.
Okay, so now that we've you know dealt with politics Let's go to the next easy topic. which is sexuality.
Now, sexuality is undoubtedly the issue that draws the most hostility from secular culture, right, towards the church. And if you're going to be actively engaging in secular culture, the topic of LGBTQ plus is unavoidable. Like, it just comes up. And societal attitudes have changed rapidly in the last few decades. Those that identify, we talked about this, those that identify as LGBTQ has grown exponentially with each generation.
And so it's a crazy thing. And in today's culture, there's very little room for rational conversation that challenges the mainstream narrative. It's tough, right? Because discussions about LGBTQ rights are emotionally charged. And they're drawing on themes of justice and equality connected to the civil rights movements of the 50s and 60s.
That's what makes it so hard, right? Because you don't want to be on the wrong side of history. And anything less than total affirmation of all things LGBTQ is quickly labeled as homophobic and bigoted. And it's a big challenge. Secular workplaces celebrate Pride Month with no regard for anyone that might not agree with it.
Like it's a really tough context. And the allies, frankly, are the most vicious in their defense.
So this is a really challenging time for Christians who hold to a traditional biblical sexual ethic. It's hard, and the thought of engaging these conversations can be terrifying and paralyzing. And so the challenge is, and what I want to begin to unpack, is how should a faithful follower of Jesus live in a Pride Month world? How do we do that? And so let's talk a little bit about some key assumptions.
The first step in engaging these topics is to recognize That beneath the mask of like intense moral conviction. There is actually deep confusion. in brokenness. At the core of the confusion today is the circular statement, love is love.
Now, this statement, as you know, is a banner for LGBTQ rights, and it implies that people should be free to love whoever they want, however they want. But the question, of course, is what is love? Right and pop culture messages and love are so confused and conflicted I mean love is sex, love is lust, love is a feeling. Love is whatever I want it to be. And the reality is that we're just confused.
And we are desperate for belonging. in acceptance. That's the core truth that you can hold on to: is that people are desiring belonging and acceptance, but they have no idea where to find it. Even within the LGBTQ movement itself, there is so much confusion, division, and incoherence. The L, the lesbians and old school feminists are fighting with the transgender movement.
I mean, because what are women's right if there's no such thing as a woman? And mental health care is in disarray because no longer are we seeking to align people's mental state to their physical realities or objective truth, but instead align their bodies to their psychological feelings. It's a crazy, confusing time. And as we already discussed, as it relates to politics, Jesus' response to the confusion. was compassion.
Right?
That is always Jesus' response. When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them because they were confused. and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.
So like Jesus, as we engage This topic. And the LGBTQ community and their allies, we need to start from a place of radical love and mercy. That's where we start.
So part of approaching this with love is is l is approaching it with empathy. Which means that we need to understand their reality properly.
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Well, now here's Chip and Aaron wrapping up today's message. Aaron, I got to tell you, I love today's message. And I really love that moment where you talked about kind of interrupting your friend who got in the argument about capitalism and socialism. And once you then kind of told your friend, you know, that may be a valid issue some other place, but not right now. Your approach didn't end in an argument.
But it ended in an open heart, What do you say to a parent or a grandparent? Or maybe even a pastor who deeply cares about friends or family, but right now, there's division, there's strife. There's lack of connection around socialism, capitalism, politics, masks, vaccines, you know, something that really is a secondary issue. What do you say to that person about how to restore that relationship? Yeah, thanks Chip.
This is so important. And my challenge is don't let yourself get entangled in these political downstream things that become barriers. Don't make secondary things, which are not unimportant, but they're not the ultimate. Don't make secondary things primary. Our goal is not to convince people to adopt our political perspective.
Our goal is to introduce them to the person of Jesus. And when they meet Jesus, when they see the beauty of who he is, and what he has done for them when they realize that he is good that he loves them that he knows them better than they know themselves it's in that realization that revelation that they're willing to submit themselves to him that they're willing to make him lord of their life because they realize that he is good He wants good things for his children. And it's not till I realize who Jesus is and the beauty of who he is that I'm willing to submit myself. And in doing that, after I encounter Jesus, then all these secondary things, they take care of themselves. They make sense after I submit myself to Jesus because I know that he is good.
I'm Dave Druy signing off. We'll see you next time here on Living on the Edge. Today's program is produced and sponsored by Living on the Edge. Uh
