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September 11, 2021 12:00 pm
Bishop Larry Jackson, Senior Pastor at Bethel Outreach International Church in Charlotte, NC, joins Nikita to talk about raising girls in Christ and the power of prayer.
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Bishop Larry Jackson, senior pastor at go outreach international church located Charlotte, North Carolina, Bishop great to have you with me in the studio today, so good to be with you. Likewise, I mean it's been fun getting to know you over the years we've shared a platform before them have emceed some conferences we been both speakers at conferences and may you have a little research on even though her friends, you know, Mike. I will research that you service as regional Bishop for the Fellowship of international to write well into boom overseer Wellington Boone, and I know to nationally known promise keepers speaker and an administered international is keynoting at conferences feature guests and INSP the inspirational network as well as praise the Lord to be a man you always. They gave right out of the mouth.
Yes, all you need a way to run five daughters and enter what will I not want to throw everything out it was a founder and president of Heidegger's men's ministry. I know I did an online platform with recently of that. Not to mention we'll talk about some of your books and all that it I thought I did well at raising forgoes you have 55 and have a wedding this year to I just first one verse 2009. It is the third one third one so you be marrying off you think I recently married off my my fourth and final dog oh man, and I envy people.
You feel that I go on, so while Phibro so so this with her to get married and then the swarthy ring with a range is the baby is getting married 28 okay all of them was even attorney and all that they go to two years. 828, 30, 32, 34, all of the mug bumping up to the odd numbers this year. Gotcha. And in my old this is like 40 so those you get the list banter between but the oldest and the middle child and they are married okay and now the baby so I got up so that they staggered that thing we gotta find you a good man for the other two yeah yeah that's critical right as it I mean, I feel fortunate that that at the four man that are married to my daughters are good providers have a solid foundation in their lives. That was my my baby girl that just just recently got married.
I mean, just a good godly man loves the Lord. Spent a lot of time with him and just learn about his his upbringing and I got a good family also do it if it is not because I'm I refuse to give her away to someone that can't do what I'm doing yet with that's get that's get letter go down so so for those you and again this is just a conversation so I will get back to some of the stuff that that you're involved in doing but so is this is good right here suffer the listen for this, a man out there are even young women listen. The show was well enough called Amana podcast when eliciting so so what what would you say to that man out there that's that's raising daughters. I recently had when I rest somebody's robe were animal.
Yes, you passed away, and in 2020. Son James played for the Rams are like eight or nine years. He just had his third daughter. He reached out to be randomly select hey I'm reaching out to men of faith who raise girls who might go to give me solidifies so what is you cut a test on to what advice would you say to get the men out there raising girls who whose desire and prayer is that that a agave holiday determine if if this man is the right one for my daughter and in your view will is interesting to because one of the things I would say to them is that you gotta live a life before them that they would now be able to look for when they looking at Batman. So when you looking at the man to get in the back of their father, I believe, to say I need him.
That's Got my daughter that stated similar to me that if there was something such as reincarnation, would we know it is ladies and who would drink on the back of money you know yeah because of the way you treat mother.
I want that man like that is interesting to you as a question of many people would ask me to say to me I got a big gun at home right you know if you get out a young man, Darrell Wright is not, and I say no I don't have a gun and is it okay so are you venting these young men love my daughters know this, the young man it is going to marry them. Has to be able to go with me into my basement and I got all you will beat them up and out of view of the doubt that he has to leave me in worshipful in our wall that I said if you leave me in worshipful now you can have her as I delete her in worshipful and I think you gotta have the principles of God in your house, so the kingdom principles and the and and you live by principle, not by preference is differently and I may have a lot of preferences for them but I don't usually give them much of it is amazing to Nikita that Jesus never gave us his opinion. He gave his principles and and and and the will of the father and that's what I try to teach in one and they didn't stop looking well and I think you hit on something to eat on a very valid point that is what you as a man of God have modeled for your daughter. Yes, and in what you say how you treated your wife taking care of your wife served your wife and so that, and I feel fortunate to because I know my daughter said sit me down.
We were looking for a husband. We know we were looking for a man like like you you is or what right there watching and listening mind and in axes speak louder than words. Many times I and so I'm thankful that I was able to model that for them and give them kind of a picture of what their future husband, potentially could look like and that's that's that's what I hear you say I just I just was looking at a documentary on a frame wrestler who just really destroyed his family because he was not there for them because he made everything about the industry and handed him and get to the top and even for you to say that is says a lot because not a lot of those guys that they are children will say I'm looking for you know about and I like you yeah and that would that's that's awesome. Well, likewise to you is on me kudos to you is such a blessing to have you daughters come back and say something like that.
I know my my youngest one. She caught me off guard at the wedding night, and I knew that.
I guess they call you the first look they call it right away when dad gets his first look at the bride in her wedding dress to get filled upů And I knew that was coming right in that they want to capture that photo and videographer and all that.
What I didn't know that was extra special with her was they sent me a place and I'm outside, she's in the house for finishing up the she's good to come out and tap me on the shoulder and I get to turn around the seer. What I did know was using a firsthand me an envelope and she calls me Papa is certain she can write that on the about Papa is okay when I tell you, don't open it yet because when I say it's ready open and read it out loud to my, oh, okay. All right. Substandard holders envelope for what felt like five minutes. You probably wasn't but in looking at egos gets all a scam say goes. I so I opened up in the first thing open up, forcing Larry says this is the man I first logged in and I barely got through those five were open. My throat opened up this his whole hand written note in there all her memories of of our time together. Daddy daughter special memories that probably did take me five minutes to get through guy know I paused at least five times to get the lump on my throat well yeah that's that's special is nothing like that and again to men that are raising daughters and you say something daddy daughter date time I make sure that even with the five I had individual time with was not always a corporate situation right and we have some of those I recently I just, you know, the last Toy Story came out. Now how do I know that answer 60 30 mandatory Toy Story coming up is because I took my daughters on a daddy daughter, my wife could go okay to the first Toy Story, so we saw number one when the settlement came out, they will old and naturally this is a we suffered only as a second right comes out. They much older.
Come on Wednesday that now these are grown women number four, the final one I get a call on the phone hey Toy Story, for coming out when we going when we go on and so on until all of us. You know, no grandchildren, I got sick little militant could come like a gun, because they they wanted the first one you can be a part of the man it's all good and and and you and I have hear more of that story.
You have so much comic is what I did.
As with my daughters as grown women went to Gatlinburg Tennessee I got a condo for the weekend up there in Gatlinburg and it was just the five of us. It was for girls and and me there was just that was just to three years ago that that we did that in and the other thing I tried did to his like I took them on not only special days, but like a special chiller when I turned 13 like a special trip just one-on-one word you want to go one.
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The number one.com because you are number one we so appreciate our listeners if you will support this program with a financial gift of any amount. I will send you a slice copy of my latest book Kita tail of the ring go to call off.that's cool off.and ET Zoloft.net and make your contribution, while great advice. She would talk about daughters with even the men who have sons out there just as important right just visible, and probably even more okay because men need that interaction with their fathers at a level it has been the statistic is the heart of horrible that a man spends with his son but he said with all the children at this point Brown 11 days in his lifetime collectively with his children is crazy and he spends 18 years working 11 days collectively right we had it all off, we had all that are not intentional about spending time together like one-on-one on whatever 11 days comes home from work. That's a meal there there but you not right you not engaging yet some young men definitely need is and they need their fathers.
I was just on my way here talking to my son-in-law about my grandson is my grandson Ed at nine years old, is engaged in the word and I said to him, this is what you need to be doing with Kate.
This is what you how you need to be, because he needs your father. His father, and you are in the wording you have to God, but you can't let charity with my daughter. You can literally delete.
And right now you know she's helping didn't understand something, she cannily and easily. He's not. He's not absentees, not out of place.
He doesn't he might like the coaching coaching them in football.
No displays of the word you got to get Lee intent is out of the intentional right out of it so much that she quit which Bishop. I know you know I mentioned promise keepers and and you and I have something.
Also, answer a heart for men so you know you being you gauge a promise keepers over the years and some the other comments conferences that that shows so speak speak to or are men out there say about about the importance of of manhood is not only what you model for your children.
but just when you model for others as well. exactly man got it-ism is interesting to me said it this way. worship is so important to god. and we know how important it is a god, because satan asked jesus to worship satan asked him to pray to, and asked him to give to the main thesis back down and worship me. that's children importance of worship. and if you will. if that is the case. okay the attacks of satan against manhood shows you the importance of men and how important it is that men would be in place with god. the first thing that adam, what did in the garden was worship the word of god there means work, but the extended definition of the word dress is about letting an extended definition is levitical worship because that would really no work for adam to do his whole life was to give and worth to god that everything had been provided so satan doesn't want a man in his manly position to worship almighty god is now that she is in something tremendously and when you think about that, even in our churches. we see men that are not engaged doing the worship time right you know little distracted hannah hansen a pocket below you know you know it, but then not surrendered to the king right as as the one that is leading the worship in the hospital but also in the society.
so satan has come anna's to try to remove us and they'll try to redefine who we are right as a whole. identity whole identity now with toxic we in masculinity because of bad apples and they were bad apples but every man is an toxic you see, we have been talking about the fact of how we have raised our homes and how we engage with our wives and all those that are they so remains not that but they put everybody in the same in the same basket so it will understand that the enemy hates us and we've got to get our place and we won't do the things necessary to be men and him and nothing is man up Is awesome because his training men to be men right because it just because you are male and you stand up in the bathroom you doesn't mean your man is right is a difference to be in a male and a man i totally different different without talking well on the nsa being talking about about front liners because i know what what was the vision for frontline in front liners and vision is good. bring me into the front lines of what god is saying and what god okay so there frontline soldiers is like okay get ready for war because you're in it. even if you even if you don't know it is in my mind i see men as refugees running away from the battle rather than marines running to see so we gonna joan is a good example.
so we need to we need to train men to get in the back in the fight okay because you're in it anyway you can't turn on the television when not being you gave a good month programs and not be in it at all.
so you're in the battle right dragon drag on. interesting look at the interrater magazine stand at the grocery store, mutual friend of ours rick joyner to say this way and i know you probably heard them say this before that that media we been dropped behind enemy lines that i will live in a fallen, broken world is right right and so the equipping of men to be men is is so critical in today's culture in time right yes it is so potluck with front liners.
so how are you getting that message out there to men. i know i online and hello hello there is a website front liners frontline is advancement.org guy so there is that website is just newly been revamped and brought back up so that line is advancement analogic, but also on facebook we have to have private facebook group.
okay guys who can say i want to join the facebook group which is frontline is advancement facebook group is a group and we did that because unlike you spoke on the second saturday and that happened this saturday every second saturday. we have men to come speak to these men as a part of that group, and the reason i did a group is because now they had to take a step is not just for it on facebook and you get to see right it is much like this pocket you got find it right you got it you know you want to engage that you got to say i won't if i get all the time so you gotta make a step and i thought i wanted and so that's why it is an indicating the share that on facebook because when you're in a group stuff is not even share this accountability to ability there as well and is about 410 men out there on that facebook group which is yes full of four group on facebook and on another note, we want to know what more we won't know when i said that i'm i'm i'm i'm happy that you get before the mentoring gauge absolutely and so it won't want to give that website will more tower how to find frontline is advancement.org which is organ or front liners facebook group. okay, so that's probably you asked to join right we will we will be a separate everything that you know what that's that's that's awesome and i know is so critical that the equipping of men. this is that our man we got chilly so you've written. i just want to touch on this to see you. you've written several books. is there one that kinda stands out for you that you've written that it may be felt was more impacting and then others is not to say yes, but i would say it is interesting that i was those of you last night, the smallest of the small book of written and it's geared towards man. call 1░ of change and it is that degree between 211 and 212░ that 1░ from hot to boiling. how do you get from hot to boiling.
how you do that and i used football analogies to him.
men, especially randy to understand how to get to that place and you play ball so you know that there were gangs, but then there were games and and when you will play in the rival coaches didn't have to do anything you jacked up you all all all week practices more intense yeah but you say please save everything would happen. it was something that switched you went from hot to boiling, because this is a rival game and i'm not going to get beat by the arrival how you get there and i try to give a systematic way of using the word of god to get one to go change and you can read it in one sitting with, but the principles you gotta live a life that it will wear it anywhere, where would we would people find books on amazon amazon all on amazon. you can find that another website is bishop larry jackson.com all of the books are right.
they are busy like i got a source that you and jill were sent on the bishop, larry jackson.com you can find it right there. talk about talk talk respond woman you been there to.
that is, it is just a great church there and multiracial international georgia and bethel outreach international church is not a name.
it is an international think it's maybe seven nations right now on and that's on phenomenal charlotte gel in it all. it just a thriving community of believers that love the lord really really after guys on and i'm just blessed to be there past that ticket take a minute what what's what's the future hold for bishop larry jackson was here it your for jobs. we talk about man raising families on that, but this is something that the lord is targeted for you over the next period of weeks, months again again with the man in you not have the women's ministry as well call true value. a woman's realities come true value woman.com go there what happening is the god instructed me to launch a whole llc called them. god bless them, and god said to them, be fruitful and multiply, and so you have men and women, and even marriage so that threefold marriage movement so got three ministries under this one heading and is covering company and my mindset is that we got to attack the culture with truth.
we've got to prove a show them who we really are regression what a real man look like when women with value look like one real marriage look like between those two letters that look like, and so we are helping to kinda paint that picture if you will for for men, women and families in the whole gamut is because truth is eternal as it is it true because that's my mission.
at this point. man i got that.
that's amazing. it is this i wrote this quote down is this sound familiar. i'm hoping you said if you want to grow in the things of god. the bible must become a daily part of your absolutely done it is improving. now that if you're in the bible four times a week, that the things that are negative in your lifestyle, decreasing drastically, but i think that you should be doing positively exponentially increasing and three times a week. you don't get much of a of a tip up. you don't want to, and three very very minimal change in your life, at four you go to the roof.
most are not reading the bible on a daily basis. yeah, i think i heard epstein to pastor marilyn waldorf, maryland.
i will try to set some dates that come up and use men's ministry and preach and he gave me a staggering statistic saying 9% of of those who profess to be believers 9% even spent any time in the bible, exactly.
and so, four days a week.
yes, that's the benchmark year four days a week got before the formation week in the word and the word and exponentially positive things in life will increase you and negative things decrease will just by reading and winning targa study socially. johnson and i must decrease and he must increase in so forget to get your message out there one more time. bishop larry jackson.com will all the books you to find out more about bethel and am yet again arrogant joy and more about your management, the front liner was the latest called again to valuable woman true value of a woman.com is that they're not valued. i now find that manwell is a man with five daughter and i had to have four daughters that something was wise of you to launch that ministry is wellsville.
well, i want to think it's been great having bishop larry jackson here in studio today on the man up podcast and to all of you out there if something resonate with what the bishop said today. abby was a book of the 1░ and degree of change 1░ of change meant go-go order.
that book really say to read it and it day and let that impact your life impact your family's life and you know what you don't have a personal relationship with jesus you're listening to this show and something stirring in your heart after what the bishop satyr through our conversation, there is no promise of tomorrow. can i encourage you to make that decision today. don't wait any longer. don't put it off a beer in the car driving pull over to the shoulder and just tumble your heart before the lord and just confess and repent and asked jesus to come in. if you're in a hotel room wherever you're at all that the same thank you today for tuning in its time to man men. i would like to challenge each of you to consider spending five days and i am pursuing the heart of ladies listening will send your manhole with god godly husband's and god you give them your blessing them.
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