You've been through it. the betrayal, the loss, the decision you'd give anything to undo. And yet somehow, even years later, the memory still stings. But what if God never intended for you to stay in that place of pain? What if the very thing that broke you was meant to lead you to something worth celebrating?
Today, on Insight for Living, Chuck Swindahl describes how God specializes in turning the worst chapter of our lives into the most meaningful ones. From his study of Esther, Chuck titled today's message, After the Ache, Celebrate. Yeah. Most Christians seem to handle pain better than pleasure. For some twisted and strange reason, we seem to Do better with hard days than with easy days.
with tough times. rather than times of relief and celebration and leisure. I'm sure our critics would tell us that it is because of our consuming guilt. We simply cannot seem to reward ourselves for Good times. Hard days and tough times we seem to handle well.
Stress and anxiety we not only experience, we Tend to excuse. Times of reward. Times of relief. If we're honest with ourselves, we tend to keep those times to ourselves. Because even though we may be among the few who can handle them, many of our friends cannot.
We tend to weep with those who weep much more easily than rejoice with those who rejoice, don't we? Most folks I know who take a two-week vacation tell me that it takes about a week. to begin to enjoy it. Often because we're so wound up, we don't relax and Sometimes it's because we have to take that long a time to give ourselves permission. to enjoy the rewards of A long year of work, well done.
Deep within our minds, there is sort of a bad news mentality. Have you noticed that about yourself? If someone says to you at church on a given Sunday, You know, I want to talk to you before long about something that's been on my mind for quite some time. Usually it's not A thought in your mind that says, Oh, I'm sure he wants to tell me something real good. Often you find yourself saying, Why don't you just tell me now?
So I don't have to worry about it for the next period of time. Or if someone says, I've written you a letter, you'll get it in a day or two. You go, Oh no. Rather than a letter of affirmation, we expect Confrontation. Why are we like that?
One author writes: The highest and most desirable state of the soul is to praise God in celebration. or being alive. Without perks, our lives are easily lost in the world of money, machines, anxiety. or inertia. Our poor splendid souls.
how they fight. For food. They have forgotten how to request the little perks. Our hurried, stressful, busy lives are unquestionably the most dangerous enemy of celebrating life itself.
Somehow, we must learn how to achieve momentary slowdowns. And request from God a heightened awareness. of the conception that life is A happy thing. A festival to be enjoyed rather than a drudgery to be endured. Life is full of perks.
If we train ourselves to perceive them. As someone has said, a thousand tiny things from which one can weave a bright necklace. of little pleasures. for one's life. Say, when is the last time you would weave together a bright necklace, from the little pleasures of life.
Take Christmas, for instance.
Okay.
Some of you say, yeah, take Christmas. That would be a relief. I believe that if our focus were right and if our attitude were right, not only would we enjoy the celebration of the day itself, we could even enjoy the busy times that lead up to it. You know, there are there are Songs to sing. There are There are smells to smell at Christmas time.
There are sounds to hear, we'll hear no other time of the year. My son was the other day saying to me, our youngest son said, I don't mind the crowds. He said, these people that get all their stuff bought in September and October, they miss all the fun of the crowds. I thought, that is a terrific attitude. Yeah.
What a great response. I heard a terrific story the other day of a hassled shopper who came into a busy department store and wormed her way to the To the cosmetic counter, and there was a busy sales lady gift-wrapping one gift and waiting on two other ladies. And the gal looking for something said rather hurriedly to the sales lady, Say, do you still have Elizabeth Taylor's passion? And the sales lady said, if I did, honey, would I be working here? Yeah.
Okay.
How great it is to hear you laugh. How wonderful it is that God has given us joy. Rather than A life full of mourning. tears and sadness. I thought a lot about why we're like that.
Why is it that we can even turn Christmas into a time of dread. I think I know. I believe our focus is more on the past. Than on the future. And being negative by nature, being bad news people by habit, We tend to pick out of the past The things that make us sigh.
and let them bleed into the present.
So that they color and stain. Our everyday When I look back into the past, and when you look back into the past. The things that make a sigh are four in number. people, events, circumstances, and decisions. There were people that we wronged.
There were people who wronged us. There were occasions where conversations were held, and we feel badly about what we said, or we are hurt within when we remember and how we've recorded them of the things that were said by those individuals. And because of the past and the sadness connected with wrong relationships or unhappy, unfulfilling, unproductive relationships, our present is marred. Because of people of the past, it was the same in the days of Esther. As the Jews look back, I'm sure many of them would say, it's Haman, I remember.
It's Haman's henchmen, it's Haman's sons, it's Haman's followers. How miserable they have made our lives if they chose to do that, and they would sigh. Looking back into the past at people who have made life miserable for us, who wouldn't sigh? Then there are events. When we look back, we don't remember the times of celebration, the great birthday parties, the fun things we attended.
The joys of an evening around a fireplace. the pleasures of family together. You know what we remember? We remember earthquakes. Isn't it strange?
Even the newspaper brings up anniversaries for earthquakes. I've never been able to understand. Three years ago today, we had a 5.6 shaker. I thought, so what? Who needs to remember it was three years ago today?
Forget it. We live through it. We'll be able to go on beyond it. But if we're not careful, the events of our lives that are negative will stick. It would be true in the days of Esther, and they would sigh.
The day the king wrote the edict, the day Haman handed it out, The day the couriers came to our province and announced the Jews will die on the 13th of Adar. And don't you forget it. What a horrible event. And if they lived in the light of that event, their whole life would be negative. down, sad and sorrowful.
Then there are circumstances. Conversations, difficult jams, situations we found ourselves in, relational barriers. It could be true in Esther's day. And it would be true in our day. And we would sigh.
Perhaps the worst of the four would be decisions. There isn't a person listening to me right now who hasn't made wrong decisions. Who hasn't made a foolish decision? who hasn't gone too far or not far enough. Who didn't step out on faith, or who called it faith, and it wasn't faith, it was presumption.
And you look back now through the perspective of Of the past number of years, and you see it as a wrong decision or a At least a weak one. And we're all hung up in today because we are snagged on the people and events and circumstances and the decisions of the past, none of which we can change. None. But the enemy of our souls continues to announce to us failures, wrongs, disappointments, disasters, calamities. And we try to put our lives together in this long tunnel called the present.
We can't do it. Let me show you something from the book of Philippians, chapter 3. Before we turn back to the ancient scroll of Esther yet again. And let me show you 14 words from the New Testament. That can make a difference.
These are words that I call the secret of celebrating life. How do I do it? What does it require? This isn't that complicated. But it will require some mental discipline.
I'm looking at Philippians 3. 13 and 14. And there isn't a person listening right now. who couldn't do better by applying what I'm going to read. In the middle of verse 13, we read, Forgetting what lies behind.
And reaching forward to what lies ahead. Aye. Press. On. There they are.
Most of you are counting, just make sure there are 14. When you finish that, please underline the words: forgetting. What lies behind Look closely. That's only part of it. Reaching forward to what lies ahead, I Press.
On. You know what that kind of philosophy will do to your whole life? It will turn you. into a celebrant. You will find that you mourn and sigh less.
and you laugh at life. With God by your side. More. Turn from Philippians 3 back to Esther chapter 3. Will you do that?
By now, your Bible probably opens automatically to this old book that had gathered so much dust over the years. By now you remember the story of the book. How the plot thickened. How disasters seemed to be written across every Jewish life. How doom was spelled?
So clearly.
So eloquently And how God changed the events. to turn wrong into right. I'm reading from Esther 3. Locate verse 6, and let's begin about the middle of the verse. Therefore, Haman sought to destroy all the Jews.
the people of Mordecai who were throughout the whole kingdom of Ahasuerus. In the first month, which is the month Nisan, in the twelfth year of King Ahasuerus, Now circle this next word. Poor. That is The lot. was cast before Haman from day to day, from month to month, until the twelfth month, that is the month Of R.
Sounds a little bit vague, a little oblique. Let me explain. You may recall. When Haman was trying to decide when to carry out his plot to exterminate the Jews. He relied on an ancient custom of casting lots.
A lot was called in those days poor, P-U-R. And in the casting of the lots, in some strange manner, as a result of continuing the process, he came upon a date. The 13th of Adar. What interests me is not only the date, But the name of the lot. Poor.
Let's take a little excursion in linguistics, and let me help you with this. In English, we pluralize a word by adding s or es most often. In Hebrew and its sister language, Aramaic, A singular term is turned into plural by adding I am. The English word for angel is cherub. The Hebrew plural for cherub is not cherubs.
But cherubim. Seraph is another kind of angel, and the plural for seraph. Is not seraphs. But seraphim. The god Baal.
Is sometimes proliferated through the Old Testament in multiple forms, and that's called not Baal's. But Balim Ba'alim for plural.
So, if we were to pluralize poor and make the lot represent lots plural, it would be. Perim. Kirim. He decided that there would be the The final death knell on the Jews. on a certain day.
Locate verse 13 of this third chapter. Letters were sent by couriers to all the king's provinces to destroy, to kill, to annihilate all the Jews, both young and old, women and children, in one day. The 13th day of the day. of the twelfth month. the month of Ayre, to seize their possession as plunder.
What is interesting, and you know the story now. is that between the third and the ninth chapter, the tables were turned. Haman was captured in all of his anti-Semitism and murder. And the queen's heart won the king's mind, and the king made the decision not only to kill Haman, but to wipe the slate clean and to remove the dread of the Jews from the Jews. And so This day of the 13th of Adar, which is their last month of the year, was turned from mourning and sadness to a time of celebration.
As a matter of fact, when you turn to chapter 9, Turn, please. You'll discover that on the 13th of Adar, they, rather than being killed, Turned tables on their enemies and annihilated many of them. Verse 16, chapter 9. The rest of the Jews who were in the king's provinces assembled to defend their lives and rid themselves of their enemies and killed 75,000 of those who hated them, but they did not lay their hands on the plunder. This was done.
Look at this. On the very day they were originally Two have died. Yeah. And in honor of this remarkable switch of events. They declared a day of celebration, which you anticipate, was named Pirim.
or the Feast of Purim. As we call it today. And to this day, it is still celebrated by the Jews. To this day, What was once going to be there Death turned and became their future. They're celebration.
Vance Havner, the evangelist, wrote a little book entitled It is Toward Evening. And in it, he tells the unforgettable story of Of a little town in Alabama that made its living raising cotton. One year, as the cotton was growing and it appeared to be a bumper crop. The boll weevil invaded. devastated the crop and destroyed the economy of of that little town in Alabama.
Farmers, however, are an ingenious lot, and they were determined not to just simply sit back and move into the poorhouse. One of the farmers got the idea of planting peanuts instead. Bull weevils don't like peanuts. and another decided to plant yet another produce and others still others, and before long bumper crops of these began to bring the economy back. To what later came to be known as Enterprise, Alabama.
I think that's significant. And do you know what they did?
Well, they erected a monument. to the boll weevil. It's there to this day. Vance Havner writes, All things work together for good to the Christian. even our bull weevil experiences.
Sometimes we settle into a humdrum. routine as monotonous as growing cotton year after year. Then God sends the bold weevil. He jolts us out of our groove, and we must find new ways to live. Financial reverses, great bereavement, physical infirmity, loss of position.
How many have been driven by trouble to be better husbandmen? and to bring forth far finer fruit from their souls. The best thing that ever happened to some of us. was the coming of our bull weevil. Without that, we might still have been a cotton sharecropper.
I'm speaking to people today, all of whom could raise up your own. Monument to the bull weevil. It invaded your life. It took your joy. It had the audacity to come without invitation.
Probably by surprise. And it devastated. your faith at the time. You were cut down to size. The lot was cast.
But your problem is you haven't yet built your monument. You haven't established Kirim. You're feasting. You're still living in the sigh and the pain. of all the sadness that comes over you when you remember The brokenness.
That's what this is about. This isn't the story about some ancient feast, not just that, it is that, but it's so much more. God has given us His word not to teach us dates and Hebrew words. He's given us His word to reconstruct our lives. To build monuments where we once wept.
And bled. And some died. where lives were hurt and and hearts were hardened. And we were devastated. But forgetting that which lies behind and Moving toward that which lies ahead, this is the way to press on.
Don't just forget the past. Don't just, with the passing of your hand, say, oh, yeah, it was awful. Build a monument. Celebrate the feast. Pass along the lessons that led to the maturity.
And the changes that were so essential in your life. And so different from when you were just a cotton sharecropper. But I read verses seventeen, eighteen, and nineteen. Yeah. I read about a people who decided Let's name this day a day for a holiday.
Let's call it Purim. Which could be translated in your face, Haman. Or something like that. Here's to you, Haman. Here's to our God.
Look at 17. It's wonderful. All this annihilation of the enemy was done on the 13th day of the month Adar, and on the 14th day, they rested, of course. They made it a day of feasting and rejoicing. How appropriate.
The Jews who were in Susa assembled on the 13th and the 14th day of the same month. They rested on the 15th day. It took them a little longer to kill their enemies. And they made it a day of feasting and rejoicing. How appropriate!
How good! Therefore, the Jews of the rural areas who live in the rural towns make the 14th day of the month Adar. A holiday for rejoicing and feasting and sending portions of food to one another. One of the early Christmas times. They wrap up gifts and send them to friends, especially to the poor.
Yeah. What a picture! A people who should have been buried instead through a party. and not just any party, feasting, rejoicing, gifts to neighbors, gifts to the poor. The title of today's message is After the Ache, Celebrate.
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