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Download the Focus on the Family app today from the App Store or Google Play. He looked at me out of those eyes, out of those thick glasses, and I said, Norman, do you know who Jesus is? He said, do you know who Jesus is? I said, because people were beginning to look, I said, Norman, did you ever think about asking Jesus to come into your heart and your life?
He never repeated me. For the first time, he said, I've given it serious consideration. Well, that scene in an ice cream shop was just the beginning of a 29-year friendship between our speaker today, Mike Adkins, and a man called Norman, a man who the Lord had asked Mike to befriend. On today's edition of Focus on the Family with our president and author Jim Daly, we'll hear the lessons that Mike Adkins learned, and these are lessons that will benefit each and every one of us. John, I've always loved this message because it's a motivator.
It motivates us to act, not simply to just read our Bibles and pray, which are very important, but to actually do. And I think the story of a man called Norman, it's profound in so many different ways. The first is the fact that God loves Norman. And even though he's not perhaps as sharp as everyone else and he has other issues, God sent Mike Adkins as his neighbor to befriend him and to learn more about Norman and to care for Norman. And it's a beautiful story, I think, that could come right out of the Scriptures for us today if they were still being written and illustrate the beauty of brotherly love one for another.
And that really captures it, doesn't it? It does, and I really like the way that God worked on Norman and Mike, too. I mean, Norman had to be pulled out of a life of abuse, outcast, and yes. And Mike had things that he had to wrestle with, and God spoke to both of them and threw both of them to many, many people.
And it really is an amazing testimony of God doing remarkable things. And last time, we even heard Mike talk about the Lord laying on his heart to invite Norman on his family vacation. Now, I don't know about you, John, but if I had kind of a strange neighbor and I felt the Lord saying to me, take Norman on your family vacation, first of all, I'd have to get through that myself. Then Gene and I would have to...
I'd have 101 reasons not to do this. And again, it just is a great testimony to Mike's faithfulness, and he did it. And look at the beautiful bouquet that Norman became because of Mike's faithfulness. Well, let me just quickly introduce Mike Atkins for those who weren't with us last time or haven't heard the previous earrings of this presentation.
He was a federal coal mine inspector until God led him into a full-time ministry of evangelism and singing, and he's got a number of gospel music albums and lives now in West Frankfort, Illinois, with his wife, Carmel. And after we hear this portion of Mike's message, we're going to do something, Jim, a little different. We're going to give him a call and get an update about what God's been doing in Mike's life, and I know he'll have a story. He always has a story to share. He's a great storyteller. Indeed. And let's go ahead and let our listeners hear.
We're going to roll back just a little bit, get a recap from the last time. And with that, here's a man called Norman on today's Focus on the Family. He walked out of that house, and I saw that he lived there, and I said, oh, no. I said, Lord, that's weird Norman over there. I said, you had me by the house across the street from weird Norman. This time, he came out to work on his lawnmower out in the backyard. Suddenly, the presence of the Lord settled all over me.
I didn't expect it. I was surprised by it, but it settled all over me, and when it did, it seemed that faith or confidence, so I didn't know the right word, more than I normally possessed, it began to well up in me, and I did something that surprised even me. I got up barefoot, coveralls, walked across that street, and walked up to Norman in his backyard by his lawnmowers. I said, you having trouble with your lawnmower, Norman? He looked at me, and he said, you having trouble with your lawnmower, Norman? I said, I'm not much of a lawnmower mechanic, Norman, and I heard him say, I'm not much of a mechanic, Norman.
I looked at him, cleaned the spark plug, tightened the screw or two, I don't know anything about a lawnmower, and I prayed, and pulled that rope, and it ran like it'd been in the repair shop. Just hum, just hum, and he did something for the first time I saw when he grinned real big. I saw a green and yellow tooth right here, and I saw one over here, and one here, and one here. It'd been a busy year, a busy year. I'd been working at the coal mine, and I was tired, and I'd been singing in churches on the weekend, and I was telling the Lord about it, you know, because my vacation was coming up, and you know what the Lord told me? He said, why don't you take Norman with you on vacation? I said, I'm going to Opryland, Lord.
Norman at Opryland just, and he said, I said, Lord, I'm not going to do it now. Sir, I'm tired, and a couple weeks later, we was going down the highway to Opryland, Norman sitting beside me, my wife and kids in the back. We got to Opryland, and I found the bumper cars. We got him in there, and he sat down in that big old bumper car, and he got everybody in the place caught over to one side.
They turned that right on. He had the whole crowd pinned, and he had his car sideways, and they had them jammed in over there, and they were mad, and he was looking around going, and looking at me going, and he couldn't figure it out, and we began to laugh, and finally somebody got loose, and the ride was about half over, and they felt like they'd been cheated, and they were in a hurry. They came all the way around that rink, and they wanted to hit somebody before that ride was over, and there sat Norman, and they hit him full speed ahead. He went, oh, and then he really tried to get that thing going, and here comes someone else, and they were starting to get loose now in great numbers, and one by one, they'd come around, and they'd hit Norman, and the Spirit of the Lord spoke to me, and he said, that's what they've been doing to Norman all his life.
People had been hitting on him. I had taken Norman an old suit of mine that I didn't wear anymore. God brought that to my attention, and I went over and looked in this closet, and I couldn't believe my eyes, old shoes of every description you can imagine, old suits, sweaters that hung this way, all kinds of ties, bolos, sparkly ties, big wide ties, little ties, nothing that anyone would want to wear. I said, God, give me an opportunity to bless me some way, Lord, and a revival to sing at came in, and I know they gave me an offering at the end of the revival, and the Lord said, buy Norman a suit.
I went downtown. I bought one of the nicest suits I could find. I made sure it cost at least more than any suit I owned in my wardrobe, and I went to get him and take him, and he picked it out. He liked it. It was kind of dark blue. He had good taste. It had a little stitching around here. It was polyester.
It was nice. It was expensive, and I said, Norman, you ever been clean? He said, it's been years. He said, I'm a hermit, you know. My dad got killed in the coal mines about 50 years ago.
Went to work one day. I was just a little boy, and he didn't come home. Some men came to our house and said the roof fell in on him. I remember his funeral. I saw my uncle. Haven't ever seen him again. I said, Norman, I'm going to run some water for you in your bathtub, and I really want you to get clean because tonight I want to take you down to a church that's having the gospel singing. Went in his bathroom.
I couldn't believe my eyes. Pulled the curtain back. Oh, the floor was like dirt. The tub was so filthy, I had to take all the sacks out of it first. I had to lay paper sacks.
I didn't know why. I took them all out, and then I cleaned the tub with SOS pads. When I turned the hot water faucet on, it fell in the tub. I got it back up and taped it back on. It leaked a little, but it worked all right. I got his hot water in there, and I went in there and said, Norman, let's really get clean.
I said, when you're through, holler at me, okay? He went in there in the bathroom, and I went in the living room to look at that unbelievable house he lived in. Wallpaper sagging. Rain had got in, falling off the walls and the ceiling. And dirt everywhere. He had an old coal furnace that belched smoke in the wintertime. Something was wrong with it. I don't know how he lived at night when he turned that on in the wintertime. Sometimes he didn't use it. I saw that he had several covers on his bed. He just crawled under, and that old mattress was like that. And I shook the curtain, and dust just came out. And I said, while he was in there in the bathtub, I heard him in there.
He was in there soaping. He was beginning to sing. He finally said, I'm okay. I'm ready.
I'm ready. I'm clean. I went in there, and I pulled that curtain back out. I told him to get out of the tub and just put a towel around him.
There he stood. His glasses were off, water dripping in the floor with a towel around him. And I looked at him, and I, have you ever seen mud that had just been smeared? I said, not clean enough, Norman. Why don't you get back in the tub?
Norman, I'm serious. Now get clean. We want to be... And went back in the living room, looked at the other one. Went back in after he said he was okay.
That went on time and time again. And finally the floor was wet, the mirror was wet, the tub was wet, I was wet, he was wet. But when he got finished, I had scrubbed his head. I got him down like this. I didn't hurt him, but I got him in a headlock where he couldn't get away.
I got an SOS. I got some lava soap, and I got a sponge, and I began to rub the top of his head. And I rubbed it, and he'd go, mmm, mmm, mmm. I rubbed it, and pretty soon I looked, and there was a bunch of white showing through.
He had beautiful white hair. I said, put your face up here, and he went... I scrubbed his face, and I gave him the sponge. I said, all right, big boy, from the neck on down, it's yours.
Get it clean. When we got finished, water all over the place, you could rub your thumb on him anywhere, and he'd squeak. We went downtown to the church, to the gospel singing. We sat down. People come up to me and say, Brother Mike, we're really glad to have you visiting here tonight. God bless you, and who's your friend? By the time they get his hand, I'd say, that's Norman, and they'd go... One Sunday right after that, the Spirit of the Lord spoke to me and said, today is Norman's day.
Take a Bible, get a pastor friend. We went over to Norman's. We got the book of Romans, and we began to tell him how we've all come short of the kingdom of God, how he could receive salvation. At first, he didn't understand, and then he grasped it. He said to me, oh, I see what you mean. He said, I used to listen when I was a little boy to the radio. My mom would play that preacher was on, and he said, you mean like my windows right there are so dirty, and he said, you're saying that Jesus, if I'll ask him, we'll clean my heart up like sometimes when I wash my windows. I said, yeah, Norman, he'll clean up inside of you and then the outside too. And he said, I would like that. And that old house with the wind blowing and cracks in the walls, old dirty house. Norman prayed a simple prayer, and he said, Jesus, Mike said that if I'd ask you to, you'd come into my heart.
And I'd like that, come in. And he was washed white as snow. I rejoiced, and God began to do a work in him. But God began to do a work in me. I didn't mind if everybody in town knew I was helping Norman. I used to tell him down at the ball game a little bit during the intermission, a bunch of us guys would be standing around drinking a Coke, and I'd say, just out of clear blue, I couldn't stand it anymore, I wanted to praise so bad for this little good deed I was doing. I said, I'm helping Norman. These guys would look at me like, huh? What do you think they're going to do in the second half, Fred?
They're going to run there. And God said, that's not loving your neighbor, it's yourself. Now, folks, I want to tell you something. If I'm in a church that needs this message because I have a lack of love, I always mention to them that God is praised in a lot of places.
Most Christians, generally speaking, love God, but not many love their neighbor as their self. I'm going to finish with this. I had pride in me.
God still works on it. I said, are you willing to help Norman, no matter how long it takes? Are you willing to help him, take him places, make him a part of your life?
Are you really willing? I said, oh God, he's so unlovely sometimes. He said, are you willing to go out there in a coal shed and bring his coal in when he can't carry it anymore and put it in his old Stoker Matic?
I said, there's no light out there, Lord, and sometimes the snow in Illinois is deep. He had me do so many things in that house that it was beginning to be a routine back and forth across the street. And one night he challenged me with what I want to close with. He said, in the bathroom one night I was standing there looking in his bathroom. I had remodeled his bathroom by now, fixed his faucet, I fixed his sink, I got him some new walls, and I put him a new cellotex ceiling in and had a light I was working on. And there's one thing in that bathroom that I just would not touch.
He's over in a corner and it's dirty. I just said, no, no, no. I said, now, God, sing in a choir? I sing in a choir, I love them. I love you all the time. Yeah, I do that.
Travel all over the country and sing and tell them about Jesus. Okay, Lord, not that. He kept troubling me about it, troubling me about it. I kept telling him no, kept telling him no.
I thought that thing, I said no way. He said, all I want you to do is fix that ring and lid on the top of it. You see, if you look at it, and I did, it had the two bolts that held the ring into the ceramic part. One of those bolts had broken off and if you accidentally bumped into it, it just swing down by that one bolt and hang beside the bowl. And he said, look over there, and I look and someone, and I'm going to ask him one these days, I'm not brash towards our Father, but I'm going to ask him, I don't think he'll mind, I'm going to ask him who put that there.
In a plastic bag was a brand new ring and lid. All I had to do was take a bolt off, take the old one off, throw it away, put the new one on, put the bolts on, and it was finished, but I wasn't going to touch it. Sit over in front of my television. One night, he troubled me so bad I couldn't watch television. I find turning around the car with my wife and I just said, I'm not going to do it. She was looking at the Sears catalog or something and she looked at me like.
I couldn't stand it. About an hour later, I went up and got my coveralls out of the pantry and I put them on, put the collar up. I pulled the sleeves down, found me some gloves that came down over the sleeves.
She laughed and told me later if I'd had an operating mask like a surgeon, I'd have had that on. I got my toolbox and I crept across the street real late, over into Norman's bathroom, got the tools out, started working on that thing. That one bolt that was left, I just couldn't. I tried to get that boxing wrench on it, just wouldn't. If I was God and a guy was finally willing to do something like this, I'd just have him touch that thing. It would come right off, wouldn't you, but it wouldn't do it. Finally, I tried to get as close as I could to it without touching it.
Watch it. I'll tell you something, you've got to hug one of them things to work on them. I just couldn't get it off. I know we're in a church and I'm going to trust God he's got a good sense of humor because here's what I finally had to do. It's true, I had to get down on that old filthy floor so I could see up under that thing.
I took that wrench and I finally got it on that nut and I moved it a little bit. An old rust and dirt just hit me right in the eye like that. I said, this ain't the 700 Club.
This ain't PTL. The Spirit of the Lord took care of it. He took me and said, right there on the floor, he said, when you do it unto the least of these, you do it unto me. It changed me. I didn't care if anybody noticed, I didn't want any money, I didn't want any acclamation for it, I didn't care anymore. I just began to see when it said I'll give my body to be burned, but if I have not love it's for nothing.
I began to understand that word, loving your neighbor as yourself. I went back home and I said, God, what else will you have for me? He said, son, get in your car and take those songs that I've given you all over the country and leave them at radio stations. I think maybe he thought maybe I can trust him, maybe use him a little bit. And I went in the car over to the radio stations and he opened up television and suddenly record sales came in and then doors opened to speak all over the country. But he never allowed any of that to happen in my life, not the first bit of it.
No matter how much I agonized with him for 35 years, no matter how much I hollered and said, why can't you use me God, why am I having to wait? Until he had taught me to love my neighbor as myself through my friend, my neighbor named Norm. What an unforgettable focus on the family broadcast, a real classic for you today, and it should be obvious why this message has resonated with so many over the years. Jim, this is the gospel. This is love your neighbor lived out and told so powerfully, so beautifully by Mike Adkins. This is it, John, and I hope this message has inspired our listeners to really think about being a good neighbor, just what the gospel says and befriend someone like a Norman and really allow the Lord to change their own hearts as well.
That's what it's about, isn't it? And you know, one of the best parts of working at Focus on the Family, John, is getting to meet amazing Christians like Mike Adkins. He's just a wonderful human being, and I gave him a call yesterday, and he agreed to be on the phone with us to answer a few follow-up questions about Norman. Mike, as you know, we've been listening to A Man Called Norman, a great story of redemption, and you tell it so well, Mike. It blesses me every time I hear it. But over the last couple of days, we've been listening here at Focus on the Family.
It's great to have you on the phone. We've really enjoyed the stories you shared in the early part of the message, which we heard last time, Mike. But I'm just wondering, when the Lord asked you to take Norman on your family vacation to Opryland, Mike, what was in your head? I was wondering if I really heard God when I felt leading to take him with us, you know, on vacation, because I just, I don't know. My boy sure turned out to be the Lord, and he taught me so much through Norman. I've often told people, and they'll say, what's that story about? I'll say, well, God, I thought was sending me across the street to help an old fellow and get him cleaned up and everything else.
And the truth was, God was cleaning me up in a lot of ways where, maybe not physically did I need that, but I needed it a lot of ways spiritually. Now, your good friend Norman, he did pass away a few years back. Tell us about that moment, that emotion. Well, it was one of the most difficult things for me, because he had become almost a replacement for my grandfather. My grandfather passed away when I was just a teenager, or soon after, and Norman just sort of replaced him in my heart.
And April 24th in 2000, he went to be with the Lord. I got to be with him the last three hours, and it was one of the most precious times of my life, because I felt God there so strongly, His presence. And I watched him shed his last tear, and as I was comforting him, telling him that, you know, he was going to see Jesus pretty soon, everything was all right, and he was at real peace. And I think, I know he heard me, and I know he understood what I was saying, but it was one of the most difficult times for me personally, because I still miss him. He was a blessing to my life.
I could never describe to you how much, really. You know, one of the things John and I, we were talking about last time, is just the conviction that the story brings to our own hearts to look for the people around us that are like the Normans in our own lives. And you're talking to an awful lot of people right now, Mike, and what would you say to encourage those of us that might give the excuse that, you know, the pace of life is too fast, and I've got young kids, and the list goes on and on? I got a call a couple of weeks ago, it was a young man's wife from either Indiana or Ohio, I can't remember, we handled a lot of correspondence, and she said that after seeing that story, and this really encouraged me and blessed me, and should focus on the family, I think, too. She said, my husband started a men's group down at our church, aged 7 to 70, and they meet once a month, this newly formed men's group, and they have each month a project where they go out and they help someone in great need, and that really blessed me to hear that. And then, you know, we get some wonderful, wonderful letters, I've got one here, and this was a minister in Tennessee, and he said, one Sunday after church, a man came to his office, very distraught, crying, said he'd been looking for work all over the area, been sleeping in his car, driving around for six days, and he was exhausted. He said, I've got a full tank of gas now, and I heard about a job 200 miles from here where I might get some work, but he began to weep, and he said, I'm so exhausted, I don't think I can make the trip. So the pastor bought him a motel room, and when they went in to pay for the motel room, his wife, the pastor's wife, and kids had followed in another car, and when they got to the motel and went inside, his children asked their mom, what's going on, what's this about? And she explained how desperate the man was, and they, the children, were just flabbergasted. They said, they didn't know any human could be that alone, and so when the man came out of the motel office, the children ran up to him, and the little boy handed him a dime, and he said, the tooth fairy left this for me, but I don't need it. And then the little girl had a box of graham crackers, a lady at the church giving her, and she said, I don't need this either, and that so profoundly impacted that man that it gave the minister a great opportunity to share the gospel of Jesus with him. And on the way home, the daughter said, that man reminded me of Norman. They'd seen that story and heard that story, and his son agreed, and anyway, he was thanking us for that and airing it and all that sort of thing.
Well, Mike, it's such a powerful story, and even that little story about Norman's impact illustrates the point, and for people to get involved in their neighborhood and in their community, that's really the essence of it. And do it in the name of Christ. It's not simply to be a good friend, but it does have a purpose to it, and that's to lead someone to the Lord, right? That's the bottom line.
That's the bottom line, because if they don't know the Lord, wow, it's almost like, what's the point? You know, one place I'd love to be in heaven is standing near you as you and Norman say hello to each other in heaven again. That'll be a great day. I'm sorry. No, I want to see you two embrace each other, my friend. You have done well.
I look forward to that. I'm sorry, I didn't want to get emotional, but thank you for that. Amen, brother. Mike, we love you. Thank you for your witness and your example to us all. Thank you. God bless you.
God bless you. What a touching way to finish off this two-day broadcast, and it's easy to see why this is a Focus on the Family classic presentation. It's been requested, either digital download or cassette or CD, by over 40,000 fans since we first aired this in 1984, and we've so enjoyed our relationship with Mike Adkins over the years. You can tell he has such a big heart. I'm sure you heard that in his voice. And I'm going to encourage you to get your copy of this presentation on CD.
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