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To create an intersection between our felt needs, our desires, our passions, whatever it is. and some illegitimate solution. That is not the will of God. But it takes a person who says, No, I'm going to believe God to meet the immediate crisis of this moment. I'm not going to sell out my future for a moment of satisfaction.
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Now, let's get started with today's Destined for Victory message: dying to get right. The enemy always finds a nice hot summer day and comes down the street with his ice cream truck. You got to know this. The Bible says you got to know the enemy's devices. He'll come along.
Y'all remember that song, some of you still hear it on your streets. All my life growing up, we were in the summer playing out there in the driveway, heard that sound, and lost our minds. Lost it just completely in the middle of a baseball game. But when you heard that sound, that song out on the street, we dropped gloves and bats and everything. Running if you didn't have money, while you were running, scream, Ma!
Ice cream truck is coming! Throw me some money, please, Mom. Where's your lowers? I'd spin it, please! All my life.
It wasn't just me.
Some of y'all did that too. Don't even try it. And you just had to go to that truck, stand there, and get your ice cream cone. And listen, let me tell you something. The enemy know he has mastered the ability.
To create an intersection between our felt needs, our desires, our passions, whatever it is. and some illegitimate solution. That is not the will of God. But it takes a person who says, No, I'm going to believe God to meet the immediate crisis of this moment. I'm not going to sell out my future for a moment of satisfaction.
And we must learn to do that every time and in every way the enemy brings temptation. We must learn that following the enemy will never get you to the place God has destined for your life. He's not out to bless you. He's out to curse you. He'll try to make the curse look like a blessing in the same way that Jacob made this look like a blessing to Esau.
But it's not a blessing, it's a curse. If you're lonely and believe in God, you're a single Christian woman, believe in God for Christian male companionship, then you trust God, you pray about that, you put it in his hands, and you live right. And when the enemy comes along with his ice cream trucks of shoulders, And biceps and triceps. When he comes along, it might look like a blessing, but it's not a blessing. If it was a blessing, the man would be saved, sanctified, have a Bible that's raggedy because he reads it.
He'd be in submission to a spiritual authority. He'd be in a church under a pastor. He'd be in fellowship. He'd be in accountability. He'd be praying.
He'd be dealing with his stuff. But if all he comes along with is biceps, triceps, and a line, That's actually. That's not a blessing. That's a curse waiting to happen. And, sister, if you don't believe me, I got a phone book full of ladies' names.
You could call a directory full of names you could call, and they say, baby girl, let's talk. Let's do lunch. I know you're hurting now, you're lonely now, but by the time we get through with lunch, you will be resolved to wait on the Lord and be of good courage because you can do bad by yourself. I don't need help doing bad. I don't need to double my trouble.
I already have trouble in my own life. And you think your trouble is loneliness? And I wish I had companionship. I wish I could have legitimate sex. And I realize that is a real trial.
And that's why you got to pray and get that stuff to God. But compare that to marrying the devil's counterfeit. And somebody comes along with all this lying and no submission to God. What do you think He's gonna do to you and He doesn't care what God thinks? And I know people who cursed the day they met somebody.
Simply because at that moment they were feeling so. Lonely. It's a legitimate feeling, just like Esau's feeling that day. But God always has a provision. That will allow you to delay gratification.
The Bible says his grace is sufficient. You know what sufficient means? It means enough with a little despair. God, this is one of those bad days. Oh, Lord.
Yes, those days come to everybody in some area of your life where you say, Lord, I need some help right now.
Now, you've got to cooperate with God if you're to stick with this single analogy for a moment. You've got to cooperate with God. Don't tell God you need help, and Luther's on the radio. Let's work with the help now. Let's work with the help.
You're messing yourself up. You sitting there talking about you lonely, got the quiet storm on. Wait now, wait now. Look like you ought to get with some brothers and sisters, have some fellowship, put some praise and worship on. You paint yourself in the corner and then say, God help me.
You gotta cooperate with him. But the bottom line is, his grace is sufficient. God has not called you to live holy and then refuses to give you the power to do it. He would be unfair. He would be unjust.
God doesn't tell you to live right and then say, good luck. Yeah. When God calls us to live holy, that's because there is a grace. And grace means an endowment. There is an endowment whereby, if we tap into it, God will give us the grace to make it through a difficult time.
That applies to single people who are wishing they had a good companion. That applies to married people who are trying to deal with the one they have. Grace is sufficient. Because you know the ice cream truck now that's coming along in record numbers, it's an epidemic, is telling Christians, you don't have to put up with this. God wants you to be happy.
I can't tell you the number of folk over the years, a pastor, that I've heard when they're sitting in my office trying to justify some decision they're about to make. And I say, You don't have biblical grounds. We sat here and talked about your story and what have you. And you're frustrated with your spouse, but let's talk about how to deal with it. No, Pastor, I just believe God wants me happy.
And happy means get out. Kick him to the curb. And no biblical grounds, not even looking for biblical grounds, just looking to live the self-life. And so when I remind them, no, you covenanted before God and witnesses that you'd be there till death, not till misery. Yeah.
Be that till death, not till they worked your nerves. No pastor worth his soul is going to stand up there and let you. Let me tell these pastors now. Any pastor, listen to this. Folk now are trying to write their own vows.
Look them things over. Look them over before you stand up there and legitimize the mess they want to make. Say, it's fine, y'all want to write them, but I need to see them first. I need my own copy. Know what you're going to say ahead of time.
Make sure I sign off on it. If I need to red pin it, I redpin it. And when it's all said and done, I reserve the right to refuse to continue this ceremony unless y'all make the right commitments. Folks, it's time for us to get back on track and live like God has called us to live. And so there are all kinds of ways in which we find ourselves in crises of a moment.
You can find yourself in a financial crisis, and the enemy comes along and says, Stop giving to God, stop giving to ministry. Or he'll come along and say, Here's some illegitimate under-the-table opportunity, but that might be God's way. God's not under the table? You're talking about that's God's way. If it was God's way, it wouldn't be under the table.
But see, and we'll see how many they they're stealing, they're robbing from us anyway. Trying to justify something that can't be justified. You take that to God and say, Lord, you know the needs I have, myself, my family, whatever the situation is. And I'm unemployed, I'm hurting, I'm in this tough time period. But oh God, I need you to provide.
And you wait on God. And you swallow pride, you stop trying to say, Well, I have to hold out for a certain amount.
Well, that's my desire, that's what I'm praying for, but for this next week. I'll do whatever it takes that is legitimate and God-honoring. to get the need met. I'd rather be honorable before God. And trust Him for daily bread.
So you got to make up in your mind that you're going to do it God's way. You're in fellowship. You have brothers and sisters who can pray with you. Pray with me. Here's where I am.
Here's what I'm going through. You need to be in fellowship. Don't show up 911. Be there as a lifestyle. Even if 911 brings you to church, once you get in, connect to the fellowship, those folks can help pray you through anything you have to go through.
And the other thing is, because we're a body, and the Bible says, How do you see your brother and sister in need and shut your bows of compassion? One of the things you learn in body life is while we're praying for, I've had the experience where I was praying a group or something, praying with somebody. They say, Here's the crisis. I just need you all to pray for me. I know God's going to meet the need.
I'm just looking for the means. And so I'm praying, oh God, that's, oh, Lord, meet the need. In Jesus' name. And then the Holy Spirit said, all right, now when you get through praying, go in your wallet. I said, oh devil, get out of here.
I'm trying to. I rebuke this devil in Jesus' name. No, no, the fact is sometimes while you're praying, God will speak to your heart and tell you, and you are part of the answer to the prayer. I'm not telling you what I think, I'm telling you what I've done.
Some of you have done it too. I'm not talking about the twos and fews. God will make you go to the bank. I gotta go inside because you can't get what he told you to give from the ATM. If you don't know about it, you need to get into body life because it'll happen just as sure as you walk with God.
Because what we have is not our own. See, we talk stewardship, but the fact is it doesn't belong to us. People still trying to come to stewardship. Whether you get there or not, your stuff is not yours. Belongs to God.
And when you get to the place where you're really engaged with others in the kingdom enterprise, you'll understand that your stuff is not your own, and God will tell you to give it up to meet the need of somebody. And so we have to learn that God always has. A provision, whether it is a provision to meet the ultimate need or whether it's a provision of grace in the meantime to sustain you until the ultimate need is met. God will provide. And we have to learn to ignore the enemy when he comes along with his ice cream truck of illegitimate proposals and provisions.
And you have to say, No, I'm going to wait on God. That's all right, go on pass. I smell it, I see it. Yes, it looks wonderful. But go on pass.
Now, I'm telling you, when you say yes to God, it'll cost you. Amen.
Sometimes tears will run down your face, meet under your chin, while you're saying yes to God and no to the devil. This isn't glib. This isn't easy. This is blood and guts spiritual warfare.
Sometimes you tell the devil no. And it will hurt you to your core. But in that moment of tears, you gotta say, God, I'm waiting on you. You gotta be like Job. He sat there in the height of his trouble.
He said, God, I wish I could find you. If I could just find you, I need a hearing. Because it seems to me somebody is somewhere enjoying my blessings, and it feels like I am experiencing somebody's curse. And he said, Lord, I wish I knew where you were so we could talk. But then, in that moment of feeling isolated, holding on only to his integrity, which God had given him the grace to hold on to, he said, Well, Lord, I don't know where you are, but you know the way that I take.
And then he got a moment of inspiration, and he said, And when he has tried me, I'll come forth as gold. See, we're the blessing generation. But I want to tell you, there's some blessings that only come after you've been in the furnace.
Some blessings you have to get cooked up on. See, somebody, y'all just want to name it, claim it. We're the name and claim it generation. Just believe it, speak it, speak it, speak it. Yeah, I understand.
I understand all that. You want to have a good confession in your mouth, like Caleb, who said, Let's go, for we are well able. I understand all of that, and in its context, I believe it and practice it. But let me tell you something: you can't claim everything.
Some things claim you after you've been going through. And so you're not going to just be blessed first. In some cases, you're going to be boiled, broiled, fried, stewed, roasted, baked, burned, barbecued, blackened, and smoked. And when you get through it, all that, then you're blessed. Let me tell you something.
We gotta learn how to deal with the crises of the moment.
So, if you're going to walk with God, you're going to go through some times where the enemy comes along with illegitimate provisions and proposals. And you have to make up in your mind, God, I'm going to access your grace. And don't listen to candy store theology. God is a right-now God.
Sometimes He is, sometimes He's a later-on God. But what he will do between the right now and the later on is, he will give you the provision that you need. And I've told you many times before, it'll be a daily provision. As your days, so shall your strength be. Don't try to get Friday's blessing, and it's Tuesday.
Friday's provision, don't look down the road. Lord, I need you to get me through this crisis, this moment, this day. I'm about to hurt somebody today, Lord. That's where you got to go with it. And let God bless you in the moment because growth occurs in those moments.
Every time you say no to an illegitimate proposal and provision, you have experienced growth. You can't see it just like your kids growing up. And you don't see day by day, but you just look up one day, you say, Boy, how do you get that tall? You just see somebody, and all of a sudden, it dawns you, they've been growing. In the night, in the secret places.
You haven't seen it. And next thing you know, the growth is manifesting.
Well, that happens in your life and mine. You say no to the enemy, you wait on God. You've just experienced growth. You might not see it yet, the others might not see it yet, but you continue to practice. Obedience to God and accessing His grace.
And the next thing you know, you'll look around, you say, Boy, I'm sure in a different place. Man, if I had gone through this six months ago, a year ago, It wouldn't look good. But God has brought me. And you start looking back and seeing the distance you've covered, doing the will of God. You start raising your Ebenezer.
Saying, Hitherto hath the Lord brought me. And you know what happens when you grow, you're not getting full of yourself, you're getting rid of yourself. You're giving more and more glory to God. You know, when folk have a lot more growing to do, when they say, Yes, I've come through and I've done this and I've done that, and I just always. You know when they grow when they start saying, God has brought me.
God is kidding me. I would have lost my mind, but God gave me a peace that passes understanding. I wouldn't have been able to handle this a year ago, but God has done something in my heart, in my life. And I give him all of the glory. You know you're growing when you give him the praise and the glory.
and all of the honor. I want to tell you something. This was a defining moment in Esau's experience. And the Bible is very clear that Esau regretted For the rest of his life, the decision made that day.
Now, God blessed him, relatively speaking, anyway, because God is good like that. And you know, Esau's in wasn't horrible, but neither. Was it the inheritance he could have experienced had he delayed gratification?
Now you throw your theology and say, Yeah, but see, God spoke in advance and said that the older was going to serve the younger, and so this was all God's will. Never confuse. The decisions God calls us to make with His ability to work all things together for good. Esau had the ability. to delay gratification and chose not to do so.
Of course, God knew it in advance. Of course, God's ordained will from the foundation of the earth is what we see manifested. But there are choices and decisions God has given us to make throughout our lifetime. In fact, in one scripture it says, I have set before you life and death.
Now you choose. And let me tell you something: God can bless us when we truly repent. The Bible says Esau sought the blessing with tears. In the years to come. And what happened is he never got that original blessing, but because of his heart, God was able to provide for his needs.
In fact, later on, you see, That when Jacob tries to reconcile with his brother. And comes along saying, Hey, I want to give you some gifts. Esau's testimony is: no, no. God's been good to me, too. I'm all right.
I don't need your stuff. Jacob had to insist that he take it. And so the point is, God didn't abandon Esau. And if you made tons of messes in your life, don't let the enemy condemn you. Say, see that?
That's you. You messed up your whole life.
Well, the good news is God specializes. In taking those of us with messed up lives. Made about seven dumb decisions. All the major. Yeah.
Romans 8:28 says, When we repent, when we love him. Repentance will bring you back to God and make you love Him. You get through messing up, you turn to God and He says, I love you, and you say, I love you too. Glad somebody can still love me as messed up as my life is. And Romans 8:28 says, If you love him and are called according to his purpose, all that stuff you've done that you shouldn't have done wasn't God's will, wasn't God's fault.
He'll work it together and he'll bring good out of it for his own glory. Folks, we have to learn to die. to self. and say yes to God. Thanks for being with us for today's Destined for Victory message, Dying to Get Right.
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