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Onesiphorus: A True Friend - Part A

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September 3, 2026 6:00 am

Onesiphorus: A True Friend - Part A

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September 3, 2026 6:00 am

Pastor Skip shows how one faithful friend brought fresh strength to someone in desperate need—and how God can use you to encourage others.

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Welcome to Connect with Skip-Heitzig. We're so glad you've tuned in today. Our mission is to help people know God more deeply through clear, verse-by-verse Bible teaching that brings biblical truth into everyday life. One of the best ways to stay connected is by signing up for Pastor Skip's free weekly devotional. You'll receive biblical encouragement, ministry updates, and exclusive ministry content delivered straight to your inbox.

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Now, here's today's message from Pastor Skip Heitzig.

Well, this is a little series called Overlooked, and we have decided to take eight different characters. In the Bible, and look them over because they are generally overlooked. They're overlooked by more dominant figures. who are get all the press.

So we looked the first week at Baruch. And not many people knew about Baruch because Jeremiah is the guy that gets all the press. We then looked at the Shulamite bride. She is not discussed as much as Her husband Solomon. And so when we have done that through several characters, and now we look in 2 Timothy chapter 1.

At a character Named Onisiferus. I mean, it's even hard to say.

So we're going to look at him, and I'm going to guess that probably most of you have never heard a sermon on Osiphoris. This may be the first. You know, whenever you hear medical terms, And most of us are not familiar with medical terminology. We hear a certain medical term, we don't know what it is, but our mind wants to associate. The sound we hear with Words that are familiar to us.

And if we try to interpret what those words are based on what we know, we would be.

Well, we would be sadly mistaken.

So, a group of kids was given a A list of very elementary medical terms to see if they could figure out what they were. Artery Artery. They said, it's the study of paintings. Right, Art Uri. Bacteria is the back door to the cafeteria.

Burium. It's what doctors do when patients die. They bury him. Uh benign. Benine, it's what you be after you be eight.

You'd be nine. CAT scan. Searching for a kitty. Caught her eyes. It's when you make eye contact with her.

You caught her eyes. Um Anima. Enemy not a friend. With friends like that, who needs enemas, right? Fibula is a small lie.

If a fib is a lie, a fibula is a small lie. A GI series. It's the World Series of Military Baseball. Telvis. The second cousin to Elvis.

Caesar is a Roman emperor. Like Caesar Nero. Terminal illness, getting sick at the airport. And finally, I'll end with this one. Urine, it's the opposite of you're out.

Yeah.

Well Onisiferous sounds like a disease.

Sounds like a loathsome condition. He's got a bad case of onisiferos. And uh I uh have noticed over time that When When Parents have babies. They name babies sometimes based on trends. And I did just a fun little search.

I won't share the search with you, but this week I went on the computer to look at. Trending names by decade for the last one hundred years. Just to see the patterns that people choose for for their children. Onisiferous was on none of those lists. And then, when Christians want to name their children, they will often choose biblical names.

But once again, Onisiferus, I have never met one. That name is not on the list, but We're going to look at Onisiphorus in 2 Timothy chapter 1 because he was a friend. To the Apostle Paul, and he gets mentioned in this letter. A couple of different places. Onisiferous is Part of the subject matter of Paul's letter To Timothy.

The name Onosiferus Really suits this guy because it means to bring an advantage or profit-bearing, profit-bearing, or useful. And he was indeed useful. He was profitable and brought great advantage to the Apostle Paul. Were it not for this letter of 2 Timothy, we wouldn't know who this man is. He is mentioned in chapter 1, and he is mentioned at the end of this book in chapter 4.

Yeah.

I'm going to give you six words that describe his character. And here's why I'm going to give you six. You know, whenever I outline a text, I usually begin with a couple of points that I notice in the text, and then I keep studying it, and I found three, and then I kept studying it, and I found four, and then five, and then six, and then I said, I got to stop now.

So I'm going to give you six words. And think of it like a six-sided diamond, a diamond with six facets, a hexagonal cut. Diamond, which by the way, jewelers say are very exquisite and rare. And they are cut that way to speak of. Symmetry and balance and unity.

So we're going to look at this man who brought that to Paul's life. A little background. 2 Timothy is Paul's final letter, last letter he ever wrote. It's Paul's swan song, you might say. Paul is in prison.

He is awaiting death. And he knows it. He knows that when, within a short period of time, His life will be over.

Okay. It is Paul's second arrest. In Rome. You will recall, I'm sure, that the first time Paul was arrested, he was actually arrested in Jerusalem, taken to Caesarea, where he stood three trials. one before Festus, one before Felix, and then King Agrippa.

He spent two years in Caesarea. Then he was shipped off to Rome for his first Roman imprisonment. When he was in Rome, the first time he was in prison in Rome for another two years. But he was under house arrest, which meant though he was chained to a Roman guard, he had his own rented house. People could come and visit him, he could hold Bible studies.

and he could write letters. In fact, Paul himself Wrote to the Philippians and said, I want you to understand that my imprisonment is actually for the furtherance of the gospel.

So even though he was in prison. Paul saw his confinement as his assignment. And in that prison cell, the first time, He wrote four letters. The letter to the Ephesians. The letter to the Philippians, the letter to the Colossians, and a shorter letter to a man named Philemon, all which are in your New Testament.

After those two years in prison, He was set free. The emperor, Caesar Nero, let him go. That's according to Clement of Rome. and Eusebius, both ancient historians. When Paul was let go after his first imprisonment, we believe that he went to Ephesus.

to spend some time with Timothy. The one who is getting this letter. But then he was rearrested at a town called Troas, which is a port city. He is taken to Rome. He is placed in prison.

And this became his last letter. And you can tell when you read this letter, it's a serious tone, somber tone. But there is a bright spot. There's a few bright spots, and one of them is this man named Onisiferus.

Now as we go through These verses, and we look at the list, these six words that describe Onisiferous. You're going to be tempted to think this thought. Man, I'd like to have a friend like him. I wish I could find somebody like him who would be that kind of a friend to me, but what I want you to start thinking is: how can I become that kind of a friend to someone else? That's how to approach it.

Well, let's begin in 2 Timothy 1. Verse 13, where he says, hold fast. The pattern of sound words which you have heard from me. In faith. And love.

which are in Christ Jesus. That good thing which was committed to you being the gospel. Keep by the Holy Spirit who dwells in us. This you know that all those in Asia have turned away from me. among whom are Phagellus and Hermogenes.

The Lord grant mercy to the household of, here it is, Onosiphorus. Profitable. For he often refreshed me and was not ashamed of my chain. But when he arrived in Rome, he sought me out very zealously and found me. The Lord grant to him that he may find mercy from the Lord in that day.

And you know very well how many ways he ministered to me. at Ephesus. The first word that describes onisephoris is the word refreshing. That's the word Paul used. Notice in verse 16.

The Lord grant mercy to the household of Onisiphorus, for he often refreshed me. This guy revived my spirits. He brought me relief, he cheered me up. The word for refreshed is the word on opsucco. Anapsuko means to cool off.

To cool off, to refresh with cool air when the body is overheated.

So in the overwhelming heat of His trials Paul was brought relief. Refreshment Cool air. He was braced with fresh air from Onisifera. This is Connect with Skip Heitzig. Your support helps reach people every day with biblical truth that brings hope, encouragement, and direction for real life.

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Now here's more from Pastor Skip.

Now, a little more background will help. I mentioned that Paul was in prison in Rome not once, but twice. This is the second time. First time, he had a little more freedom. He's under house arrest in his own hired house.

But this time, the second time, he is in a different prison. He is in a prison known as the Mamertine Prison. Mamertine prison? is sort of like death row. In the Roman penal system.

Um why is he there?

Well, you need to know something that happened.

So In A. D. sixty-four Something very significant happened, broke out in Rome. called a fire. The great fire of Rome happened in AD 64.

The fire started in Rome in the merchants' shops around the Circus Maximus, which was the great chariot stadium. The remains are still there to this day. Fire broke out, lasted for six days. was extinguished. Revived itself again and burned for another three days.

So, for about nine or ten days, this fire burned. When it was all done, three quarters of the city of Rome had been destroyed. It was a massive fire. In AD 64.

Well, when that happened, and when it was finally put out, the citizens of Rome. suspected that the fire was actually started by their emperor. Caesar Nero, because while the fire was burning, he was viewing it from his palace, singing and playing a lyre, playing an instrument.

So they thought this guy started the fire.

So all this public sentiment swung against him.

So he needed a scapegoat. And he remembered that there was this group of people very unpopular in the city of Rome called Christians.

So he said they started it. He blamed them. The Christians were his scapegoat. That began a great persecution against Christianity in the Roman Empire. And since the ringleader had been a previous prisoner named Paul, They found him.

Hunted him down. And they found him in Troas, so that in 68 AD he was rearrested, taken back to Rome, this time placed in the Mamertine Prison, which is at the foot of Capitoline Hill. I've been to the Mamertine Prison three times, and here's what's interesting: it's an interesting spot. Because nobody's there. All the lines are at the Vatican.

Everybody wants to get into the Vatican. Nobody comes to the place where Paul wrote this letter and spent his final days in Rome. It's virtually empty. A few people go to see it, but But not many.

So he was taken to the Mammartine and the Mambertine was sort of a Well, it wasn't sort of. It actually was a hole in the ground.

So you enter a ground level. The lower level is called the Tulianum. And that's where Paul was placed in the Tullianum, the lower section, this hole in the ground. It was cold, it was dark, it had no window, it was smelly, and it was nicknamed the House of Darkness. The only way a prisoner could get food is to have it lowered on a rope.

That's where Paul was. Yeah.

in that place of confinement. How wonderful and refreshing it would be to have somebody like Anasipharis show up. And he did. He refreshed me. This man in solitary confinement was being refreshed.

By the way, in World War II Our enemies discovered that the most effective psychological way To break a prisoner's spirit and resistance was solitary confinement.

So Onisiferus was a friend. He was a Proverbs 27:17 friend, as iron sharpens iron.

So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.

So here's the first question I want you to ask yourself. How refreshing are you to be around? When you show up. Is it like, oh. Or is it ooh?

How refreshing are you to be around? He was refreshing. He refreshed me. says the apostle. The second word is repetitious.

Because go back to verse 16 and look at the modifier before the word refreshed. It's an adverb. The Lord grant mercy to the household of Onisiferus, for he what? Often refresh me. He didn't just do it once.

It wasn't a one-time deal. He repeatedly came to lift my burden. Often. When you are alone and isolated, More frequent contact becomes necessary.

Now This is the final. Phase of the Apostle Paul's life on earth, and his world is narrowing. Narrowing I want you to look at verse 15 again. This you know. That all those in Asia have turned away from me.

What a statement. Among whom are Phagellus and Hermogenes.

So all that persecution. has thinned the ranks of the Christian Church. Christians are fearing for their own safety. And two men are noted here, the names we just read. We really know nothing about them except their cowardice.

They were probably once Leaders with Paul. They once. We're close to Paul, but now they're gone.

Now, go to chapter 4, if you don't mind. Just turn a page. Probably just one page. Look at verse 9 of chapter 4. He says to Timothy, Be diligent to come to me quickly.

He knew that he was going to be dead soon.

So be diligent to come to me quickly, for Demas Has forsaken me, having loved this present world. and has departed for Thessalonica, Cretans for Galatia. Titus for Dalmatia. Only Luke. is with me.

Get Mark. And bring him with you, for he is useful to me for ministry. And Skip down to verse 16. At my first defence, no one stood with me. but all forsook me.

May it not be charged against them. See, all these people are bailing on Paul. Everybody's forsaking him. They are ashamed of Paul because they're ashamed of the gospel that he preached. and they're fearful of their lives.

Paul was arrested. If Paul was arrested, then maybe we're next. That's when you need friends. That's when you need friends showing up. Not just once.

But again and again and again. And Proverbs twenty, verse six. It says, Most men will proclaim each his own goodness. But who can find a faithful man? You'll always get somebody.

Well, you know, I've done this, and I've done that, they brag about themselves. But who can find a faithful man? Paul found one. His name was Onisiphorus. Because faithfulness is not doing the right thing once, it's doing the right thing over and over and over.

Again. Yeah.

William Carey, do you know that name? Missionary to India. When he first felt called to go to India, He told his Father, his dad, tried to talk him out of it. Telling his son that he lacked the academic qualifications for that task. Look, son, you don't know the language in India.

You don't know the history of India. You don't know the culture of India. You are not qualified to be a missionary in India. William Carey shot back and he said, But I can plod. P-L-O-D.

I can plot. I may not know the language, I may not know the culture, I might not know the history, but I could put one foot in front of another, in front of another, in front of another, I can just trudge. I can plod. And he did plot very successfully in that country. And so here is somebody who just kept showing up, kept showing up.

Plotting. Showing up when Paul needed it the most. And then In our text, go down to verse 18. And he says at the end of verse 18, you know very well how many ways. He ministered to me at Ephesus.

In other words, this guy, Onisiferus, he's been serving for years. He's been doing it before he came to Rome. He's been doing it in Ephesus. By the way, many believe that Onisiferus was a deacon of the church. in Ephesus.

Because the word here in verse 18 for ministered is the word Dia coneo, where we get the word deacon, so he deaconed. in Ephesus. Paul is simply pointing out That here is a guy who faithfully served the church at Ephesus, faithfully served the Apostle Paul. And now he is in Rome. Serving him.

One Sunday morning, a pastor addressed his church. Very blatantly. And he said this. All I ask is that we apply the same standards of faithfulness to our church activities that we would in other areas of life. That doesn't seem too much to ask.

Consider this. If your car started one out of three times. Would you consider it faithful? If you didn't show up at work two or three times a month, Would your boss call you faithful? If your refrigerator quit A day now and then, would you excuse it and say, oh, well, it works most of the time.

If your water heater. Greets you with cold water one or two mornings a week while you're in the shower. Would you say it's faithful? If you miss a couple of mortgage payments in a year's time, would your mortgage holder say, oh, well, 10 out of 12 ain't bad. And if you attend church often enough to show you're interested, but not enough to get involved.

Are You Faithful? Jesus said, whoever is faithful in little will also be faithful in much. Here is Onosiphorus, a friend who showed up time and time and time again. Promises will get you friends, faithfulness will keep those friends. He was a friend to the Apostle Paul.

So, two words: refreshing. Repetitious third word, risk-taking. Risk-taking. Notice what he writes. Verse 16, the Lord grant mercy to the household of Onisiphorus, for he often refreshed me.

And here's the phrase. He was not ashamed. of my chain. Yeah.

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