Marriage is a temporary gift that teaches us about the love of God, but it's not ultimate. Singleness is also a gift that allows us to focus on our relationship with Christ and demonstrate happiness and contentment in Him. Both marriage and singleness have their advantages and drawbacks, and the answer to whether one should get married depends on whether they have the gift of marriage or singleness. [... more]

Marriage is a lifelong commitment that requires effort and dedication from both partners. Couples who cohabitate before marriage may be infusing doubt into their relationship, and research shows that they have a higher rate of divorce. Premarital counseling can provide young couples with the tools they need to build a strong and healthy marriage, and experts recommend saving physical intimacy for marriage to maintain the commitment and integrity of the relationship. [... more]

Couples often struggle to maintain intimacy and connection in their marriages due to exhaustion and busyness. To address this, they can prioritize self-care, recognize and respond to bids for connection, and make time for rest and play. By doing so, they can strengthen their relationships and create a more fulfilling marriage. [... more]

A busy marriage can't survive on date nights alone, but rather on the small, constant connections between partners, known as bids, which can be as simple as sharing a moment of interest or playfulness, and prioritizing self-care and rest to stay energized and connected. [... more]

Couples can drift apart and start to feel like roommates due to a slow fade of focus on each other. Prioritizing emotional, spiritual, and physical connection is key to a healthy marriage. Intentional conversations and shared spiritual practices can help couples build a stronger relationship and create a safe environment for vulnerability and growth. [... more]

Couples often drift apart due to a slow fade of focus on each other, leading to feelings of isolation and loneliness. A key to reconnecting is to prioritize small moments of connection, such as sharing bids for connection, exploring each other's inner lives, and finding common interests. [... more]

Gary Thomas discusses the importance of character in marriage, the need for singles to be proactive in their search for a spouse, and the role of God in guiding them towards a godly marriage. He emphasizes the need for singles to seek God's kingdom and righteousness, and to look for a partner who shares these values. [... more]

Gary Thomas discusses the importance of understanding why you want to get married, rather than just who you want to marry. He emphasizes the need to prioritize character over infatuation and to seek a partner who shares your values and faith. Thomas also challenges the idea of a soulmate and instead suggests that a fulfilling marriage is built on a shared commitment to God's plan and spiritual growth. [... more]