ldquo My dear friend sometimes you sound holier than you really are rdquo Those words were leveled with a direct gaze and gentle smile Had they come from someone other than a close friend and mentor whose discernment I highly valued my feelings might have been hurt Instead I winced and laughed at the same time knowing that while his words ldquo hit a nerve rdquo he was also right Sometimes when I talked about my faith I used jargon that didn rsquo t sound natural which gave the impression that I wasn rsquo t being sincere My friend loved
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