During our wedding ceremony our minister said to me ldquo Do you promise to love honor and obey your husband until death do you part rdquo Glancing at my fianc eacute I whispered ldquo Obey rdquo We rsquo d built our relationship on love and respect mdash not blind obedience as the vows seemed to suggest My husband rsquo s father captured on film the wide-eyed moment I processed the word obey and said ldquo I do rdquo Over the years God has shown me that my resistance to the word obey had nothing to do with the incredibly complex
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