All too many caregivers judge themselves without mercy - all we see are our mistakes But if we're going to judge ourselves and I don't recommend that we do let's at least judge ourselves fairly That means if we berate ourselves for our performance record then we need to also judge ourselves by our attendance record - which is flawless We keep showing up Now once we've established that showing up has value let's see if we can't work on showing up without feeling miserable [... more]