When evaluating relationships, consider how you want people to speak about you after you're gone. Think about your key family members, friends, mentors, associates, and mentees. Appraise your relationships, asking if they're in great condition or raggedy. Consider how well you're doing as a parent, and whether you're honoring your parents, even after they're gone. Ask yourself if certain relationships should be changed or adjusted in some way, and be willing to make internal changes to maintain unity and keep relationships intact.
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