While we decorated for a special event at church the woman in charge griped about my inexperience After she walked away another woman approached me ldquo Don rsquo t worry about her She rsquo s what we call an E G R mdash Extra Grace Required rdquo I laughed Soon I started using that label every time I had a conflict with someone Years later I sat in that same church sanctuary listening to that E G R rsquo s obituary The pastor shared how she had served God behind the scenes and given generously to others I asked God [... more]