When I was young whenever my doting Aunt Betty visited it felt like Christmas She rsquo d bring Star Wars toys and slip me cash on her way out the door Whenever I stayed with her she filled the freezer with ice cream and never cooked vegetables She had few rules and let me stay up late My aunt was marvelous reflecting God rsquo s generosity However to grow up healthy I needed more than only Aunt Betty rsquo s way I also needed my parents to place expectations on me and my behavior and hold me to them God [... more]