God binds up the brokenhearted, and his grace does not enter into closed doors. You must let him heal you. King Saul, a quintessential example of an abuser in the Bible, had advantages and strong points but also a dark side. David handled the situation by running, and God used this time to take the Saul out of David's heart. To begin the healing process, one must face reality, go from hiding in the shadows to seeking help in the sunlight, and move from self-justification to forgiveness.
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