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December 20, 2020 1:07 pm

Discussing self-esteem and confidence with author, coach and podcaster Jonny Pardoe, on the latest The Cure with Aimee Cabo.


Jonny Pardoe - Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset

says : "Self esteem is NOT something you are just born with and that’s it. It is a muscle you just have to work on it. Confidence is also a muscle to work for different areas" Find more about Jonny on


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Aimee Cabo Nikolov is a Cuban American who has lived most of her life in Miami. After many years of healing, finding love, raising a family and evolving her relationship with God, Aimee's true grit and courage led her to pen an honest, thought-provoking memoir. Years of abuse became overshadowed with years of happiness and unconditional love. Now Aimee is the president of IMIC Research, a medical research company, a transformational speaker, syndicated radio host and focused on helping others. You can read more about Aimee by visiting her website. Dr. Boris Nikolov is the CEO of Neuroscience Clinic. You can read more about Dr. Nikolov and the work he is doing by visiting his website.



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I have called you friends all think that I have heard from my father I have made known to you, it did not chase me but I chose you and appointed you patient go on bear fruit and that your feet should remain that whatever you ask of the father 90 C make FTM and here's the message greatest men in history named Jesus had no servants that they caught the master had no degree yet because in teacher had no medicines at the coffin heater had no army, yet kings feared he won no military battles yet he conquered the world he committed no crime. Yet they crucified. He was buried in a tomb yet he lives today and thus that was my intention and down just to let you know Manny, sunny, beautiful 75F for 15 Miami guys really and say hi yes I and go through go to be show about self-esteem so workable. What's said God's very first iso you are not your mistakes there. What you did look for your what you believe becomes a reality. That's Michael, your notes what you know you yourself as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection. It's not who you are the called you back.

It's who you think you're not okay. You have been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn't worked right approving of yourself and see what happens.

Turn the page start me when I self-esteem is made up primarily of two things feeling lovable and feeling capable about feeling left I got. That's the best and a lot of people will be loved by others is really only need to let others help in addition, it's a great complement another love, love yourself, you should just show you a couple life can bring many difficult situations domestic violence addictions, poverty and even sexual abuse by your loved ones welcome Amy, to welcome The Miami amazing how Shelley is available in your radio also have to care smart and a website God's We are broadcasting live from Manny to satellite available in 35 radios in more than 11 states and I am in social media.

Soon after the shell any part they show deals with suffering and the tenacity of the human spirit. The will to survive in the carriage to keep moving forward despite any obstacle with the help of God, who enables us to help each other like testimonials to let people know that we are not alone and they shall testimony started with me having been a survivor from child abuse well into young adulthood. We also have experts in several fields and inspirational speakers willing to help us with valuable information. Knowing that education is necessary.

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What will it take for us to acknowledge our best. Will it be time to let go and let God guide us so we can finally learn that in God we can rest that can be scary.

There are moments that will chop us to our knees, but it's our hearts beautiful soul and are potential is like I always see till is there a better position to begin to pray when we hit bottom. It really is the only way these times have been Tariq but his light will always shine above all the noise there's nothing like God's sweet love so divine, we can only fool ourselves for so long believe the hype as he falsely carry on its weight getting gotta try it with 10 that we learn grow wings and start to fly.

There's so much that we can discover a device we will never know how much there is to recover only freedom through Christ can fix you create confidence and peace like no other guest is John Pardo who is going to help this guy.

Self-esteem and confidence.

Johnny Pardo is the author and podcast host of the self-esteem and confidence mindset and a confidence coach Johnny initially fathered into the personal growth world from his creative love writing fiction as Johnny began his personal growth journey, he became more self-aware this long night long, lifelong self-esteem and confidence. Challenges Johnny did everything in his power to build and create a new level of self-love by investing time and money into coaching books and courses.

Johnny realized how many others had challenges to including some close to him, which led him to the creation of the self-esteem and confidence mindset shall channel up and coaching can you print out.

Thank you for being on the show we are now life you very much baby you are not right walk right over Charlotte and it's so nice all the way from England.

How blessed are we done. Let's just die right into it.

Everyone bailed a good self-esteem and let's start by describing what is self-esteem yeah cool. By the old book go or believe everybody people. You will copy the oranges and what myself. We walked the configuration but I do believe that everyone how ability would to self-esteem back home but it just the fact that we can get well well with OB challenging full law and again we walked the configuration was another large bunch self-esteem will drop a question be if you look for leads that will be speculation, self-esteem is very about how much you like yourself, you're cheaper with the metal would not walk the how you got yourself a body fell so basically, learning that are valuable means for spiritual person you find your value in being God's child. I mean that's what works for me anyway but it's important that everyone knows that their precious caregiver purpose there being here is not in the state and it was really is a great creation each and every one of us by our awesome creator and but is there a difference between self-esteem and confidence.

Yeah, cool your feed on the public with that. How much you yourself are you described it, people you all you Beltway gold creation, but making is the big vapor what they said right. My first question is for the two different hard stuff you felt about how you feel your abilities all id like how much you willing to go on a legal right, but the little boat is more about how you feel about going into a given situation, but if you example because they are quite cold, but the public for long on your people different story. People happily fight can be wrong with your self-esteem and how much you value by itself this specific how you think you're going to be right so it's kind of how self-esteem is about feeling better about yourself and who you are, but confidence is about being brave and taking that extra step, believing that you are capable like at this rate, yet think about yourself yourself but yet: despite much about that but you get more for global big new table college and see what comes first. Self-esteem and confidence and go hand-in-hand is one more important than the other. Can you live with one and not the other day that day will what you thought you really get out Larin on on anything is ready for the fight there the whole don't we do so would love to hear from you.

Call us at 634 through suffering, spirit of God. I was forced to people's choices. My heart Amy, every Saturday at one Eastern on the truth in things pertaining remember that you can listen to the radio show live through the cure was amicable on your radio or support cost for the cure on any book related to fireplace in the background that house burning on anything that you will glorify the actual virtual file system firing something that sounded just played last be like by sweaty and complete.

When I hear this somewhat echoes most is hurt sometimes to be like that boy doing those times so especially the things that make us fall flat on our face crazy things not experienced before. Is it possible that we could enter anymore. Wondering what's going on.

We are never ourselves with our two since gone.

We always need God back it will always be like that only God can keep us sane in a world that can be too much. Otherwise it becomes a train and we just learn to live in pain. We know what we shouldn't do and who is really a friend where not better on our own. There's no reason to pretend God can give us everything if we only turned to him to keep us warm and full of love. All we have to do is follow through and just comply with God above, and is widely mystified for his ways are humble, never full of pride. It doesn't seem right. If it's from God. The field we have to constantly hike like talking to Johnny Pardo about self-esteem and confidence. We have a Alyssa would just take a quick go with color: lucky from John look what my report. I have a 501(c)(3) program that I might know their really bring children out leadership really strong, confident there. What is the difference between cockiness and name incompetent, like there's a very thin line, though no what would you say could be a good differentiator of when you need to draw the line and having that competent and when it not know much that would you know one thing, the question yeah cool white. The difference between members is belief in yourself and you believe in yourself, while on the show in the light well informed about this just because we make up about that but the true competent is about feeling good within you all on drawing on your pellet knowing your ability much about someone you bought the ball actually knowing I like that make me feel like confident give a bit of yourself you know more about constant showing education to do something that's not very natural.

So yeah, I appreciate what you said look up walk Boomer W a a B0 I like to say I can do all things through Christ always need God's help, I find my confidence in God. God, I mean, I know that without God. I know one and so that keeps me in check. I mean we can teach that her kids.

It is our responsibility to Mason right and end but that's the best way to go about things because it's got that makes all things possible, and there is a fine line and so that brings me to the next question Johnny it's a great thing that she can't because my next question was, what are the challenges that we are faced with special ed kids about feeling good about themselves, especially when kids are told words hurt and I mean I happen to know kids that were confident that suddenly become insecure because of the things that their friends say Laura because of what their environment has need them to believe how can we, what can we do about that question about what from the challenges you said from someone you all about. By the late make them feel good about himself and the 12 local news and social media thing is quite well constant comparison as well. We thought is going to keep about the angel right all the right people.

This people are really about 25 limiting beliefs which are early childhood we met. You know it. Within now we do about it will become bound to individually will also we actually will be fully fallen on the funding before he could say one more thing about my self understanding how truly believe you might think all the truth about what you know about the legal be for you, but we can do that we can all just want to complain about life social media and the new member.

The other thing is really really important, but trying to choose the right people around Mount people you choose like probably old))) but it will when you Kontron choose the right people for your department your speaking. Back in with you regarding well would be some of my key point is a great team and I mean left you up not bring you down and it's important to differentiate between the chicken ally. It's basically willing to believe you want to believe something that makes you feel bad quite hurtful to believe something that can help you move forward something that's productive. Just like us in productive conversation or conversation that we can, so I will know about self-esteem. Would love to hear from you.

Call us with your question. 1866 tell us whether you have good self-esteem are so six is no welcome back Amy will live every Saturday at 1 PM on your radio care website OSHA also available for the cure was amicable that really fun awesome song is Hawaii by mail and the weekends. Tammy what is your having the things we think that make us happy.

We need clear line to ourselves if we think it's in this world only family I love for others and doesn't believe in us can plant that seed. It started with her heavenly father opened up my mind. He represented at the perfect time for so long we didn't even know we were supplying but how would you like to be on vacation free from drinking, smoking, taping, or any other frustration when we need nothing at all that God is in the center of highlights rolling a trip and stumble never fall. It's no longer any and every day were we must fight a greater understanding of what is truly right. There is no greater feeling than being free. Only God is not constant for him this night. Everything is a blessing no guarantee finding purpose to Christ as the greatest way to be. It's what allows us to find meaning and all the beauty that we see God provides the true path for us all, for which he is willing, for which he willingly sacrificed himself, taking the ultimate fall guy provides the grace that will surely make us tough as his children, we are treasured, and his only need when God's love becomes enough. You're arriving better about everything. One of this people they want to think about it yourself with yours does the other day some version of any updated version of my book. Love is thick and love is cancer.

God is a carrot to be released in a couple months include suppressed memories because we know the mission is lying. Purpose really so it's not omitted any but was still talking to Johnny Pardo about self-esteem and confidence. Hi Johnny back so Danny and talk about in this conceptions what misconceptions could there be about self-esteem and confidence.

I thought it was all good. One day. We found when I will be using on the. The lovely people.

In the like. They were the fabled things about reading anything like that but actually read the very people people people think is all good, just they went through the people spirits. All three of the more we do something but we can fill the space for me.

If I already got the people listening in general people think all the do something that I'm from someone who is maybe rich bowl season is attractive for people in the public already have issues with the will be the only need examples of the we come in. The law is not much left anybody leprosy through.

Now reading how the Lord of the worst case low self-esteem that no longer with the main infection.the point well this is something very fundamental to Christian faith and I know that it's what worked for me. I think all stricken with fear. At one point or another in our lives and sometimes we can get into care and we can get beaten-down life can do that to you but this is really strong fundamental belief to the Christian faith is the realization that God loves us when we deeply understand this important truth, we begin to see ourselves and love others the way that lets us and so love the love of self and also cut said have no fear.

And if you don't think that you're capable of fear not strong enough. You're not good enough. God certainly yes he can always buy three year sale that I was able to combat that because nobody's accent. We all get hit sooner or later the most competent people, nobody's superhuman. But we can try something which you have high self-esteem so the importance of looking after yourself and yourself (love yourself. The critical role yourself as being record valves were saying we were with readers actually help show me if you don't like to stop all like a little bit more challenging for you to write out the other five of Robert right around five with love myself. People felt like bacon people felt the same about how to get actually if you self-esteem.

It what you want your voice to be holding itself very you could actually be giving welcome people to be getting the body is not just yourself and bring me what you want both people (looking off yourself. But this idea. Some of us we just don't like ourselves no matter what we really need to like ourselves. God loves us if we believe God loves us and if we can be who God wants us to be what others love to promote self-esteem and confidence. All it if you lacking the key to like yourself, can you learn to love yourself, knowing that God loves you the way that you are and if you become the person that God wants you to be follow his truth his father his word list, you walk in his steps. Others will Matthew and his others love you want that not build self-confidence to continue talking about that love to hear from you. Personal story of self growth question one Isaac 634 18660 so is no hand again and things are teaming in life. Every Saturday at 1 PM Eastern your radio. Depending on which state aftercare on social media is that God is the King literature will be available to focus like tomorrow. Search for the cure would go. I spoke with an eye and a doubly search God is the cure? The song that just played less intentions by Justin Bieber.

You can be perfect like me is what God said, follow me. You are my NH and delight in the bread I created you with great intention, to every detail. I think careful attention was planned times in the side. It's what made us go even though at times it means is not.

It takes some time creating a masterpiece. It can be difficult and confusing callousness faith eventually increase we can truly be an asset when shattered by his grace.

So kiss the ring Hang and we are his space so were talking to John Pardo about self-esteem earlier. I was talking Johnny because I feel for those supplies to find it hard to like ourselves.

We've all had different experiences and it's not easy for some of the Magic Dragon feel okay about yourself. Tell God's love is unconditional logic 12. Now God's love is unconditional.

I can imagine hand singing that very song that just played for us and how can you go around.

Even if you can't find it within yourself.

You can find it in God so if John someone is overwhelmed and doesn't know where to begin to improve their self-esteem. How could they start yeah okay right around the love of Robert William to include bond that something is a reason for you on this reason why other people love you that's really important for mantra "mouth thing on site with the goal is fun you'll wed the funding well you you actually believe that the funding that the real trick you said about people love you love you and looking to think about making it simpler to look at what you're talking to yourself. If you say all are not on Might you feel good right you should let all I have a wonderful life you will believe about yourself and say nice things because you would like the pallet, but you can feel the meaning listening to information to make you feel good, thinking about what you will be really understanding what makes me feel that make me feel good about myself when I felt good. I'm really trying to do more to say things is power. There is no power behind it is true that if you say things in enough enough times repetitively eventually believe brainwashers of right wrong or indifferent. It does happen and so if you're in the practice being positive and saying positive things to yourself eventually believe that whereas if you're being negative all the time in battle you will believe and that's what they say you believe becomes a reality.

What is it that you want your reality to be a lot of statistics, someone who cares somebody that believes in you. Somebody says you somebody who says you left something teaches you about God that would be helpful to coach the lesser known to the coaching sessions in my tiny things to look out what's the difference between taking action and creating habits when looking to improve yourself. Yet, how about how you feel about you find that old house market looking people.

But when you take action, you stop now you might be thinking what are the five big gobble all public why you got one right through to people and you write down because when you take action, you build momentum now on the whole law is you want to come. Local you'll become a habit to be what you do not forget habit should be anything every day. The amount you get every day even though what you told yourself everyday is long how you can treat me like they were nonworking reading of habit, helping them the difference between an action is all cordial something you won't bring you so I suppose if you repeatedly doing things that I did for you. You'll feel better about yourself might mean having good behaviors that is if you're afraid this is even with the optional foods. The food groups and then ask what about similar afraid all you know, God did say do not be afraid. So if you're afraid then if you lacking faith in you being disobedient you want to be intentional and have faith intentional and increase her faith and the only way he can do that is to face your fears.

That's my take is also lower the fear of covert some guy decides what happens. He's in control tiny but what if somebody is unhappy with their job with the confidence should they change it or should they face their fears and chided someone looking at someone really important to get wed.

It why not draw or is that the current bomb like about it if it's something in the work environment.

Mostly remote working people divided the funding like generally not like that all depend on the action your type and if it the case that you read project reading the starting finding what you want what you want to try on project leaving your job to build everything but the microphone on what is taking time out on the fun. I wanted to ask you to overcome being scared to stay here just a stepping stone.

That's a good thing and I wish we had more time so valuable and I love the things you're saying thank you so much Johnny for helping us boost their self-esteem by more information on hand can be found on Johnny

Thank you Johnny for having me. And thinking I producer Bethann chief protector for being with us making the system and get an making music possible thanks to the Christian car guy who gave me my health name. It was so cute, probably Delmar shows that it's paint that's important.

A prayer for self-confidence. Father think you like that we are daughters and sons of the King loved and cherished in my inheritance is eternal goodness said today we wear a crown like a princess or prince full of people ready for we do not earn this on simply choose to live in a place this price upon our heads. Each rule already paid for this symbol of belonging. We feel the grace of God within our hearts. Grace that enables us to try hard not to fear failure grace that cause us to stay true to our values and mission not to be overwhelmed by grace to walk tall following your footsteps. Think you like but we are daughters and sons of the King, a prince, princess or prince with a crown jewels and children with nothing.

Heavenly father in Jesus name, amen.

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