Children, God's Special Gift

They call it the urge to merge. Marriage is where God blesses couples with children. The Bible calls children a heritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb a reward. Kids are a wonderful blessing, but they can also be an immense challenge. Today we navigate the uncertain waters of child rearing. Please stay with us. From Chicago, we welcome you to The Moody Church Hour, a weekly service of worship and teaching under the ministry of Dr. Erwin Lutzer.

On this program, we continue a ten-part series on fighting for your family. Later in our service, we'll learn about children, God's special gift. Pastor Lutzer comes now to open our service.

And we are so glad that you have joined us today. We hope that already you've spent some time preparing your heart and mind for today's worship service. You know, one of the most indisputable marks of the ministry of the Holy Spirit is joy. The Bible says that the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, and then it lists the other fruit of the Spirit. The Bible also says that the joy of the Lord is our strength. Maybe one of the reasons that we are so weary oftentimes is because we have so little joy. In a moment, the choir and orchestra are going to be performing for us, and they're going to be singing for the beauty of the earth.

But the operative line that I want you to notice is the last one. Lord of all, to thee we raise this, our joyful hymn of praise. And the first part of the song lists all the things that should cause us joy.

But at the end of the day, it is a gift of God given to us. Would you prepare your heart and mind for worship this morning as we bow together a moment of quietness? And we're going to honor the Lord our God as we listen, and then we'll have our opportunity also to participate. Our Father, we come into your presence today, and we are aware that it is good to be here. Most of all, we hope that you will receive glory because of our worship.

We pray that the meditation of our hearts, the song that we sing, the things that we learn, the transformation that you hope to bring us, we hope that all of that, and we pray that it might take place. Even as we thank you for the beauty of the earth and all of the other things that you have created. And this is our hymn of joy.

We ask in Jesus' name, amen. For the beauty of the earth, for the beauty of the skies, For the longest of our birth, over and around the skies, For the world our daily lives, is a joyful hymn of praise. For the beauty of each hour, of the day and of the night, We'll invade the tree and plant, we'll empower, set it with the stars alight, set it with the stars alight, For the beauty we praise, is a joyful hymn of praise. For the joy of human love, brother, sister, parent, child, There's a land where friends are quiet, for our gentle thoughts are quiet, for our gentle thoughts are quiet, For the water they will raise, is a joyful hymn of praise. For each perfect gift of God, to our praise so freely given, There's room and we come, as are written words of heaven, as are written words of heaven, For the culture in great grace, is a joyful hymn of praise. There's a joyful hymn of praise. For the world our daily lives, is a joyful hymn of praise. Beyond the highest sun, where nature stood, the Lord was there, a guilty man, a common man, A deeply strong one to win.

He is every child, he can consume, and far and from he is seen. O love of God, how fair to you, how fair to the heavens and sky, It shall forevermore implore the saints of the ancient sun. Could we rethink the ocean fill, and were the skies of hearts were clear, Where ev'ry storm covered the clear, and ev'ry man beside the tree, To write the love of God above, O love of God, how fair to you, how fair to the heavens and sky, It shall forevermore implore the saints of the ancient sun. O love of God, how fair to you, how fair to the heavens and sky, It shall forevermore implore the saints of the ancient sun. O love of God, how fair to the heavens and sky, O love of God, how fair to the heavens and sky, It shall forevermore implore the saints of the ancient sun. O love of God, how fair to the heavens and sky, It shall forevermore implore the saints of the ancient sun. I know God shall see His beauty, but He who gave His love I did not, Who thought of me, because of my concern, Have given me songs in the night. Repeat, repeat, repeat of the Lamb, Who did make mercy His Father no better than Him. Children of the Happy Father, Save Thee in His rose-and-gather, As the earth o'ersight heaven, Such a refuge there will stay. Whom He given, what He taken, How His children were first taken, His own loving, perfect story, To return them to Him. I agree with George Barna who said that ministry to children is the most important strategic ministry in God's kingdom.

It is so satisfying to me to know that Moody Church was birthed as a Sunday school and then morphed into a church. And still 150 years later, children are a priority, and our children's ministry is growing and continuing and very effective. How wonderful that is in an age when the needs are so great. But it's hard to be a child today. It's hard because the contemporary culture says that your value is dependent upon your appearance. If you're not attractive, you're basically worthless.

You know, these reality shows that emphasize beauty and two people not knowing each other still able in a few moments to figure out whether or not they really connect. That not only is trash, it is destructive trash to our children. Then we live in an era where there are no values except that which you choose.

In our school systems, we have value clarification, which as I studied, I discovered that where kids end up is already determined by the curriculum. And I want to say a word about the next message that I'm going to preach in this series. I always thought that the destruction of the family was something that just happened because society fell apart. I didn't know that it was strategically planned by a Marxist philosopher who so influenced what we call today the radical left that all the attacks against the family were part of his agenda.

I'll tell you about him. For example, he believed that the families were so strong in Europe and the United States that the only way that Marxism can triumph is if the family be broken up. And so he plotted to destroy the family. One of the things he said is we have to get women mothers out of the home and we need to tell them that they are victims. And when that happens, the children are going to be floundering. And this is very important because not until we destroy the family will the families finally be willing to accept big government that will take care of them.

I didn't know that it was so meticulously planned. And I'll share that with you next time. Today's message is largely for parents, though if you are single, there's going to be some things in it also for you. And so I'm going to ask you as a parent, as a Christian parent, a question. What do you aim for in the lives of your children?

You say, well, I want them to be able to do well in school, be honest, excel, want them to stay out of drugs and sex and alcohol and to become good, honorable citizens so that they can be productive to society. Now, if you end there, if that's the end goal, you are not a Christian parent because the aims that I just outlined, those can be the very aims of Buddhists and Hindus and Muslims and even atheists who have a moral consciousness because God created them in his image. Did you know that out of atheism, no values whatever can arise?

None. Logically, it can be proved. But nonetheless, atheists, because they're created in God's image, they have a sense of rightness and wrongness, and they could achieve the very goals that I've outlined. It's not Christian parenting. Christian parenting has to take things a step further and say that we are aiming for children who have been redeemed by the gospel, who love God with all of their hearts, and God has birthed within them the new life of Christ, and they love God not just because they have to or because rules are good, but their very motivation has been changed by the gospel. That's what we're aiming for as Christian parents.

Well, how do we get there? Very quickly, four or five principles that I think are going to be life-changing, especially as we move ahead in the message. And the only passage of Scripture I'm going to ask you to turn to today is really the 10th chapter of Mark. Jesus speaks about the importance of children in Matthew 18, but this is the only passage.

I'm going to be using others, but I'm just going to be quoting them and reminding you of what they say because we have much to cover. In Mark chapter 10, verse 13, it says, And they were bringing children to him that he might touch them, and the disciples rebuked them. But when Jesus saw it, he was indignant and said to them, Let the children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belong the kingdom of God. Truly I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like this child shall not enter it.

Don't you love this? And he took them into his arms and blessed them, laying his hands on them. What was the problem with the disciples? Jesus, they're just kids. Why are you bothering with kids? I mean, look at all of the adults who'd like to hear you teach.

They might even be able to take notes. But children can't. The first thing that we have to convey to our children is this, that we love them, we value them.

But I agree with Chip Ingram, I heard a snatch of a message he preached recently, in which he said that children are always asking two questions. How much do you love me, and where are the boundaries? Because if you simply say you love your child and there are no boundaries, or the boundaries are unclear, you say, well, I'm not going to get him mad at me. He can do whatever he likes. He will grow up hating you, no matter how often you say, I love you.

It'll be meaningless. Children say, if you love me, show me the boundaries. And I'm putting the whole emphasis on love and boundaries and values together. Parents, you're the only one who can convey value to your child. In school, he or she may be ridiculed.

He's going to go through life. Life is tough, and the child is asking, who am I? Am I worthy?

Am I significant? And you alone have the ability to convey that to him or to her. And you do it by giving them attention, by listening carefully. I wish I'd have done that more as a father.

I remember when one of our teenage girls was going through problems like teenagers have with boyfriends and all. I remember her lying on her bed in the room, and I lay on the floor and put a pillow under my head and listened for an hour. Just listen.

She still refers to it. And I think to myself, why didn't I do that more often? You connect with them. You remind them.

You discuss with them what they are anticipating in school. You talk. You communicate.

And you convey value, love, but you can't do it without boundaries. As a parenthesis, do you realize what divorce does to children? Rebecca and I were in a restaurant one time, and we overheard a conversation.

We couldn't help but overhear it in the next booth. Between a father who was dropping off a girl that was probably six years old and giving the child to the mother because the father had the child over the weekend, God puts it into the heart of every little child to have a mommy and daddy and that mommy and daddy should love each other. Now, imagine what this little one goes through. She's to love mommy during the week. She's supposed to love daddy on the weekends, but mommy and daddy can't stand each other. In fact, they had an argument right there about money.

Now, of course, God is a redeeming God, as we shall see. But do you understand what happens? There are values that you as a parent can convey to your child that cannot be adequately conveyed by teachers and babysitters however well they may do. There's nothing like the power of a parent. And if you connect with that child and you value them, your influence will be greater than the influence that they have in schools regarding drugs and all the other things that happens. It's you.

You. Love, boundaries, value. Secondly, children need someone whom they can emulate, a lifestyle that they can follow. It's an old story, but it is a true story. And by the way, the passage there is in 1 Corinthians, where Paul says, I'm your father.

Follow me. It's an old story, but it's a true story about a man walking through the snow going to the bar. He had to go there regularly because of his addiction to alcohol. And as he was walking through the snow, he looked back and there was his little son, perhaps four years old, trying to walk in his father's steps as best he could. And the man said, hey, what are you doing? He said, Dad, I'm just trying to follow in your footsteps.

The man turned around and went home with tears in his eyes. Let me ask you some questions. You want children to honor God, don't you? Do they ever see you reading the Bible or praying? Do they ever see that? You want children who don't drink.

Do you drink? You want children who tell the truth. Do you tell the truth or have the kids seen and heard you lie?

Modeling, modeling, it's powerful. There's going to come a time in the life of your teenager when all that you say and all that you do will not be heard, but it will be your life even in the midst of struggle that will impact them. That's what they remember. We had family devotions all the time without fail in my home. But interestingly, the thing that I remember is when a hailstorm came and knocked out the crop.

And in those days, my father didn't have insurance. And when it was over, I hope I can get through this story okay, our parents said, let's get on our knees and thank God for all of his goodness. That's what kids remember. A model of godliness in the midst of trial. Third, what kids really need is obedience to authority. The passage is Ephesians 6.

It's worthy of a sermon in itself. Children, obey your parents in the Lord for this is right. Honor your father and mother. You say, well, I can't honor my father and my mother because my father was abusive and maybe the mother was too. By the way, in a future sermon, I'm going to deal with the whole issue of abuse.

So you be patient. We'll talk about that. But for now, honor your father and your mother that it may go well with you. Children, obey your parents. You know, you've seen this. Let me give you a bit of advice. First of all, have few rules, but be consistent with them.

Absolutely consistent. And just teach them obedience. You've seen it a thousand times.

We've all done it. Let's suppose little Peter is playing there with the blocks and you say, Peter, it's time to go. Does nothing. Keeps on. Peter, I said that we are to go. Do something with the blocks. Put them back in the box.

He plays. There's no need to go yet. Peter Joseph Hendricks, would you please put those blocks back in the box? Ah, when he hears his middle name, he knows it's time to go. Why doesn't that kind of obedience happen the first time you say it? It's your fault and it's mine. When the Bible says fathers don't exasperate your children, and that's the rest of it, how do we exasperate our children? Fathers, it's by overcorrection.

Overcorrection by yelling at them and always criticizing them, always finding some reason to find fault. The Bible warns against that. Should be a separate sermon. You say, well, should we ever use physical punishment?

I say, absolutely, when it's necessary, you apply the Board of Education to the seat of learning. My father had a razor strap. Now, some of you don't even know what that is, but it was hanging at the back of the door.

My older brother should have written over it, I need thee every hour. You know, we've so reacted against the world because the world has said, oh, that's child abuse. Of course it can be child abuse.

If it's done in anger, if you're hitting the child as such, but a proper spanking at a proper time with a proper reason and a proper ending where there's reconciliation afterwards, there's probably nothing quite like it to help the kid know where the boundaries are. Well, we must hurry on, and there's a fourth principle, and that is that children must be taught both law and grace. And in this section, I've been helped by a book I read this past week.

It's entitled Give Them Grace, and it's written by a woman and her daughter. The names are Fitzpatrick and Thompson, Give Them Grace. Children need both. Let me talk about, first of all, the law. We have to give them the law. The Bible says in the book of Deuteronomy, we should teach them the law. So we teach them the Ten Commandments. We teach them the Sermon on the Mount. We teach them the book of Proverbs. We have good standards in the home.

We say, as long as you live here, these are the standard. These are the rules. You have basically two responses from children at that point. One is the good child, perhaps the compliant child, seldom the firstborn, the firstborn oftentimes competitive, and, well, there are some other things I could say about firstborns. Being a lastborn, I can comment on firstborns.

I won't tell you the faults of a lastborn, but I've pretty well got them all. But you see, the compliant child says, OK, I'm going to do that. I'm going to excel. I'm going to get good grades.

I'm going to study hard. I'm going to stay away from drugs and all the other things that the kids are doing. I'm going to be the good child. I'm going to excel. I'm going to have a good job. I'm the model child.

That's one response. But then there's another kid in the home who said, you know, I can't live up to my older brothers and sisters and all of these high standards. I'll put up with this home. Until I'm old enough to leave home. And then what I'm going to do is I'm going to do my own thing and finally be away from mother and father, and especially if he hates his dad or his mother. He's going to say in his mind, I hate my dad, and I hate his God.

So I'm out of here. Two different responses from law. What is missing in that scenario? What's missing is the gospel and grace. It's totally missing from the scenario.

Let's talk about child number one for just a moment, the good child. He doesn't understand grace. He really doesn't see any need for it, really. Because look at how well he's doing. He brings his report card home, and it's pretty well God's straight A's. And he's on his way, and people are looking at him and saying he's going to be successful. He need grace?

Not really. Well, you know, church and God, it's all nice if you're desperate. But he's not desperate. Child number two, an entirely different scenario. Child number two, what does he need? He needs grace. Because you see, the reason that he leaves home and does his own thing is because he figures he can't live up to this high standard that his parents have set out for him. He can't live up to this standard.

And why should he even bother trying to live up to the standard when he can't do it and he can't do it? What he needs is the gospel. He needs grace. Because you see, the Bible says that Jesus Christ came on a rescue mission, died for our sins, and was raised again for this reason, for a number of reasons. But one is so that we could be forgiven and actually have the righteousness of Christ applied to us to make up for all of our deficits and all of our inabilities and all of our sins. And secondly, to change our hearts. If any man be in Christ, he is a new creation. Old things have passed away.

Behold, all things are becoming new. The first commandment says thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, with all thy mind, and with all thy soul. Can we wake up in the morning and keep that commandment?

Of course not. How can we even begin to keep that commandment unless we've been born again and God births within us? A supernatural love of God can't be done.

And what this boy needs, you see, he says in his mind after he's been in the far country, he says, you know, I've blown it so badly. God is probably so mad at me. There's no use coming back to God and being reconciled because I can't live up to it anyway. But what he needs to know is that that's why Jesus came. Of course we can't live up to it.

Of course he can't, and neither can you and neither can I. But God receives sinners and gives them what they don't have. He gives them the gift of righteousness and acceptance before God, and then he also gives them a motivation to live differently, how many failures they may do along life's way, just like I've done and you've done. But this boy needs to know that he doesn't have to come to God and promise that he's going to live like his elder brother. He comes just as he is. There's a song we've sometimes sung, probably not sung it often enough, that says the vilest of sinners who truly believes that moment from Jesus a pardon receives. He can come as he is with his weaknesses and sins, and he will be received by God because of grace.

Let me ask you a question. Which group of people did Jesus have the greatest problem with when he was here on earth? Well, you know, he was criticized for hanging out with the drunkards and the prostitutes and the tax collectors and all those other things. They said, you know, he's hanging out with these people. But Jesus was received by them, but the goody two-shoes who are keeping the law.

Oy, oy, oy. If you haven't read Matthew 23 for a while, you read Matthew 23. You know, I read it and I say, you know, I've never had the nerve to even preach on this. Is this the loving Jesus talking, excoriating these self-righteous people? He had a bigger problem with them. In fact, that's why he once told a parable about a man who had two sons, the elder brother who stayed home, the one who worked on the farm day and night, made it successful. And then the other kid, you know, who ran into the far country and then in desperation decided to come home. And what Jesus is saying is that that elder brother, it's possible, you know, to be in the father's work and not share the father's heart.

He was working hard, but he was disconnected. He didn't have a personal relationship with his dad. The younger son, the prodigal, he came home.

I've been thinking about this this past week. I think that all of us would prefer to raise an elder brother than a prodigal who leaves home. But, you know, at the end of the day, I do have to at least ask the question, which son pleased the father more? And the answer was the prodigal, because he came with nothing and the father is a God of grace and said, hey, bring the best robe and put it on him, put a ring on his hand, shoes on his feet, let's have a party.

The older son didn't care for a party with the father. The older son was into works, righteousness, it was he who made that farm go and he never entered into the father's grace. That was the whole point of the parable.

Both needed grace. You say, well, is there a problem with the law? No, the problem with the law is that we keep it superficially. We think that the law was a matter of outward obedience and we don't understand that the first commandment was thou shall love the Lord our God with all our heart and that the law, as Paul says, should drive us to Jesus. Because all of us know we don't keep it, at least in our hearts. But the Pharisees thought as long as we keep it outside, we give our tithe, everybody's watching, we say our prayers in the street corner and we keep the law, we don't have to have a changed heart. So the law didn't do its work.

It's supposed to be. And so Jesus says both of these need grace. So that's what children need. They need law, they need grace. When they transgress as they will, you should not be surprised. Don't ever underestimate the evil and the deception of the human heart.

Don't underestimate it. But at the same time, you don't jump on them just simply, law, law, law, law. What you say is, you know, I understand what you did, and I'm really not surprised. You know, that's why Jesus came to die for us and to rescue us from ourselves and to give us the strength that we don't have. And you keep pointing them to a gracious, loving, accepting Jesus. There's something else that the children need, and that is praying parents. This is so important that I hope to preach an entire message on it near the end of the series of messages, praying parents. But why do they need praying parents? Why do children need parents who are following God?

Well, I'll tell you. It's because conversion is God's work, and it's not yours, and it's not mine. We think to ourselves, you know, as long as we teach them, ram it in, cram it in, people's heads are hollow, ram it in, cram it in, make sure there's more to follow. We think to ourselves, well, you know, we put them to Sunday school, we put them in camp, he memorized a hundred verses, so it's time for him to believe on Jesus.

Don't you think it's time to believe on Jesus? And the kid, well, yeah, I guess so. So parents say, pray this prayer, because we want to make sure you're in the kingdom.

A child grows up. There's no transformation of life at all. They live the way they've always lived. There's no evidence of the work of God in their hearts. And they begin to say, I wonder if I was really saved back then. And the parents unwisely say, oh, yeah, you were, because remember, you prayed this prayer when you were five years old.

Remember where we were? Because, oh, okay, I guess so. Parents, never presume that your child has savingly believed on Jesus. Let the Holy Spirit and the Word of God grant them the assurance.

And don't try to get, you know, the chicken out of the egg. You share the gospel with them lovingly. You share from your own experience of weakness how weak you are and how much you need the gospel. You humble yourself, because that's what grace is all about. And then having humbled yourself and shown them the gospel, you trust God to do a miracle that you can't do. I don't want to be misunderstood, but parents, don't overestimate your ability to bring up kids right so that they will follow the Lord with precision and make you proud. Don't overestimate your ability. You say, well, don't we have a promise in Proverbs 22, verse 6? Bring up a child in the way in which he should go, and afterwards you'll not depart from it? Well, I have news for you.

You can write this down. You know what the book of Proverbs is? It's a book of Proverbs. That's what it is.

Did you get it? Proverbs are not universally true. They are maxims by which we live our life. I could go through a whole list of Proverbs and show you that they always are not true.

For example, just one example. A soft answer turneth away wrath. Is that always true? Every time you get a soft answer and you give a soft answer, wrath is turned away?

No, no, no. Sometimes you give a soft answer and you're swatted across the face and you might even be jailed. It's not always true, but generally, yep.

Bring up kids this way? Yep, generally true. But don't overestimate your ability. You say, well, what are we left with? I mean, this is scary. I'll tell you what we're left with. We're left with calling on God for grace in our children's life that only God can supply.

That's what we're left with. Because you as a parent can change a child's behavior, what you cannot do is to change a child's heart. That is God's business. And all that we can do is to create an environment in which the gospel is shared and lived and trust God. And by the way, rules without relationship equals rebellion.

I should have said that earlier. Now first of all, grace means that only God is able to save children. Secondly, grace means that no disobedience, no disobedience is final or fatal, unless of course the child dies in disobedience. But you have no idea about God's ability to rescue people even from the pit. I was sharing with someone recently who was involved in moral failure and I read to him from Psalm 40. I waited patiently for the Lord. He heard my cry and he delivered me from the miry pit.

I think my translation says from the miry bog. In the deepest pit, God's been able to reach and deliver. There's a woman at prayer meeting whose name I will not mention. She's an elderly lady, but she is there every single Wednesday to pray.

So I asked her last week, I said, how many years have you been coming? And she said, ever since I came to the church 20 years ago. And she's been praying for a son. And she has been praying consistently not just 20 years, but even before that time.

And God has given her the assurance that someday her son will believe the gospel and be saved. No disobedience is fatal because grace works in unexpected ways. Thirdly, the grace of God, the grace of God often makes up for all kinds of human failure and sins. None of us is a perfect parent. I look back and wish that I could relive some of my days as a parent. My parents prayed a lot, and I'll tell you that story when I speak on prayer, but, boy, if you judge them by certain standards, they were not, you know, the ideal parents. Not sure if anybody has the ideal parents. And God sometimes comes along and He saves people and He transforms them despite their background. Some of you may be adopted and you don't know who your parents are. Some of you perhaps have been conceived out of wedlock. And so you've wondered about your worth. I'm here today to tell you that there are all kinds of people like this that I've met throughout the years who are mighty warriors for God because God's grace is greater than human failure and sin.

Aren't you glad for that? Just think for a moment. Joseph is one man in the Old Testament about whom there is no sin recorded. I mean, if any kid was perfect, it was Joseph. He was a little unwise in sharing this dream with his brothers.

He should have known that that wasn't going to go down very well. You know, I saw a dream, and in the dream, you guys bowed down to me. Oh, yeah.

Oh, we're very happy to do that, Joseph. But you know who his father was. His father played favorites with him all because the father loved that wife because she was more beautiful than the other wife that he married.

And so he loved these kids more than the others. Boy, is that ever sinful. That was the context. And by the way, this is a parenthesis.

You're getting it all free today as part of the program. I just was so amused when I discovered this. You know, it's Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, okay? Did you know that the ancestry, the ancestors of Jesus, go back not to Rachel, but to Leah, the one who wasn't pretty? I love God. God just says to Flui, with all this business of who looks best, I'm going to choose the unloved one, and it is going to be through her that Judah will be born, and then eventually Jesus from that line.

I can do whatever I like. I'm speaking on behalf of God when I say that, by the way, just so that you understand. I just marvel at God.

I shake my head and I say, wow. So here's Joseph brought up in that context, and he turned out pretty well, actually, betrayed by his brothers. I think, for example, of Moses, who was really reared by a woman who was a sun worshiper. She wasn't his mother, though his mother did have impact, because his mother was kind of the nurse that took care of Moses in his early years.

He turned out pretty well, actually, considering the fact that he didn't have a stable family that he could depend on. And then there's that one in the Old Testament that I've often thought about, a man by the name of Ahaz, who was a wicked king. Not Ahab, he was wicked too, but I'm thinking of Ahaz. And the Bible says that he put up idols and did that which was evil in the sight of the Lord, and he has a son by the name of Hezekiah. Hezekiah is a righteous king.

He tears down the idols. There are some mistakes in his life, to be sure, but basically Hezekiah followed the Lord all the days of his life, the Bible tells us. And then, shock of all shocks, he has a son.

And the son's name is Manasseh, and it says, Manasseh did more evil in the sight of the Lord than all the others before him. How'd that happen? Was it Hezekiah's fault?

To what extent was it his fault? I don't know. It's just that the grace of God sometimes comes along and converts and changes in the most unlikely places, and then in the middle of all of this grace you also see the power of sin.

I don't know what your background was. I don't know where you are coming from, but I do know this, that if you reach out to God, grace can fill your life, the grace of forgiveness, the grace of acceptance, the grace of transformation. God changes our hearts. You see, when we're converted, born again, there's actually something within us that wasn't there at the beginning, because there's a new nature.

There's something created there that is supernatural, and that's what gets to the very heart of our desires. In this message, I've played off this whole thing about grace and law, so I conclude with a story from Jesus. Jesus loved stories. He said that two men went into a temple to pray. One said, I thank you, God, that I'm not like other people, adulterers, fornications.

I fast twice a week. The other man, your member, wouldn't look up to God. He couldn't look God in the eye, so to speak. He was a publican. He was a sinner.

He was an outcast. But the Bible says he smote his breast and just said, God, be merciful to me, the sinner. The great says, be propitiated to me, the sinner. Jesus said, which one do you think went home justified? You know, I can't help but think that today I'm speaking to two classes of people. In fact, I know I am in this large crowd and those who are listening by other means. I'm talking to the man who may be sitting there, arms folded, and saying, you know, this business of church and God and Jesus is good for women, children.

I like the idea of giving my children some kind of a moral foundation. I don't need redemption. I've had a hard life, and I've done well.

I've worked hard. I've played by the rules. Then I can imagine somebody who's in the far country and who would say to me, pastor, if you knew even what I did this past week, you'd know that God could never accept me.

He's so mad at me. And I say that if you are willing to pray the prayer of the publican, God be propitiated to me the sinner. God, no matter how high your standard is, it doesn't matter as long as you meet it for me.

You set the standard. And then in Jesus, he meets it on my behalf so that I can freely be forgiven and to be received. That is the gospel.

Luther put it very clearly and simply. Oh, Jesus, I am thy sin. Thou art my righteousness. Our great contribution to salvation is we bring our sin. His contribution is to take it from there and redeem us and forgive us and adopt rebels into his family and make them sons and daughters of the Almighty. That's what God does. And he'll do that for you if you believe on him. Would you find a child that you can pray for?

I forgot to mention the assignment for this week, but it's in the bulletin. If you will, let us pray. Father, as this message has gone out, it's fallen into many, many hearts, some open, some closed, some angry, some receptive. Oh, Father, the work of salvation is your work.

At this point, we just back off and say we have nothing more to say. You have to bring conviction. You have to grant faith.

You have to do everything from here on out. Before I close this prayer, no matter where you are, would you cry up to the Lord wherever you are and say, Jesus, I'm thy sin. You are my righteousness.

I receive you now. I receive your grace. Father, we thank you that the work you've begun in us will be complete in Jesus' name. Amen. Would you stand as we close this morning? On today's Moody Church Hour, Dr. Erwin Lutzer spoke about children, God's special gift, number six in a ten-part series on fighting for your family.

Video games, smartphones, and the Internet, a mixed blessing to be sure, since they open a Pandora's box of destructive influences on your kids. Next week, Pastor Lutzer takes us to Nehemiah chapter 4 as he speaks on The Enemy Inside Your Home. Our current series can be yours on CD as our thank you for a gift of any amount to The Moody Church Hour. Just call us at 1-800-215-5001. Let us know you'd like to support Dr. Lutzer's ministry.

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